Is it worth falling out with your family for love?

Updated on society 2024-04-05
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Absolutely. But sometimes it depends on whether you love it or not. Loving is not the same as being loved!

    If he or she loves you and you love him/her, that's naturally the best. It's not worth falling out with your parents for love. Because you love him (her) no matter how you say it, it depends on who gave you the opportunity to love him, it was your parents who brought you into this world, and it was your parents who gave you the opportunity to fall in love with him.

    I think family affection is greater than love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's right to love someone Look at it differently from different angles It's right from the perspective of love It's wrong from the perspective of your parents As long as you like it, stick to it Persistence is victory I wish you happiness Thank you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think it's worth it... Especially girls... I once fell out with my own family over my boyfriend...

    Until now ... It's been a long time since I broke up with my boyfriend... Instead, their own family came to comfort themselves to look away...

    Anyway ... The only thing that can tolerate oneself unconditionally is family ...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I used to tell others that family affection is the most important, and if family affection and love can only choose one or the other, I will definitely choose family affection.

    But now that I've really come across it, I'm hesitant. I really don't want to give up on someone who is very nice and nice to me. I think I'll try my best to convince my family that if there's really no way, I'll be with the person I love, after all, he's for life.

    As for my parents, one day they will understand that I made the right choice, and then they will forgive me for my waywardness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's okay to love someone, but there's no need to fall out with your family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not worth it, your family will always be with you, especially your parents Do you feel worthy of them? Besides, women are so realistic now, there are too many cases of turning their faces, think about it yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's right, but it's a sensible contrast, and if you think it's worth loving, then family is secondary.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The problem is that you have to look at people, if you can't see accurately, I think it's better to forget it, don't fall out, and vice versa, this is related to the happiness of your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no need to fall out with your family

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because of the disconnection between love and family, I don't think it's worth it. I believe that most girls also feel that they are not worth it, but there will always be some people whose IQ will drop when they are in love. There are even times when he will hurt the relationship between himself and his parents because of another person, and I believe that he should regret it after a long time, but at that time it should have made his parents sad.

    And I don't know how others are, anyway, in my opinion, in fact, love is not so reliable. Maybe you're losing money during your relationship, and you feel like he's all you have, and you think he's even more important in your life than your parents. <>

    But in fact, that's just what you think when you're in love, once you have some conflicts, at that time you may feel that you have no one around you to confide in, and even sometimes you even abandon your family affection, and even your parents may no longer want to protect you. I think that if you regret it at that time, it will be the most fatal, because at that time you have lost your love, and maybe even the family relationship with your parents will be lost. I feel that if I regret it at that time, I will really have nothing.

    So no matter what time you're shorting, you have to keep yourself sane. <>

    You can love the person you like, but you have to know that the status of your parents is something that no one can shake. Because if you have any conflicts with the people around you in the future, you will find that there is no choice behind you, and the only people who support you are your parents. Others, even girlfriends and people you like, they won't necessarily be able to do it.

    I have also seen some people who broke off their relationship with their family for love, and many people were accusing her at that time, saying that she was a white-eyed wolf, and her parents raised him for so long, and finally broke off the relationship with her parents because of a man. <>

    But some people say that this is for love, in fact, it is understandable that it is pure practice, but within five or six years, that person came back, and even came to his parents to apologize, saying that he had done wrong and was sorry for his parents. I don't know exactly how it will be resolved. But I only know that at least his youth in those years was delayed, and he also had such a big conflict with his parents, which made the villagers feel that he was very ashamed.

    So if you can really do this for love, it's quite incomprehensible. I don't know what other people think, anyway, I don't think it's worth it, because your relationship with anyone, whether it's love or friendship, is not as good as the relationship with your own parents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When it comes to love, each of us is very much looking forward to it. Because we all know that love is happy, and it is very sweet.

    Especially when we meet someone we like, then many people will care more about each other and love each other, because we know that when we can care more attentively. And love the people we like, so that in the end we can be with the people we like to be able to have happiness and sweet love.

    Although love is happy and very sweet, sometimes we still see that although we like each other very much, the object we like can't get the consent of the family, so some people want to know if you will choose to break up because of the partner's family?

    Maybe for a small number of people, they will indeed be like this, because in fact, each of us also wants to be recognized by the family. Only with the approval of the family can we and each other be better together and get along. If the person we like and their family doesn't like us, it will make our love a lot of twists and turns.

    So if a lot of people have a partner and the family doesn't choose us, then they may really choose to break up, because only in this way can they find a suitable person.

    But we see that it is actually for most people who love each other. If the family does not agree, then they will try to convince their family that they may have some prejudice against the person they like. In fact, as long as their family members see that the person they like can always care and take care of them, they can actually understand our love.

    Therefore, if in love, the family does not understand and support us for the time being, then many people will be very positive and will be very proactive. To let their family know that the love between them is very sweet, and I believe that through their own efforts, their family members will be able to understand the love between them, so that the family will also support and understand him.

    Therefore, many people will not give up easily for love, even if they are family members, they may not agree for the time being, they will also work hard to change their family's minds, and it is through their active efforts that their family members will eventually be able to agree with their love, so that they can finally have a happier and sweeter love with the person they like.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Experience you with me.

    My brother fell out with my parents because of love, because his first girlfriend was five years older than my brother, my parents objected, and my married parents were unwilling to give him money, so my brother had a big quarrel with my parents, and he and my father started to fight at that time, and then he went to Guangzhou, and finally found a girl who worked in Guangzhou to marry and sell off. So far, more than 20 years have passed, and my brother has only been home three times.

    My brother went home for the first time, because his original unit leader asked him to come back to report, otherwise the company would fire him, so he came back, after arriving home he told my parents that he found a girlfriend in Guangzhou, my parents objected, my parents said that the family enterprise is a central enterprise, you run Guangzhou like a migrant worker wandering around unstable, not a long-term solution, my brother said that the girl in Guangzhou was very good to her, so he quarreled with his parents again, that night he went to Guangzhou again, and was fired from the unit at the same time, my mother was crying urgently, and she was mentally ill. So far, my brother has never been home until he got married and had children.

    The second time my brother came home, my dad died of lung cancer. When my dad was hospitalized with lung cancer, I called my brother, and my brother said, "If you don't die, what's the use of me going back?"

    Can I go back and he'll be cured?" He refused to come back to see my dad. A month or two later, my dad died, and I called my brother again, and my brother said:

    This man is dead, so what's the use of me going back? You can do it at home for the Hereafter." He refused to come back.

    My mother, who was sitting next to me, snatched my mobile phone and cried at my brother and said, "Your brother was sick and went to Qi Danshi and you didn't come back, and now you don't come back when your own son dies, how much enmity can you have with your parents?" Then my brother came back to mourn, but by the time I got home, my dad had already been cremated.

    Because of the day's journey, he walked for four days to get home, there was a direct train to Guangzhou, he said that the bus was not delayed, and I didn't wait for him to come back and cremated my father.

    My brother went home for the third time, it was my mother who had a cerebral infarction, I thought my mother was going to die again, so I called ** again to let my brother come back, I said that now my mother is the only one left, and I may not have the opportunity to see my mother again in the future, this time he came back quickly, and waited until my mother was well, he went to Guangzhou again, and my brother disturbed the train ticket I bought for him.

    My brother is 51 years old this year, I look back on my brother for most of his life, from young to now, he has never given his parents a penny, all the expenses of his adoptive parents are all paid by me, including now raising my mother is borne by me alone, and my brother had bone cancer for three years until he died, my brother did not come back to take a look, the reason is that his wife gave birth to a child, does a woman give birth to a child for three years?

    I think that if a person falls out with his parents because of love, and treats his parents as enemies and his family as enemies, then this person can almost judge him as a selfish person.

    The last sentence: I won't be my brother's kind of person, so I won't fall out with my parents because of love. Because we don't owe the nurturing grace of our lovers, but we owe the nurturing grace of our parents, and the grace of dripping water should be reciprocated by a gushing spring, let alone the nurturing grace of our parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Parents are the people who have come over and are experienced in blocking gods, and their opinions should also be referred to, you must know that your parents will not harm you, for your good, and for your lifelong happiness, at least don't fall out with your parents, you think it's right, patiently negotiate and communicate with your parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I quarreled with my parents for love and wanted to leave home.

    It is said that falling out with your parents for the sake of love can be understood as your parents not agreeing, and you insist on being with your true love, which makes you want to abandon your parents for true love.

    When we are still very young, we may be desperate for an unworthy relationship, confused by some external appearances, and unable to see the hidden crisis behind, and insist on going alone.

    As an elder, parents may look at your so-called true love as an elder, a person from the hall of death, they will use their own experience to weigh whether you can achieve real and long-term happiness in this relationship, when they see the truth behind your relationship, feel that your so-called true love can not bring you happiness at all, he will often participate in the search without hesitation to prevent this relationship.

    And we are immersed in the relationship, we will have conflicts with our parents because of this, some parents will be very tough, must achieve the goal of breaking up the relationship, as their children, they do not want to see our future misfortune. In fact, many times there must be a reason why Dapi is not optimistic about his parents' feelings. Economic conditions, family background, smiling and imitating character, the matching degree of two people, etc., will be considered.

    So since our parents are so opposed, we should calm down and think about whether this true love is worth it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm not going to fall out with my parents for love.

    Love and parents are not a multiple-choice question, and they are not contradictory in themselves.

    Thankfully, my parents were more open-minded and fully respected my opinions in the choice of mates, and did not impose their views on me.

    When I first fell in love, in order to spend more time with my girlfriend, I chose to give up the opportunity to travel with my parents and family during the Chinese New Year, and I felt very sorry for my parents when they were disappointed, and I never made this terrible choice again.

    There is not only one choice for many things in life, and communication and thinking can lead us to find another better solution.

    It is not easy for our parents to raise us, and we will get to know our parents very well in the process of getting along with them, and know their requirements in terms of mate selection. Therefore, when we choose a mate, we should take into account the attitude of our parents. Don't always wait until the end to expose the romance to your parents, not giving them any choice, so that there will be conflicts.

    Love is important, family is even more important. If you want to have both, be sure to mediate in between. It is necessary to follow the advice of your parents, and try your best to communicate with them in the hope of receiving their blessings.

    I believe that most parents are still for the good of their children, they are not for their own temporary preferences and categorically block their children's marriage, but more for the sake of their children's future. If you can show your parents your determination to build a better future with your lover, why would they object?

    If it really comes to the point where it must be stiff and irreparable, I suggest that you still follow the advice of your parents, if you choose to turn your back on your parents, how happy can you be in the future? How will your children hurt you in the future?

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