I really regret not marrying him in the first place

I'll be honest. Women are devoted and unwilling. Men are heartfelt and affectionate.

I understand where you are now. And from what you say, it is clear that you are envious of his current good condition, and at the same time he expresses to you that the old feelings are unforgettable, which makes you hesitate...

First of all, the reason why he treats you like this is that he once really loved you, and what he didn't get will eventually be pity in his heart;

Secondly, his current good condition is just a phenomenon, and you don't know the details behind it...

At last. Don't be fooled by the momentary image. It's not a third-party problem, I don't think it's pointless.

Also, from your words, you find that, first, you don't love him; Two, your current situation is not good;

But don't be impulsive and get confused.

Hey, since it's all like this, and everyone is married, the main reason why you regret it now is that a large part of the reason is because of his current success and not as thin as he thought before, and if you confess it now, it will only make 3 people very passive. It is recommended that you do not do this if you really like him.

Are you embarrassed?

It's you who said no, and now you want to get it, who do you think you are? He's just pitying you now. Some women, sometimes their hearts are higher than the sky, their lives are thinner than paper, and the words of some people upstairs are simply too hypocritical, and they look at it just to score...

I advise you not to be a third party This is very bad You will ruin the happiness of another woman And this woman also has family and friends They will all be very affected And if you two get married, you may not be happy Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi Now his conditions are better than the original Maybe it will decline in the future You may not be able to meet a better person than him Give up Don't have any more thoughts Otherwise, three years later, maybe you will come and say that I really shouldn't...

A third party is never right. Something that's missed is just missed. Take this lesson to heart! is like what Sun Wukong said in the big story Journey to the West: "I once ......."10,000 years".

It's never too late to get married, as long as you don't mind.

Don't destroy other people's families, don't be a third party If he divorces and marries you again, you will be charged with a third party for life Also, if he can divorce his wife this time, it is difficult to guarantee that he will divorce you in the future Think about it carefully, you are tantamount to ruining the happiness of three people When you meet again, just say some greetings between friends, don't be ambiguous, but also think about the long-term, how the children will face life in the future I wish you to find a bright way out as soon as possible

In fact, you should think about him, why do you have to date him when he is married?

Be a good friend, if you miss it, you have no fate with him!

Maybe he used to like you very much, but you didn't give him a chance, and he has given up now. I'm a boy, and I know that it's hard to go back once a man decides.

I'm sure you'll find someone you love, take a look at the people around you. Maybe fate is all around you.

What do you think? I disliked others at the beginning, but now that I see them, you want to develop with him again! Let him go!

The above words are to criticize you from the perspective of a man.

In fact, as long as you like it, you know that you regret it, and you really want to be with him, you can go to the relationship.

But make sure he's willing to get a divorce! If you don't, it's boring, isn't it?

Be careful about everything, saying that divorce has become fashionable in this society, and his refusal to leave is an excuse!

His appearance has changed so much, do you know how much he has changed in his heart?

As long as he still loves you, anything goes!

No regrets! My husband and I were introduced to each other, fell in love, fell in love, and entered the palace of marriage.

Although my husband and I got married, I was a teacher, he was a seafarer, we lived separately, and when we were not together, I suffered a lot with my two children! But when my husband is at home, he does everything to watch the children, cook, do housework, etc., he loves me and the children very much, and is filial to the elderly.

Therefore, I feel that he is not at home, I suffer hard, it is worth it!

What's more, when my in-laws were alive, we lived together all the time! The second elder loves me and my children wholeheartedly, and I regard them as my biological parents wholeheartedly!

My loved ones, especially my sisters, helped me prop up my family when my husband was not at home!

When my husband was at home, he doubled his compensation for me, my children and my loved ones ......Married to my husband, along the way, I didn't eat less bitterness, and there was still a lot of sweetness ......Especially with the retirement of my husband and me, the two children got married, and we didn't have to worry about it, I am grateful for life, and let me and my husband work together to manage the school ...... marriage

I have tasted the bitterness of acacia, and I cherish the sweet ...... of gathering in the dustAll these are the precious treasures that I have shared with this person after we got married!

So not only do I not regret it, but I am grateful to fate for letting the two of us slip and get married!

There are no regrets, only right and wrong, because it was your choice at the beginning.

What's the use of regretting, the path you have chosen will be completed on your knees!

Only you know.

No, I have no regrets marrying him or her. Our marriage is based on mutual love, mutual understanding and trust, and patience and patience on both sides. We work together for a better life, not only for ourselves, but also for our families.

We have had a lot of good times together, and we have also experienced some challenges together. We support each other, support each other, care for each other, encourage each other, and go through many ups and downs together. We all know that without each other's company, one person cannot get through so many difficulties and challenges.

We have also overcome some difficulties and experienced some different hardships together, but we have always persevered, insisted on this love, and insisted on this commitment. We have gone through many different stages in our married life, and the experience of each stage has made us stronger and more united. Our married life is full of true love, care and love for each other, mutual understanding and respect for each other.

We have spent many wonderful days together, and we have had some unforgettable experiences, but no matter what, we all know that our love will last and we will go into more wonderful futures. So, I have no regrets marrying him and her now, only gratitude and pride, we have persevered for so many years and built a family based on true love, which is the most precious.

To be honest, I once regretted marrying my current partner. If I had to choose one more time now, I wouldn't choose him. But there are no ifs in this world, and I am a more traditional person, once I make a choice, even if there are many unsatisfactory things, I will always persevere.

There are several reasons why I regret marrying him. First, there is no common language. Although we are the same age and have the same educational background, we have different working environments, different growth environments, and we don't have common interests and hobbies, so it is difficult to communicate.

I told him what I was interested in, not only was he not interested, but he didn't understand, and his views on some things were completely different, which caused a lot of estrangement between us, and sometimes he got angry, and even didn't say a word for two months, which is really very depressing. Second, they don't understand each other. I have always thought that husbands and wives should respect each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, sometimes, when I communicate with her about something, she either disagrees, or stares at you, and will not communicate calmly to solve some things.

It is the lack of necessary understanding, trust and support between each other. So that the relationship between the two sides is becoming more and more rigid. Third, the distance between the two sides is growing.

Because of the difference in the working environment and working conditions between the two people, the income gap between the two sides is also very large, although I have never shown in front of him that I have a high income and is more superior than him, but he himself thinks about this aspect, feels that his income is low, and he has an inferiority complex. I've been making up for the distance, but it's not very effective. The reason why we are still together is because I feel that I was really willing to be with him at the beginning, although we have lived together for so many years, a lot of unsatisfactory things have happened, there are many differences between us, but we have children in common, he gave me very little, but the most precious gift he gave me, that is, to be our children.

Now as we get older, our communication and communication are getting better and better than before, and our relationship is much better than before. Therefore, when two people have some contradictions and problems, they should not be impulsive, they should look at this matter rationally, as long as the two people can treat it correctly, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

1: Mr. Mok, 65 years old, unmarried, has traveled to more than 30 countries.

I met Mr. Mo when I was traveling in Nepal, and he was wearing this sportswear and carrying a large backpack at Sakura, he was a typical "backpacker", with good physical fitness, and he didn't feel tired after walking for a long time while hiking, which made me really ashamed of this young man.

If he hadn't said he was 65, I would have thought he was 40 at most, because he was in good shape, and there were basically no wrinkles on his face, so he didn't look like a man in his sixties.

He has a very good personality, loves to laugh, and sees everything very openly. He told me that he was unmarried, that he had always been alone, that his parents had died a few years ago, and that he was now free of concern. I asked him:

Do you regret it? He has never started a family of his own. ”

He smiled and said: "This is really not true, which way to go in life is not to walk, how to live is not a lifetime, instead of thinking about another possibility, I hope that I can go to more countries in my lifetime and see more unknown things of Spine Kai." In my opinion, this is already extending the width of life, and I have no regrets.

2: Mr. Zhao, 70 years old, unmarried, once regretted, but wanted to live a good life.

The biggest difference between Mr. Zhao and Mr. Mo is that he did not decide to "not get married" at the beginning, he once met someone he really liked, but in the end, he had no chance and could only miss it. Since then, he hasn't met a girl who makes his heart tick again, and it's better to be single than to be single, just like that, a single will be single for a lifetime.

He told me that sometimes it's good to think about "not getting married", because he lived in an era where materials were extremely scarce, and even food became a luxury.

He is well aware of the impact of poor economic conditions on the next generation, when he is not able to afford a family, he feels that starting a family is a burden, but also a kind of disappointment to the other party, so he has no confidence to start a family, just want to be happy alone, but for a lifetime.

Does raising children prevent old age? No, I think you have to have money to prevent old age. Mr. Zhu said.