What does it feel like for a couple to break up because of family reasons?

First of all, I think it's a pity, I will definitely be inseparable from this relationship that ends without a problem, unlike other reasons, generally speaking, couples who break up for family reasons still have feelings for each other.

And the more things like love are blocked, the more sure the other party is their other half, and the relationship has not weakened but is forced to separate, I think it's a pity that it is certain. <>

Even if they are separated, they feel that they and each other are the most suitable lovers, and deep down they are full of memories of this relationship. I regret the result of not being able to be together.

The second point should be sad, not to mention this kind of broken love, even if it is a couple who breaks up naturally, they will feel unacceptable in their hearts after the breakup, so sadness and sadness are certain.

The third point is unwilling, after breaking up, I always feel that it is possible to be together, obviously we love each other so much but the ending is so bad, I believe everyone will feel uneasy, not only can not give up on each other in their hearts, but also cannot accept such a result.

Maybe some couples will try to get back together again and again, but in the end they still can't be recognized by their parents. In fact, I think that those who say that they have been separated by their parents have no position to blame their parents at all, in the final analysis, it is because they are not loving enough.

When you really love someone more than everything, you will be with him, and when you can give up on the other person for external reasons, it means that the other person is still in your heart and the reasons that affect your decision are important.

But I think that I should listen to my parents' opinions more about marriage, and I always feel in my heart that parents will not harm their children, and they may be more accurate than us when they are older.

Many problems are blind to us as the parties concerned, and we can't feel them at all, and when we are in love, we only have the advantages of the other party in our hearts. But marriage is a lifelong thing, it not only requires love, but also depends on a person's character, so it is right to listen to your parents.

It's a really frustrating feeling. Some people obviously love each other very much, but they always separate because of family reasons. Some of the man's parents don't like the woman, they pick the girl's height, the girl's skin color, the girl's appearance, and their education.

Of course, many girls can't meet the standards required by the man's parents, so they quarrel with their boyfriends, and in the end they get annoyed and impulsively separate. Of course, there are also cases where the woman's parents pick the man's family background, and if the man's conditions are not good, they will not let their daughter marry the man. <>

This kind of problem is very realistic, and the reality cannot make people breathe. I have a lot of friends around me who are facing this problem, including me. Whenever I think about my parents not approving of me being with my boyfriend, I feel so bad, I really want to change this situation but I can't do it, sometimes I really hate myself because I can't do anything.

Sometimes I can't sleep in the middle of the night, I think about it, and then I secretly cry in the bed by myself, tossing and turning all night.

It's not just me, my girlfriends are in the same situation as me. It had been seven years since she talked to her boyfriend, but until now his boyfriend had never been to her house to see her parents. She didn't even dare to let her dad know that she had a boyfriend, because she knew that her dad would never agree to the two of them being together.

The reason is that this boy has an unstable job, too little income, and poor family conditions, and her father has such high expectations for her, how can he agree to the two of them being together?

What's the use of crying? What's the use of being sad? It's better to work hard yourself, and at the same time let your boyfriend work hard to get the consent of both parents.

If you don't have money, you should work hard to earn money and strive for a stable job, which is the premise for two people to be together. Falling in love is not the same as getting married, falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. If you really want to be together, two people need to work together.

We may encounter all kinds of problems when we fall in love on our own, and we may encounter all kinds of setbacks, at this time we will try our best to persevere, but there are many situations where we often lead to two people not being able to persevere, and finally two people choose to break up. In this case, both of them will be very sad, I feel the tone of sadness, it is better to work together with each other to overcome difficulties, to face one setback and one problem after another.

It's like a couple breaking up because of some family reasons, at this time if two people can't easily face this problem and break up with each other, then it's a pity, after all, feelings are a part, two people encounter setbacks are also part of the feelings, then at this time two people should work together to overcome difficulties, find a way for each other, and then let their parents agree to the marriage of the two of them, I believe that if this is the case, two people will be able to live a happy life in the future.

Nowadays, many families consider each other's family when looking for a lover for their children. If the other party's family conditions and conditions are not very good, then two people together will definitely be interfered with by both parties' families and parents. Just like my family, my parents didn't agree at the beginning, my brother and my sister-in-law got married, and at that time they blindly prevented the two of them from getting married, but my brother and my sister-in-law still insisted until they finally got married.

How did my brother and my sister-in-law do it so that our parents could agree to the marriage of the two of them, in fact, it is very simple to give yourself more time, more space and the other party's parents to do a deeper understanding, I believe that as their own children, the person they like must not be such a big problem, and when the parents really understand the characteristics of this person's deep body, the parents may also agree and no longer block them.

I feel that my parents are very selfish and oppose us being together because he has no money, I feel that my parents are very selfish and oppose us being together because he has no money, I don't understand my parents and feel that my parents are very unreasonable, I think why we can't hold on any longer, maybe my parents will agree, I feel why he should give up even if it is for me, I feel sad. For example, I have a cousin who had a boyfriend in college and brought her boyfriend home. <>

As a result, her parents were very opposed to them being together, thinking that the boy's family conditions were not good, and the major he chose was not easy to find a job, and they felt that their daughter would suffer if she was with her, but my cousin was unwilling to break up with her boyfriend. In the end, the boy's family found out and didn't want the two of them to be together, for fear that their son would suffer, so they both broke up with my cousin, and they were very sad and didn't want to talk to their parents for a while, and after that time she finally came out.

I found a man whose parents thought it was suitable to marry and live an ordinary life, and then I asked her if she felt sorry for her, and she said that marriage does not have to be with the person she loves the most, and it would be better to marry the right person.

I think that couples break up because of family reasons, at first they will not understand why their parents make decisions for us, they think that the result is to be with the person they like, and they feel that the relationship is the ultimate rather than the condition, but the parents do not let us be together because of these conditions, they feel that their parents are very selfish, and they don't think about my happiness at all, we can create a happy life together through our own efforts, but my parents ruined all this and felt that they hated them very much.

It's just the feeling that I won't love anymore! Two years ago, my uncle's sister, she was in college and then had a boyfriend, and before graduating from college, she confessed to her family that she wanted to marry him.

But because the boy's house was too far away from my uncle's house, and there were other factors, my uncle and aunt disagreed with this relationship very much, and they would definitely not let the two of them get married.

Because my sister is a very filial and filial girl, she doesn't want to go against her parents' principles, and she doesn't want to be a disobedient child, so no matter how sad she is? No matter how sad I was, I still obeyed my uncle and aunt's arrangement.

The two of them are indeed separated, and when I asked her how she felt at the time after a year of this incident, she said that she felt like the sky was going to fall, and she wanted to be with the person she loved the most, but the other two people she loved very much opposed her idea.

I was very devastated, until now, my sister doesn't have a boyfriend, and since she broke up with that college boyfriend, she has been focused on her career and has never been in a relationship again.

I think part of the reason is that the relationship that was opposed by my uncle and aunt broke my sister's heart, and she may never believe in love again.

Because, even if she finds a person she likes very much, a particularly suitable person, if her parents reject her views again and break her up again, her heart will hurt even more.

So she told me that I would never find true love again, and that I would obey my parents' arrangements in the future, and that I would marry whatever kind of person they asked me to marry, and I would never resist again, and it would be useless to resist anyway.

I think my sister is quite pitiful, in fact, I know that my uncle and aunt are for my sister's good, but I haven't experienced it, when this thing happens, she won't imagine what the consequences of this incident will be, she will only feel that her happiness is the same.

My wife and I are now married, and although we have a very good relationship, I love her very much, and she loves me very much, but the process of integrating into each other's families has not been so smooth.

About a year after I first met her, we told each other about our parents. I thought it would be a good thing, but it turned out that we were too young at the time, and we only had a lot of enthusiasm. Both of us were met with strong opposition from our families.

When my family found out that I had found someone from out of town, they were very opposed. Because my current wife is not very tall, only about 1.50 meters, and then my family minds very much, and intervened in the relationship between the two of us, and will call ** every day to ask me, have the two of us broken up? Although the two of us are in love and have not been affected by family factors, every day your dearest family members are in your ears, constantly telling you to let you and your current girlfriend separate, don't be together, which is very helpless for me.

Because on one side is family affection, on the other side is love.

Moreover, his parents also thought that I was from the countryside because I was from other places, and then they didn't agree with the relationship between the two of us, and they kept talking to her about the separation, which lasted for more than half a year, and the two of us were affected by the family, and there were problems in the relationship between the two of us, and then separated.

During that time, I was very miserable, because you know that two people love each other, but they can't be together, I live every day in a mess, I see my family, I don't want to talk to them, and I have nothing to do in my room.

Although the two of us were together again later, that experience was also very uncomfortable for me, if you really love her and persevere, your family will always support you.

Only those who have experienced it will know that kind of helplessness, caught in the middle and embarrassed, unwilling to give up their boyfriend, and unwilling to let their families sad and disappointed, struggling every day, and finally breaking up is really super sad.

My ex-boyfriend and I have known each other for a long time, and we have been together several times, and we have been together for a long time, and the two of us are already very familiar with each other, and as soon as I frowned, he knew that ** made me unhappy, and when he looked at me, I could probably guess what he was thinking, which was a very tacit understanding, so the relationship between me and him was also very deep, and I felt the same as my family.

I didn't say it to my family when I was with my ex-boyfriend, but my mother knew more or less, she didn't talk to me about my ex-boyfriend explicitly, but she also mentioned it vaguely, I knew that she was very disgusted with my ex-boyfriend, and I didn't know the reason at first, and I thought it should be okay to know that others were okay after contact. Later, when I learned the specific reason, I couldn't refute it, so I had to separate.

My ex-boyfriend's grandmother lives near my house, so my mom is also more knowledgeable about their family. Several of his grandfather's brothers are more short-tempered people, and there are also the kind of wife beaters, and his uncle also inherited this character, divorced and remarried, and now it is the third marriage, and the divorce is related to temper. My mother is worried that he has also inherited the genes from this side and has a bad temper, and she is afraid that I will be wronged in the future.

My mother always felt that their family was not good, not harmonious, always noisy, and didn't want me to marry into that kind of family.

I want to refute, but I clearly know that my ex-boyfriend is indeed an acute person and is easy to get angry, although he is very good to me, but it is inevitable that there will be bad times in the future, and no one can say for sure. I have also been to their house, and his parents once quarreled in front of me, feeling that his mother was wronged, and I also felt that he would be affected when he grew up in this family atmosphere, and I was afraid that I would be inferior to men and women in the family in the future.

In the end, I broke up, and I was very reluctant, but I felt that what my mother said made sense, and it was also for my good. Maybe it's fate, fate is destined, and it can't come reluctantly.