What should be done to a scheming person, and how to deal with a scheming person

Your situation is really sad In fact, there are some people around me who I hate very much, they are either narcissists or they like to pretend Anyway, there are many examples I have seen your situation In fact, it doesn't mean that you are scheming People who are really scheming calculate others Others still treat him as a treasure Put a good attitude in ordinary days Don't make a big deal If you want to help others, you will help silently and don't ask for anything in return, which is a charm And your good friend said that no one in the class cares about you except him Actually, if you want to find someone to confirm, you can ask, but you can't say his name. When you think about doing anything, you can see more about how those who love to talk and laugh behave in things, and it will be good to observe more, usually keep a happy heart, everyone has their own world, only live yourself well, I hope you can get better as soon as possible.

Long death pull, don't look at it, let me tell you, there's nothing that can't be changed, this handsome guy usually lists it big, Shenma key, passbook casually, private things are given to people casually, nothing, I believe in myself.

Nothing, in the journey of life, anyone can only be a tourist, hurried and hurried! All we focus on is the scenery along the way, and the result is the same, just be yourself!

Life is just a few decades, why think so much, ordinary and ordinary is true, and getting along with others is a blessing. I'm like this, I don't know if you're satisfied.

Just give a lot of dedication, and there will be a reward when the time comes.

Scheming people aren't all bad people, but they're certainly smart people. If your friend is a good person with a good heart, then you are lucky many times, because his wisdom will help you many times. Of course, people are all about good and avoiding disadvantage.

Scheming people usually have a stronger control over the state of affairs and interests than ordinary people. In matters of interest, this kind of person is on guard no matter what, at least at the critical moment.

Make sure you don't get betrayed. As the saying goes, you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people.

One, hidden. If the other party doesn't know about it, no matter how smart he is, he won't think of doing it, then the matter is much simpler for you. Of course, there are some things that are also a test of wisdom. Those who can successfully hide and hide will eventually become scheming people.

Second, ask smart people to deal with scheming people. Hiding is still a passive method, and the active way is to ask smart people to deal with scheming people, because only they are a level, plus you are at least not too stupid, and the odds of two people against one person win.

Total big point. The premise is that this smart person has nothing to do with your affairs and interests, otherwise it is difficult to ensure that the smart person will not become another scheming person, and then it will become a wolf into the house. For example, if someone with a scheming wants to poach your beautiful girlfriend, then the smart person you invite should be a woman, and it is best to confirm that he is not gay.

Of course, asking someone for help requires something to give, especially if it's smart. You have to pay for something else.

3. Make yourself wise. Scheming people are actually a derogatory term for ordinary people who threaten or infringe on their own interests. If you are also very smart, the other person cannot actually be called a scheming person, because you have the wisdom to deal with him.

For us ordinary people, although there are differences in IQs, they are not much different, but our personalities are very different. Scheming people are people who like to use their brains, and they are usually people who like to use their brains. If you move your brain too much, you will have more experience in pit people, and it will make people feel scheming.

But in fact, they are not necessarily smarter than you, and if you are willing to use your brains, they may not be able to trick you. The reason why you think they are scheming is because you are unwilling to use your brain when you encounter problems, and second, because the previous point often happens, so you are not as experienced as they are in using their brains.

To make yourself smart, the only way is to use your brain more, I personally think that the first step is to do the two points mentioned above, especially the second point, with more contact with smart people, you will become smarter. Although there is a price to pay, it is better than being cheated by scheming people, which is also the price you have to pay to become smarter. Of course, eat a trench and grow wise.

Even if you can't do the two major points mentioned above, you will always be cheated too much, but the cost will be much greater, even to the point that you can't bear it.

In any case, remember the phrase, be careful to make a ship of ten thousand years. Whether you think you are smart or not, keeping a vigilant mind whenever you encounter problems can always reduce the probability of being caught.

A calm and scheming person is generally more calm in doing things, and will hide his bad thoughts and not easily let others see his true thoughts. So when you deal with him, you have to hold your breath. The more anxious you are, the more he can see what is really going on in your heart.

Don't run away when dealing with you, scheming people won't get along with you on the surface, and they should when you don't have any conflict of interest with him.

People who pretend to be "simple" are like scheming people who like to be friends with simple and kind people, which will make others think.

If that kind of person is an outsider, someone who has nothing to do with you, then you don't have to care about him (her), just beware of him (her) when you come into contact with him; On the contrary, if that person is your relative, I think, you must have too much dissatisfaction with reality, and feel that the changes in human nature are very unpredictable, then you have to slowly let yourself become that kind of person, you must be careful in what you say and do, don't treat him (her) as your dearest person, but as a familiar stranger, even if you don't want to treat him (her) as a person"Outsiders", and then don't want to let yourself become the kind of person you have always hated, but you still have to do it, otherwise it will be difficult for you to go on the road of real social life.

Straight to the point, how much scheming is in vain. It's like a ping-pong ball hitting a wall, and I've tried and failed.

Attack the shield of the son with the spear of the son. Follow-up question: How to do it exactly: More cheap than him, the city is deeper than him, of course, the premise is that you can accept it, and if you can't stand it, then you can only stay away from him.

Ignore it, and if you fight back, your dad will be in a difficult situation!

For his happiness, bear with me!

If your dad is bullied too, hit that woman hard!

Friend, do you know why I call you friend? I also have a nasty girl around me who loves stinky beauty and loves to grab pigtails, bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, seeing that I am honest and targeting me everywhere, and I have to deal with her during the summer vacation, annoying!

Don't let anyone slaughter this kind of girl, what does she say about you, it's best to make a prank on her, and treat her in the way of others, I believe you are better than her!

God, curse that girl who can't get along with me everywhere!

It depends on your husband's attitude. It has nothing to do with whether the little three are scheming or not.

There is also such a scheming person in our dormitory, one in front of one and one behind the other. Speaking ill of others in front of you, and scolding you in front of others.

The scheming girl in our dormitory leads the fire to others every time something happens, or she will fan the flames and blame others for the wrong thing, the point is that the silly girl in the dormitory is also recruited every time. Otherwise, it's a cute pit person, just a pit, every time it's so obvious, they can't see it, I think they are pitiful.

Face dry to this kind of person, either you choose to ignore it, or you will face it head-on, how she treats you and how you treat her, I used to be only willing to compromise and was bullied into a dog, and now I am completely strong in my heart to fight wits and courage all the time.

Oh, danger, do you like him,? In fact, everyone has a bottom line, you can ignore his scheming, or you can do it when you see the opportunity, in fact, getting along with this kind of person, it is most easy to become a pure disadvantage, keep a distance, and ignore it. If you get closer, you will be tired of being against him, and you will suffer if you don't go against him.

One does not change!