I can t find a girlfriend all the time, I m so irritable, and I m not in the mood to go to work now?

I think it's okay for you to ask relatives and friends to introduce you, or go to more parties and meet some new friends, then it will increase your chances of finding a girlfriend.

I can't find a girlfriend all the time, you can choose the method that suits you, or look for it on the Internet, or rely on friends in reality, or relatives to introduce you, or go on a blind date, I don't think it's necessary, because you are in a bad mood because of finding a partner, just go with the flow, the main thing is that you should adjust your mentality.

You put aside the matter of finding a girlfriend, find a job first, and then talk about your life when you are stable. You don't have a girlfriend to live, no job, no income, no life, you don't live. Some problems have to be thought left and right, marriage is to be fateful, and there are many people who don't have girlfriends.

1. Self-reflection on your past words and deeds Whether there is indeed something inappropriate Whether your words of comforting your girlfriend are really annoying and verbose If you have it, you will be encouraged if you don't change it Human nature is very complicated Look at the shortcomings of others and see it clearly Look at your own heart but there are many reasons to comfort yourself.

2. If the shortcomings she said are all "sins added to desire", then there are two situations: (1) she may have another favorite object, and she gradually has a boredom with you, and she can't find a suitable reason to break up with you; (2) her outlook on life and values are different, and her personality is really inappropriate; but no matter what the reason, let go when she should let go.

3. I already have a certain dependence and trust on you I just want to vent my emotions with you The so-called "the closer the person, the easier it is to lose her temper" If this is the case, then be more tolerant and understanding Try to help her solve her troubles.

4. She told you about her troubles not to let you comfort her, but to let you take action to help her solve her troubles, but you nagged for a long time.

Such a girlfriend has a very poor sense of security, her own personality is not very mature, this is related to her own growth environment, if she does not grow herself, then you will be very painful and tired to get along with her, so, you seriously consider your relationship, if you really love her, I am afraid you will have to learn the way she gets along, if you yourself are not particularly mature, not capable enough, then maybe you get along with her will give you a lot of burden and unhappiness.

If the girl is unhappy and finds fault with you, you can just bear with it or explain it to him.

If you love very much, learn to be tolerant, often girls are a little willful, more tolerant and more understanding, basically there is no trouble.

Summary. The work is stressful, so it will affect his mood, so you should not make a mess and help him do something you can, for example, you can invite him to dinner and watch a movie to relax.

My girlfriend has been depressed lately, and I'm under a lot of pressure at work, so what should I do?

The work pressure is high, so it will affect his tone imitation Lu mood and belt, so you should not make a mess, and do a lot of things you can do for him, for example, you can invite him to dinner, watch a movie to relax.

You can help me reply.

You can reply to her, I'll take care of you a little bit, and I hope I can do what I can for you.

I'll ask you to get back to me for a while.

I can't do it without him right now.

It's been so long, you help me reply, help me reply, help me reply.

1. Do it yourself.

For some, why do they have to look for a job? In addition to the stress of life, some people have a loss of self-confidence and a sign of laziness. I always want to hold an empty bowl in my hand and eat it in someone else's pot, so that I can live a stable life without taking risks.

However, when you can't find such an opportunity, you just do it yourself.

Someone asked, what do people do if they don't have money in their hands? It's very simple, there are a lot of small businesses in the market that don't require much capital, such as roadside food stalls, collecting rags along the street, selling fruits in the vegetable market, and setting up stalls in the night market, these are all ways to make money.

2. It is to do self-a**.

I've been telling readers that in this regard, for a person, being self-leading has an advantage, and he can support himself, and many people think that they can't do it, but it's actually very simple. Prepare three months' rations first, and then learn and create with peace of mind, there will definitely be gains, as for the amount of income, it all depends on personal efforts, how can it be so difficult? Especially for some people who have their own experience and knowledge, their own thoughts, concepts, and expertise, with their own hard work, they can definitely open another sky, why do you have to look at other people's faces?

Why leave your fate in the hands of someone else? What problem can be solved by temporary stability, isn't it? It's better to calm down and give it a go.

This matter is not a matter of urgency, there is a lot of work, whether it is suitable or not depends on it, one of their own ability, the second is whether the treatment can meet their own, in this case, it is recommended to find a class first, in the middle of the change.

I haven't found a job recently, I'm very irritable, and I understand your state, but ahaha, the future is bright, and it's another village, so when you continue to work hard, you will suddenly be bright, I wish you a job as soon as possible. The main thing is that you have to look forward.

First of all, I think that there is no job and no income during this period, so we should face it calmly, accept the reality, and face this difficulty. During this period, you should make a plan for your future path, find a job that suits you and has a long-term development space for early learning and exploration, which is also paving the way for yourself in advance.

Make a development plan for yourself first, re-clarify your thinking, plan your future direction, and then reserve your knowledge. When the epidemic is over, then we can practice. I think you must be patient with irritability, adjust a positive attitude, and don't show this irritability in front of your family, after all, you are not the only one who is irritable.

It can also be understood in this way, taking this time as a stepping stone on the road to maturity.

In short, make a plan for yourself during this period, and in which direction will you go in the future? Have you ever set yourself a small goal first? In this direction, I wish you to find a satisfying job as soon as possible.

That's all I can tell you, be prepared to break up in a long-distance relationship!

Long-distance relationships are the most unbearable feelings for girls. Even if you do it perfectly, she will think that you are not doing enough!

A girl's emotions can't be inferred by common sense, she may ignore the inconvenience caused by your distance, if when this girl is hesitant and helpless, if there is another boy at this time... The danger factor increases!

Friend, at this juncture, there is only one way to redeem herself: speed back to her. If you can let it all go! At the very least, take time out to spend a lot of time with her, and then Xiang Fang is in a city with her.

Be yourself, you may be too concerned about her feelings, so give her the feeling that you are very unassertive, for such a situation, you still need a lot of effort, as a last resort, and giving up is not a bad thing.

As soon as a girl falls in love, she is stupid, she thinks that you are his everything, you have to love her, hold her, protect her, coax her、、、 you also have to understand all her requirements, just like the roundworm in her stomach, she just remembers, you do ,,, ,,, hard.

Because it's a long-distance relationship, there will be a kind of panic in each other's hearts, and the lack of security has made your girlfriend's sense of security missing, so you have to reflect on it, and now you should talk to him well, first of all, you should show your current attitude and improvement methods, and make it clear that you are what he can rely on, increase his sense of security, and also show that you are not right, and you are not standing in his position to help him solve the problem, and next time it will not be.

Love is not said by mouth, even if you don't buy her the phone, you have to accompany her to buy it, not to mention that the mobile phone is not expensive, you are really stingy.