My boyfriend keeps scolding me for not loving me anymore

Updated on psychology 2024-04-28
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Isn't there anything else to make you comfortable except to scold you?

    Did you really do something wrong when you scolded you?

    Maybe he's doing it for your good.

    Men don't curse for no reason.

    Think about the times when he was really nice to you.

    Ask him when it's quiet.

    My man loves to scold me, too.

    It's just when I do something wrong.

    Sometimes I am not convinced, thinking that he has no capital to scold me.

    My parents haven't scolded me, and looking back on what I did, it makes people feel a little like saying a few words and looking for if it's their own problem. Think again about whether there is something wrong with him. The most important thing between lovers is trust.

    Believe that He loves you unchangeably.

    Unless the evidence is conclusive that he doesn't love you anymore.

    Am I a little wordy、、Hehe、、、

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think so, it only shows that your boyfriend is a grumpy and macho person, but you didn't notice it before, and now you know him better!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello landlord. You should make the problem clearer. For example, under what circumstances will I scold you.

    Are you doing something wrong? And also. What do you scold?

    How often? It is recommended that the landlord communicate with your boyfriend. Love or not.

    I think you know it better than anyone else.

    If you really have a lot of things that you don't do well. Change it in time. You're still going to be happy.

    If he has a change of heart. It's not good for you. Always be fierce to you. Let's get out of here. The boyfriend doesn't hurt himself. What's the use.

    I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, at least inwardly there is some degree of disgust towards you. If you can't accept it, make a decision sooner!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may be because the two of you have been together for a long time, and the relationship has reached a dull period, and the relationship has faded to the sweetness at the beginning. However, it is not ruled out that he does not love.

    You can look for the reason from yourself, is he "annoying" you, is it annoying about a specific thing or a certain behavior or annoying you as a person? If it's the first two, perhaps, you can think to yourself about whether your behavior is really uncomfortable or bad, and it is feasible to find your own shortcomings and then change them.

    Maybe after a while, the two of you can take a little time to communicate well, communication between couples is very important. However, remind the questioner that when communicating, be prepared that he is not in love, after all, you are not him, and your speculation is not his own psychology.

    If he is annoying you as a person, and this is a clear conclusion after communication, then break up decisively, such a relationship continues meaningless, it is consuming your heart.

    When you ask a question, I believe you have some answers in your heart. Don't deceive yourself, it's not scary to face the consequences behind things, it's scary that you see it but you choose to blind yourself. Everyone is equal in the relationship, and sisters should not love blindly.

    If there is any reason for the boyfriend, you must make it clear, the word "annoying" is too hurtful, if it is really love, don't do hurtful things. The girl's position must also be hard, otherwise all the grievances you suffer if you soften are not your own faults?

    Finally, remind the sisters a few words, keep your eyes open, if you feel that something is wrong, you must leave immediately, and you must establish correct values and a view of love. Don't be blind, self-impressed, and follow the trend. Be self-aware and judgmental, any advice is just a suggestion, and the decision is always in your own hands.

    The above is my personal opinion, it may be more extreme or absolute, if there is any offense, please forgive me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your boyfriend always says that you are annoying for a period of time, in fact, it may not be that he doesn't love you, but that your boyfriend is likely to encounter some annoying things in life and work, and these annoying things have no time to take care of you, so when you appear, it will make your boyfriend have a trivial life matter, which is more burdensome and complicated, and produces a low-pressure negative energy emotion, which is expressed to think that you are more annoying, in fact, it does not mean that you are really annoying. Rather, it is very likely that he has developed a negative emotion about the pressure and is unable to face the existence of the pressure properly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, if two people have this situation, they must break up in time and not get married, which is a lucky thing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you say that you are annoying, it should be that you are more disgusted now, not that you don't love you. It may be that some of your behaviors make him feel very stressed and suffocated, and he will say this. So I think it's okay to reflect on your behavior, and if your behavior is the same as before, that's your boyfriend's problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe he's really too busy, and the more you cling to him, the more annoying he gets, so he thinks you're annoying, and you have to take a good look at what he's in a bad mood for.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe he has some worries about work or life, if he annoys you, you must not talk in front of him, try to talk less in front of him, so that you can accompany him quietly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it must be like this, he always says that you sent it, it must be because he is tired of you. There's no telling if they're going to replace you, so it's better to kick it off first.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think your boyfriend always says you're annoying, and it's not necessarily that he doesn't care about you. It's likely that he's having some trouble at work.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, and your boyfriend is also very disgusted with your relationship, so he dislikes you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Dear No, your boyfriend scolds you, not necessarily loves you deeply, it is very likely that he loves you to the extreme. When a man loves a woman deeply, he will treat her as a "daughter", spoil her, and accompany her to grow up.

    Between couples, what they are most afraid of is not quarreling, but not understanding and misunderstanding each other. When a man scolds you, you have to know what he means by saying it, and don't think that he loves you enough and doesn't want to be with you. There is a kind of man who loves you very much, but he doesn't say love words, he only says ugly things.

    A man "scolds you" like this, it seems that he doesn't love you, but he is actually thinking about you!

    Dear No, your boyfriend scolds you, if you don't sock Liang, you must not love you deeply, it is very likely that you love you to the extreme. When a man loves a woman deeply, he will treat her as a "daughter", spoil her, and accompany her to grow up. Between couples, what they are most afraid of is not quarreling, but not understanding and misunderstanding each other.

    When a man scolds you, you have to know what he means by saying this, and tell the traveler not to think that he loves you enough and doesn't want to be with the town. There is a kind of man who loves you very much, but he doesn't say love words, he only says ugly things. A man "scolds you" like this, it seems that he doesn't love you, but he is actually thinking about you!

    Is it abusive or scolding? <>

    <> it's convenient to talk to the teacher?

    When I quarreled, I scolded and scolded CNM or something like that, and he told me that he was emotional, and apologized to me for playing games, and I felt that he had changed, and no matter how angry he was before, Yinhao wouldn't scold me for killing me.

    Little sister, let me send you a paragraph, you can experience: if a man does not really love a woman, then the man will not care about the woman's opinion, nor will he care about the woman's feelings; As long as a man quarrels with a woman, he will definitely insult the woman, and Zhongqing tramples on the woman; So what does Yan Peimeng's insult to your man mean when he quarrels?

    Still in love, right? Not married yet, right?

    When you quarrel, you scold people and scold cnm or something, it's not a quarrel with you, right? It's not that you scold.

    I thought you were arguing with him, and then he scolded you for this.

    It's normal for boys to play games and say dirty words, but it's not right to scold you because of the game, maybe the game is important to him, or he was unhappy before playing the game, so he didn't control his emotions.

    My girlfriend and I both played games, and we had fights over games, but we got along.

    He should have confessed his mistake to you afterwards, right? At this point, you should give him a step down.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Not necessarily. Everyone has emotional fluctuations and sometimes says hurtful things, but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore. It is also possible that he uses words to vent his emotions when he is angry or depressed, but this does not mean that his feelings for you have changed.

    If you feel very upset and uncomfortable about being scolded, you can try to communicate with him, tell him how you feel, and hope that he will try to avoid this in the future. You can also ask him why he does this to better understand his emotions and thoughts.

    In conclusion, mutual understanding, respect and support are the foundation of a good marital relationship. No matter what problems you encounter, you must stay calm and communicate to solve the problem together, rather than easily guessing the other party's Zhongbichai mentality and selling emotional state.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is not necessarily, you observe whether his behavior is abnormal, if there is disgust, disgust, disgust, etc., then it is possible that the hand base does not love you, if Bi Xijin is not, he may be this kind of temperamental person!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Not necessarily, it may be that the husband has a bad temper, a bad personality, or a bad mood.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your boyfriend doesn't think you love him, most of the reason is because you don't have the security he needs. So your boyfriend feels very empty in his heart, or he is actually not at ease with you in his heart.

    Most of this uneasiness may be due to Hongchong's usual behavior, for example, you will chat with other men a lot, so your boyfriend feels a little uneasy, or you and his appearance or financial and other aspects make your boyfriend himself have a lot of pressure.

    So in the face of this situation, I suggest that you be able to do a lot of things with your boyfriend as openly as possible. For example, if you have some contact with men, you can introduce them to your boyfriend, and sometimes you can ask your boyfriend to take a look at your phone, but don't be too deliberate.

    In this way, your boyfriend will think that he already knows about some of your privacy or most of the things, so that he will not have some insecurity about you, and he will feel more secure.

    Another way is to show your boyfriend that you like him. Show your boyfriend that you feel dependent on him.

    To create a feeling that you especially need him, your boyfriend will think that you need him very much, and naturally the relationship between the two of you will have a better bond.

    So my advice to you is to try to open up with your boyfriend about something about yourself, or tell him something about yourself. And give your boyfriend a feeling that you are particularly dependent on him, and at this time the level of confidence in his heart will rise.

    When his self-confidence rises, he will not always have low self-esteem, and will always think that some things are very bad, and always think that you don't love, and he will slowly when he improves himself, he will think that the two of you are very equal.

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