My girlfriend said she wanted to break up with me, but she was reluctant

Updated on psychology 2024-03-05
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That is, her heart and hands are meat, and the back of her hands is meat.

    You can tell her, you can wait for her. No matter how long. You wait.

    She just went to study It's not empathy anymore, in fact, you don't have to break up so seriously, you can ask her, why do you want to break up? Career? When she finishes her studies and has a job, you can also take advantage of this time to work hard to save more money, and when she finishes her studies and her job is stable, you can plan for the future, or ask your girlfriend to talk to her parents when she finishes studying.

    Personally, I think that she is just going to study, and she doesn't need to break up so seriously. And you love her, you can wait for her.

    Mi has money that can be saved slowly and earned slowly, but love is not money, it doesn't mean that if you love it, you won't love it, and it will take a long time for you to let go of her, right, is money more important to her than you? Do you care more than your beloved? You ask her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You must cherish it, I am a role model, really, since we cherish each other, what is there to hesitate, don't let the hearts of both parties change in the redemption of the late, now the two sides are starting to struggle, and when there is a foundation, even if it is a year, as long as they love each other, they will be together. I believe that lovers will eventually become married!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Dizzy! At the age of 21, if you are not married, you are a young man in Daling??? It's too exaggerated, I'm 27 and still single, there are more of us like me, and there are more than 30 singles, according to the landlord, then I'm not an "old youth"? Don't scare me!

    I'm in Shanghai.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't give up, I want you to be together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To love one another is to believe that love can overcome everything.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think my girlfriend proposed to break up, but he said that he was reluctant, then in this case, the girlfriend may really love you, but it may indeed be that the two people are not suitable for each other, so even if they like you, they are reluctant. will also break up with you, after all, there may be no hope for the future.

    My girlfriend proposed to break up, and she said that she was reluctant, and she should be satisfied with you and dissatisfied, which is a more tangled state. Can you keep trying? You need to judge for yourself, and if you were more resolute, she might not have proposed to break up.

    Because people have feelings, and after getting along with a person for a long time, they must be reluctant to leave suddenly, but she can't see hope for you as a person, so it is normal to break up with you, and don't have any illusions.

    I think this situation still depends on the situation, and it may indeed be because the two people are really inappropriate. So even if you like it, there's no other way, and of course it's possible that it's just an excuse for him.

    Because after the breakup, she found out that she still loves you and really can't let go, after the breakup, she feels regretful, and after regretting, she wants how to recover and wants to get back together.

    2.After the breakup, she also kept the gifts you gave her and kept them hidden.

    After the breakup, she often goes to two mutual friends to ask about you, she has always cared about you and paid attention to your situation, she still can't keep you in her heart, or is unwilling to forget you, she even asked friends to help convey her kindness, she said that she is willing to continue to communicate with you, she actively finds ways to eliminate misunderstandings and other problems between the two people.

    3.After the breakup, she often goes to your space to read the log, watch you talk, look at your photo album, and often give it to your circle of friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I really don't love you anymore.

    I can't bear you because in some ways, I still have attachment to you, or habits.

    When this habit slowly fades, she will start to be sober, or suspicious, so indifference to you will normalize.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My girlfriend offered me to break up, but she said she wasn't willing to break up with me. I should be happy with you and dissatisfied with you. It belongs to the tangled state. Can you keep up the good work? You need to make your own judgment. If you were more determined, she might not break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This means that it is not her reason that she is breaking up with you now, it may be that her parents do not approve of your relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It means that he doesn't like you, but maybe you are very good to your girlfriend, so he is not willing to say it, so he also wants you to be good to him, but he also doesn't want to be with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, if you love each other deeply, of course you should keep it, but it also depends on the reason for the breakup, you can only say that the specific situation is analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you can keep it, and if this girl is really important to you, I think you can try to win her heart, maybe it can be successful.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since you can't bear your girlfriend, you should keep it. After all, the other party just wants to break up with you, which means that the other party has an opinion on you, and you have to seriously change yourself at this time. Communicate well with your girlfriend and strive for the other party to give you a chance.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course you have to keep it. After all, it's you who can't be reluctant, not him, if you don't keep it, this relationship can only end. So.

    If your girlfriend is particularly nostalgic for you. I suggest you use all your resources to keep it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You said it yourself, if the girl broke up with you, you were a little reluctant in your heart, and since you were reluctant, you must keep it. It's rare to have someone you like, and since you've met it, you should grasp it well, no matter what the result is, at least you've worked hard.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't want to break up with you, but you are reluctant, you should keep it, are you reluctant to give your girlfriend, or are you reluctant to give the relationship? If the feelings are sincere, use your sincere heart to keep him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Personally, I think that the girl proposed to break up with you, it must have been carefully considered, and I think that two people who have no future will be happy together, since this is the case, there is no need to keep it, even if you are reluctant, there is no way, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, and her heart is no longer with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should keep it, you are still very affectionate towards your girlfriend, you should apologize to your girlfriend, and you should also make some changes so that you can get your girlfriend back.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you don't want to give up your girlfriend, then it's better to keep him. Maybe you did something wrong, so he wants to separate from you, and you try to correct it in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since I can't bear this feeling in my heart and can't let go, then of course I need to keep it. You need to know what the problem is.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Personally, I think that if your girlfriend wants to break up with you, then there is no need to win her back, because she definitely doesn't like you anymore.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If the relationship is no longer there, or the girlfriend has been empathetic and don't fall in love, then even if you are reluctant, don't keep it anymore.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since your reluctant girlfriend wants to break up with you, of course you have to do your best to keep him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because if I want to break up with you, but you are still reluctant, I think you should keep it, because you still want to be with him in your heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it's better to keep it, maybe it's just a mouth, if you don't keep it, it's just a matter of saying it and leaving it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then you have to think about one of the reasons for your breakup, and then change what you can, and then keep him, after all, now you are reluctant to others, not others are reluctant to you.

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