My boyfriend only buys me food and drinks and doesn t give me money to spend?

It's normal. Not only do I not need my boyfriend to give me money to spend, but I also don't need him to buy me food and drink, I have my own money and can meet my own expenses, so why spend my boyfriend's money? What if you use your boyfriend's money and he settles accounts with you when you break up?

If you don't pay back the money, he will say that you are immoral, because he spends money, he has to dominate your relationship, only he can dump you, not you. How do you reply to him?

So, not spending your boyfriend's money is to maintain your independence in a relationship.

I don't think the relationship between you has reached a certain level. He just buys you something to eat and drink. When your sister is really emotionally mature, I believe he will spend money for you.

Don't worry about whether you spend money or not, the most important thing is that you have to see if this person can do it. If this person is really the type you want, you can get along well with him. If people don't spend money on you when they are friends, it will not be good for you after getting married, and you will not be happy.

My feeling is that this boy has not yet reached a certain level in his mind, and I think that when he is old enough to do so, he should be willing to spend money on you.

First of all, it is important to understand that gift-giving and providing financial support are two different behaviors and cannot simply be equated. If your boyfriend just buys you food and drinks but doesn't provide financial support, it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't care about you or doesn't love you enough. Because everyone's financial situation and perceptions are different, he may also have different ways of expressing love.

If you are not satisfied or have concerns, you should communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend and express your thoughts and feelings. Tell him that you want more financial support, or explain why you want him to be able to give you some money. At the same time, it is also important to understand your boyfriend's financial situation and pressures, as well as his personal opinions and habits.

In the process of communication, each other's opinions and feelings need to be respected in order to reach a consensus and solve problems. If you can agree on a solution together, then your relationship will be stronger and healthier.

Your boyfriend only buys you food and drinks and doesn't give you money, which is normal in this case, and maybe he doesn't have much money. The normal period is the object, and you don't need to spend the money of the south, it is better to spend your own money if you have it.

It's okay to buy you food and drink, why do you want to give you money to spend, don't you blush when you say this, it's just a boyfriend, and I'm not married yet. Saying that you don't make money yourself, you always expect your boyfriend to give you money to spend.

My boyfriend only buys me food, and he doesn't give me money to spend, I think as a girl, she buys you food, and it's best to buy and drink, and as money, I think I can earn a little bit, after all, it's impossible to talk even if it depends on men, and women have to be self-reliant.

In this case, it means that your boyfriend is also relatively short of money, so there is no money for you to spend, two people should communicate together, communicate, don't care about money.

My boyfriend only buys me food and doesn't give me money for drink, maybe your boyfriend is stingy.

Who said that your boyfriend must give you money to spend, what he buys you is also money, and love is mutual.

Girls still have to be financially independent, don't think about spending men's money, unreliable, or rely on themselves is the most down-to-earth.

If your boyfriend only buys you food and drink, and doesn't give you money to spend, I don't think it's true to you.

If he is poor, he will divide it early.

Summary. Hello dear because your boyfriend loves you, so he doesn't want to spend your money, if he spends your money, you have to save money, he is distressed. A man who loves you won't spend your money, won't ask you to pay every time, won't just accept your gifts and never give them to you.

He is afraid that you will look down on him and leave him, and he will never let you see his embarrassment and embarrassment easily. The man who loves you just wants to work hard to make money for you to spend, buy you beautiful clothes and bags, and satisfy all your buying desires, as long as you are happy. He is afraid that you will have no money to spend, you can't afford expensive clothes, and you will be despised and sad.

My boyfriend won't let me spend money to buy him anything.

Hello dear because your boyfriend loves you, so he doesn't want to spend your money, if he spends your money, you have to save money, he is distressed. A man who loves you won't spend your money, won't ask you to pay every time, won't just accept your gifts and never give them to you. He is afraid that you will look down on him and leave him, and he will never let you see his embarrassment and embarrassment easily.

The man who loves you just wants to work hard to make money for you to spend, buy you beautiful clothes and bags, and satisfy all your buying desires, as long as you are happy. He is afraid that you will have no money to spend, you can't afford expensive clothes, and you will be despised and sad.

Therefore, if you meet such a good man who doesn't let you buy a gift for him, you should really cherish it. You must know that such a good man has become a rarity in the world.

My boyfriend won't spend money on me probably because of the following reasons:

1.He may not be financially well-off, or he may have exceeded his spending power.

2.He may have a different view of money and relationships, believing that gifts and money are not a way to show love and care.

3.He may not be emotionally closed enough to you, or he may not be sure if your relationship is stable and therefore does not want to spend too much money on you.

In the end, different men have different ways of thinking and behaving, and they can't be generalized. If you're confused or dissatisfied, try to communicate with your boyfriend to understand his thoughts and feelings and find a way to get along with each other.

I think liking is that he not only has to pay emotionally, but also materially, but your current situation shows that boys will only work talking, talking, and making you happy. This is his merit. You have been with him for a year, and you have spent a lot of money this year, but he has not said to help you share it; He also said in front of you that he wanted to buy shoes and pants, which means that this boy is used to spending your money, he thinks that you are more generous in spending money, and you spent 3000 on clothes and shoes, which just means that your family conditions are better than this boy.

This guy is also very clear.

If a boy can only say, rely on humor to make you happy, know that the family situation is not good, do not work hard to make money, and have no sense of responsibility. Such a person is not suitable to be a friend or a boyfriend.

Your boyfriend has this personality, what did you do in the first place? It's your choice! He doesn't spend money on you, does he spend money on others?

If he just doesn't spend money on you, if he spends money on others, you should pay attention, if he doesn't spend money on others, because he is so picky, like this, just to save money for himself, he won't spend money indiscriminately, if you don't spend money on her, will she not be very happy? You have to try, he loves you, not just words, you have to show how much, right? If you feel awkward, you should break up in time to avoid falling deeper and deeper into more and more distress.

First of all, I think it's very bad behavior for a boy to ask a girl to spend money for him and pay for him. I can tolerate a boy not spending money on a girl or buying her gifts, but I can't tolerate asking a girl to buy something for her to pay the bill.

Looking at the process of getting along with the two of you, it is true that there are not many men like your boyfriend, but there are still some men who are just rare to see this kind of man, not to mention how many things to buy you, at least a big man's own things are embarrassed to let his girlfriend pay, but you meet it, it depends on whether you can accept it, if you can't accept it, separate early, if you can accept it, you have to accept his character and practice.

Divide, must be divided, a man's money is in the **heart**, don't stick it upside down when the time comes, and be said to be stingy, don't look at what a man says to you, look at what he does for you, don't do anything, just rely on a mouth, just say love, anyway, I don't believe it. Girl, find someone who really treats you. People are not afraid of not knowing etiquette, but they are afraid that they will not learn.

If he really cares about you, he will definitely know your customs in advance, or what you should pay attention to when going to the woman's house for the first time, and think about how to make a good impression on your family. But he didn't do anything.

It's up to you whether you're willing to pay for him or not. Anyway, this kind of boy is not worthy of praise.

If you feel disgusting, you shouldn't be together, there is a gap between the two, if he doesn't change, you won't last long, unless you discuss with him, if he is willing to change, you can be together, but he doesn't want to change or it's better to divide it as soon as possible, the two of them should be honest, if he really wants to buy something for you, he won't ask but buy it directly, and there is always a person in the relationship who pays badly.

can only say that you are a fool, such a person is really not worthy of your love for him, you better wake up, otherwise you will suffer in the future, since he is not willing to spend money for you, you think he will spend money for you in the future, it can only be said that this kind of person is not enterprising, and will only spend women's money.

No divide, keep it for the New Year? Reluctant to spend money on your head, do you make sure to love you? I'm also a man, I can't do this kind of thing, I feel that this man is too stingy and not a man.

Your boyfriend is not willing to spend money for you before he gets married, and he will not be willing to spend money for you after he gets married. I can get a wife for nothing, I don't have to spend money to marry, I can be a nanny in the future, and I can also make money for my own use, how good.

Your boyfriend should be accustomed to your dedication to him, once a habit is formed, it will be difficult to change, a year is enough time for your boyfriend to develop the habit of only spending your money, so the parents who go to see you for the first time do not want to buy gifts, if you don't have the idea of breaking up with him, you can only accept his habit.

Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai, one is willing to fight, and the other is willing to suffer! But to be honest, a guy is reluctant to spend money on his girlfriend, and a fool can tell that he doesn't like you!

I have a colleague in the same situation as you, I don't know how much my boyfriend spent on her, I grew up very beautiful, and there are a lot of boys chasing her, who knows, I just like this, and finally broke up, or the boy mentioned it.

Is it that he doesn't like you and he plays with you, the average boyfriend will be willing to spend money to buy things for his girlfriend, I haven't seen anything like you.

Such a boyfriend is too stingy, even if he loves you, he always asks you to spend money for him without spending money for you, are you happy? Just be willing.

Do you dare to cohabit with such a person before marriage? It's just a poor bastard, a miser. I don't know what to do with the least etiquette? Want to live a depressed life?

If that's the case, I think you can talk to him, and if his attitude hasn't changed, it's time to give it up.

Divide it! He's not for you, someone like him. Not deserving of you.

It should never be a little difficult to say that couples should communicate more with each other.

He loves you, it's just a matter of stinginess, personality, didn't his family give him a bracelet of several thousand yuan, which means that his mother is still very satisfied with you, at this time you can start from his mother and tell his mother about the situation.