What to do when you meet someone who is very selfish?

Minimize the chance of meeting: no one likes to deal with selfish people, one is hypocritical and boring, the other is too tired, how good it is to be fair, no need to be suspicious, no need to worry about who is behind your back, so unless it is really unavoidable, it is better to minimize contact with selfish people.

Maintain superficial peace: Usually face selfish people, you have to do a good job on the surface, and if you can't be a friend, you also hope that there won't be one more enemy, so maintaining superficial peace at least won't let the other party target you, otherwise with their selfish character, they will treat you as a thorn in the side, and there will be risks at any time. The heart of defense is indispensable:

In the face of selfish people, once there is a little bit of connection, don't care, after all, you already know what kind of person he is, with the mentality of guarding against others, be wary of him, don't trust him very much, otherwise they will be sold by selfish people and don't know, they have a sharp mouth that can say white to black.

Establish your own personality: why you are bullied by others, why you are dominated by others, why others just like to gossip about you, because you have no personality, or personality shy, too uncalculating, too accommodating to others, too concerned about other people's feelings, so people think you are good to bully, everyone should have their own tenacious personality, so that others feel that you are not good to bully casually, naturally, those selfish people do not dare to easily use you as a shield, take you as their bottom, When you are the object of jokes and ridicule, a person's personality needs to be respected, and this is a responsibility for oneself.

If you have something to say face to face: When dealing with selfish people, don't go around in circles like eighteen bends on the mountain road, say it directly, or directly solve the things that need to be solved, figure it out face to face, don't delay, procrastinate and drag, and it is better to have something to do face to face, and the words should be open and clear.

If you are dissatisfied, you have to say it out loud, and you can't accommodate it casually: we all have a mentality, that is, if you can not provoke others, it is best not to provoke, and others will not do anything to themselves, but this article obviously cannot be used on selfish people, because selfish people only care about their own interests, and he must hurt all those who hinder his interests, so he doesn't care whether you are innocent or not, so when these people hurt you and are not conducive to you, you must speak out loudly about your dissatisfaction, and declare your own interests, otherwise you will be silent, People think that you are not courageous, think that you are easy to bully, and over time, they will think that you should tolerate them, and they will take it for granted that others are accommodating and embarrassed to them, so this kind of person can't be accommodated, in order not to be involved, or Chu Han.

Be clear, never tolerate them, and make decisions for yourself in a timely manner.

A: We strive to be calm and comfortable, and it is much easier to be more cruel, more selfish, more cunning, and more witty than them. We must be able to treat others the way they do!

Like this kind of person, just don't contact him, don't offend him, don't approach him, no matter how selfish he is, if you don't deal with him, he can't do anything to you.

Don't talk too much about feelings with her, when you meet such a hostage and talk about interests with him, anyway, if you talk about feelings to him, he will be hurt in the end, so it's better to talk about interests directly.

Time is ticking, and the happiness that can be held tightly in your hands is so insignificant.

It has always been believed that happiness is not great sorrow and joy, it only exists in the susceptible heart. Ordinary people naturally do not have earth-shattering sorrow and joy in life. But happiness, like that little flower swaying in the wind, has always been with me.

As long as I smell it with my heart, I can let the faint fragrance seep into my soul.

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When our hearts are occupied by happiness, it is possible to find happiness.