What do you think of those who have healed their scars and forgotten their pain?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    They are a group of people who are optimistic enough about life, and I admire this optimism, but I don't want to associate with them.

    People will always grow in various difficulties, and we will become stronger and stronger. However, some people are not like us, and the damage they have suffered in life will soon be forgotten, and everything seems to be a cycle, which makes people a little afraid to approach.

    I admire this kind of big-hearted person, others are all eating a trench and growing wise.

    They eat a trench and eat a trench and eat a trench. Drinking with friends the other day, he said his new girlfriend blew again. I asked the reason, and it turned out that he spoke too directly, and the two had only known each other for a few days, so he asked what people thought, and they got married without any opinions, and they were scared away.

    This is not the first time, it should be another time to break up for this reason, and I don't know how to persuade him. Every time he came to complain after a breakup, and I told him every time not to ask these questions so quickly in the future, he promised every time, but the next time he started a relationship, it would be the same.

    I'm a little reluctant to associate with people who have forgotten their scars because it makes me wonder if I'm the same person. In life, everyone says that "things gather like things, people divide into groups, and I think I may be such a person when I interact with these people who have good scars and forget their pains all day long."

    But I don't want to admit it, so when I see some friends doing this, I will always have countless complaints in my heart, but I will slowly alienate him in my life. I don't think it's insulting to my IQ, I just don't think I deserve to be like that.

    Life seems to like to joke with us, everyone wants to grow in life, but some people slowly become mature, and some people slowly become more naïve than before. But everyone can only go down their own path, and no one can make decisions for others.

    Go your own way, as forSomeone else's lifeWhat it will look like, let him take his time and see for himself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Well, people who forget the pain have a soft heart, they don't have a long memory, it's because they have too much to let go, and when others have something to ask him, he can quickly agree, because he doesn't think about himself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think that such a person is completely to blame, and when he is injured, he does not learn a lesson, and he will still follow this old path and let himself be injured again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think those who heal their scars and forget the pain are because they are too stupid. No matter how deeply others hurt him, as long as he gives him a candy, he will forget the previous unpleasantness, this kind of person belongs to the kind of person who has no scheming and is too naïve and kind.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think those who heal their scars and forget the pain are very naïve, and they are also very simple and easy to be fooled.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think such people know how to be grateful, and they don't know how to reflect on some of the things that have happened before.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    These people are very persistent, and although this spirit is very proud, it is often this kind of person who is most vulnerable to injury.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe it's because they don't want to continue to hurt, because they can't stand it anymore, they want to be happy, because people can't be in pain for a lifetime, and the scar will heal later, and the pain will become no pain, and everything will change.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It hurts just in that moment. Okay after. Nerves will fade over time.

    That feeling. Because that pain is far away from you. But in retrospect, it still hurts.

    However, because of the attenuating nature of nerve pain. It won't be so scary. It's just that the hurt is okay and forgets the pain.

    Also, this is a common trait of human beings, and you can't hide it just because you're good at it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    For most people, man is a species that is gradually forgotten, so under normal circumstances, most of them do certain actions for themselves or certain behaviors or certain behaviors that are forgotten later.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I may have been used to being hurt, but there was a mental pain at the time, but after a day or two, it slowly faded away, and I didn't feel it anymore. Or some people are the kind of forgetful people who don't hold grudges easily.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I have loved someone, and I told myself in my heart that I must not turn back, but after a few days, I can't help but contact him, every time I use it"Bad memory"Prevaricating yourself, in fact, it's just a good scar and forgetting the pain. Forget the badness of being criticized by the leader for deducting wages, forget the embarrassment of not being able to find a way, and forget the sadness that that person brings you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's to forget your own heart, although it's selfish to say this, but what can you do in this world, it's so sad don't always think that you are hurting, others won't feel good, fairy tales are deceitful, everyone understands this, but they always forget indirectly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Human cells are like this, their instinct is to help themselves to forget some sad things, and over time, sad things will gradually be forgotten, and only remember some good things, which are written in genes with evolution and cannot be changed.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's all about making mistakes and growing from mistakes. Hurt because you are genuinely devoted, relieved because you love him and believe in him, and being together despite all odds is your courage to pursue love. I can't let him go.

    It's just that you can't let go now, one day you will even be relieved of him, and whoever is missing will live the same.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This may be the common nature of human beings. Well, the scar forgets the pain, and after the past, the matter is forgotten, especially the kind of thing that hurts less, the trauma is smaller, and the faster it will naturally be forgotten.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Forget the pain because the injury is not serious enough, if the injury is really serious enough and painful, you will not forget, it is unforgettable. Gen Song: Okay, the scar forgot the pain. The ups and downs in life are always endless, and there is no one's life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Well, the scar forgets the pain, which means that after the scar heals, you forget the pain of the injury, and it is a metaphor for living a comfortable life and forgetting the hard days of the past, and not being able to learn from the mistakes of the past.

    Source: Gong Changsheng's "Ups and Downs": "Well, the scar forgets the pain, and there are many such people in the world." Wang Laoshui's scars are worse than ordinary people, so he forgets them more cleanly than ordinary people. ”

    The moral of this proverb is to warn people that they should sum up their experiences and learn lessons after making mistakes, so as not to repeat the mistakes of the past.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. This means that because the injury left a certain scar, the second time I experienced such a thing, I repeated the mistake and forgot the pain of the previous injury. This sentence is also telling everyone not to fall twice in the same place.

    Now that you have some understanding of something and know that it will hurt you, don't try it again. Truth: Sum up experience in everything you do, and don't keep repeating the same mistakes because of the same mistake.

    It doesn't matter if you do something wrong, but you should understand that you can find lessons and experiences in your mistakes, and strive not to go through the same hurdles again when you face the same test next time. As long as you sum up the experience from this failure, it is very likely that you can turn the tables next time and do not have to suffer again.

    This means that because the injury left a certain scar, the second time I experienced such a thing, I repeated the mistake and forgot the pain of the previous injury. This sentence is also telling everyone not to fall twice in the same place. Now that you have some understanding of something and know that it will hurt you, don't try it again.

    Truth: Sum up experience in everything you do, and don't keep repeating the same mistakes because of the same mistake. It doesn't matter if you do something wrong, but you should understand that you can find lessons and experiences in your mistakes, and strive not to go through the same hurdles again when you face the same test next time.

    As long as you sum up the experience from this failure, it is very likely that you can turn the tables next time and do not have to suffer again.

    He's got his heart in his own right.

    I know. I will always want to see him, he blocked me, dear, a little cruel.

    I know. Thank you.

    Don't act irrationally.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The phrase "forget the pain after the scar is healed" means that after the wound heals, you will forget how painful it was. Human beings have such problems both mentally and physically, and they always forget the original feeling because of the passage of time.

    Especially in terms of love, it is clear that the other party has made himself miserable for so long, but after he heals his wounds, as long as the other party gives himself a candy to eat, he will completely forget his pain and accept the other party again. I think this kind of behavior is torturing myself, so don't "forget the pain when the scar is good".

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Physical and psychological scars are the same, people are all healed, scars forget to hurt, I believe that everyone, regardless of men and women, when they are the most sad, even said that they were deceived and hurt by their lovers, they have said that they are not in love anymore, and they don't believe in men's words, but when the wounds are healed.

    I still can't control myself, and I still believe and love the same, isn't it?

    For example, you like to run, one day you suddenly fell and broke your leg, you stopped running, but after the scar healed, will you give up your hobby?

    You won't, you'll keep running, only when you touch the scar you remember the pain at that time, and usually you have left it behind, you don't remember the pain all the time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Okay, the scar forgets the pain, are you like that?

    When I was sick, I felt so uncomfortable that I was still healthy, so I secretly decided that after I got sick, I must cherish a healthy and safe life, and even if I was unsatisfactory, I would not be sad, and I would be happy.

    After getting sick, he returned to a peaceful life, and when he saw others driving luxury cars and living in mansions for a big meal, his life was so smooth, he couldn't help but praise himself and was secretly sad, and some people even complained.

    Is this a good scar and forget the pain?

    Drinking too much, drinking sick, in the midst of illness, you make up your mind to quit drinking. As a result, the illness was cured and continued to drink ......This cycle repeats the story of yesterday's ode to Sakura Natian.

    Is this a good scar and forget the pain?

    Some people are in trouble, others help him, they are so touched at that time, but they come out of the predicament, but they find a lot of fault with the person who has helped him, and they don't remember the benefits of others.

    Is such a person healed and forgot the pain of the scar?

    Well, the scar forgets the pain, and it may be a personal weakness.

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