How do boys deal with girls who keep slandering themselves?

But make your attitude clear, you can't say, because she is a girl, you are a boy and you have to keep tolerating her, we all have to understand, tolerance is necessary, but tolerance also has a certain limit, there is a little tolerance, it should, after all, she is indeed a girl, you are a boy, tolerating her is also a result that we all recognize, but you tolerate them is also limited, if what he does has a certain impact on your own interests, Or if it has a certain impact on your life, then you have to make some resistance. There are some such girls around me, and I don't know what kind of mentality they have towards the boys around me, or rather, some girls. Always spread some news that is very different to them with the attitude of knowing them very well.

For example, some girls like to gossip, telling others that this and that are good, which girl they have a leg with or what. In these, after being described by her, she deliberately added some of her own opinions, and then spread her own views as correct views, which finally caused some inconvenience to the parties. In fact, I think these girls are just seeking a sense of their presence in front of others, and then they will tell other people's things as stories.

Some untrue things spread too widely, it will cause some troubles to some people's lives, I believe you should also have such troubles, if the girls around you always slander you, you also feel that it brings great inconvenience to your life. So if what others do has a certain impact on their normal life, they must fight back directly. For example, you can tell him straight to the point, hoping that he will not talk about you in the future, and your relationship with him is not so good.

If you find out that she is spreading something that you don't exist, then you will make some counterattacks, and you can warn him first.

Boys, you can't be as stingy as girls, and you have to worry about everything. Even if you don't think about it, others will think that this boy is like this. So in the face of a girl who keeps slandering herself, she can't slander her behind her back with her girlfriends like a girl, and she can't be scolded back like this in person.

At this time, you have to calm down, no one is so boring and keeps slandering you every day.

If a boy encounters a girl who keeps slandering him, he should have a better mentality at this time. If you haven't done anything wrong, and that girl slanders you for no reason, you have to be calm in the face of this girl, and when she doesn't exist, don't care about the deterioration she says. Anyway, it's all slanderous words, there is not much truth, don't look at it, don't listen to it, just pretend that you haven't known this girl.

Anyway, we have to maintain our gentlemanly demeanor, no one bites us like a mad dog, and we can't bite this girl back like a mad dog, so it seems that we are too ungraceful.

The most important thing is to face the girl who keeps slandering herself, it's good to be angry with her slander, and you must not quarrel with her or fight. If girls are compared to boys in terms of strength, they are a disadvantaged group. Even if this girl is wrong, once she makes a move, the reason will not be on your side.

You can do this to tell her to stop slandering herself and solve problems in person.

After saying that, if that girl still keeps slandering you, then the attitude towards her is not to turn a blind eye, but to avoid her as much as possible. Isn't there a saying that you can't hide if you can't be provoked? After avoiding her, her slander will be inaudible, out of sight, and her ears will be a little clearer.

This girl has been slandering for a long time, and she will find it boring. Naturally, the slander stopped.

First of all, I feel that as a man, I should look down on the slander of some women. Because a man can bend and stretch, sometimes he shouldn't care about some other people's cynicism, how can a person who has become a big thing care about these small details? But I'm only saying this to the boys who are occasionally sneered at by some girls.

If you are a boy and you are often slandered by some girls. The first thing I want to say is to be yourself yourself. Because the body is not afraid of shadows, even if she says that you are not good, but in my heart I think that I am like this, that is, what others say is someone else's opinion.

If, at this time, after being slandered by others, you yourself have a weak heart, it is absolutely not okay. Just like if a girl slanders you, you don't have a clear understanding of yourself in your own heart, and you feel that you are indeed like what this girl said, then this girl will feel that what she said is more and more right, and will continue to slander you in the future. If you continue to do your own thing after being slandered by him, then this girl will also feel that her slander will not cause you any harm, then she will gradually reduce the number of times she slanders you in the future, and even one day she will stop slandering you.

And if you really can't stand such slander from a girl. It's time for you to find some solutions. I, because this girl slandered you, not only to yourself.

And those who hear him slander you will have some prejudice against you in their hearts, which will cause you some other harm. So, you should take the way, let's say you, find a proper time and a proper place, go and ask this girl out, you two have a good talk, ask her if she really has any prejudice against you, or if there is any misunderstanding between the two of you. Therefore, if there is a problem, you should find a solution to the problem, instead of leaving the problem on hold, in this case, it will never be solved.

I'll admit that this kind of girl is very annoying. Obviously, I didn't do anything, so I had to point fingers at you behind my back and put all kinds of bad charges on you, so that others thought you were very bad, but it was also a headache to treat this kind of girl. Because first of all, you are a boy and she is a girl, and if you have any conflict with her, it is really not good, as if you are bullying girls.

Others will think that you are very ungraceful, and you can believe what she says better, and it will not affect you well. And if you don't reason with her, you'll make yourself uncomfortable if you let her say that. One will affect your character in the eyes of others.

This is indeed a dilemma.

First of all, what she said, don't rush to conclude that it's not yourself, and don't remember to refute it. First, go and reflect on yourself seriously to see if you really have these problems. If you really have these problems, you should correct them as soon as possible, lest others see your shortcomings and think that person is right.

If you want to reverse it, you have to dismantle her lies little by little.

Don't get angry when you hear this, don't show it too obviously even if you're angry in your heart, make others think you're very personable, remember the least moment is not when others slander you and you quarrel with others, others can't quarrel with you, but when others say you, you smile slightly, show your demeanor and don't care, your smile has perfectly told others that you are a person, and have resisted any justification. Slowly let others discover your character and find out that those are all her lies. In this way, no one will believe her even if she keeps saying that you will not be believed.

I also think that it is because of love and hate, and there are many people in today's society who are not psychologically normal, and once the relationship between men and women breaks down, it is easy for them to go to extreme behavior. First of all, I can only say that this man doesn't love this woman at all. Because true love will not be like this to former lovers because of a breakup.

He really loves you and will only show up to give you warmth when you need it most, even if you treat him badly, he can ignore it. Like the situation mentioned above. I despise this man.