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When there are two girls in front of you, you will inevitably compare the two of them, and unconsciously compare her shortcomings with one, you are just confused by the superficial phenomenon and don't know which one to choose, if you really want to love someone well, you have to choose carefully, don't avoid or drag to maintain the status quo because you don't know which one to choose, and don't think about letting two girls make a choice, their ideas do not represent your thoughts, don't solve problems in order to solve problems, Calm down and give each other a space, don't look at the problem according to objective factors, and don't veto her because this girl loses her temper with you, you have a good attitude to you, people are animals who like the new and hate the old, and it is normal for you to have a better impression of the girl you know later, but you don't forget what is the difference between the two girls for you, I mean, one has been together for a longer time and has further learned more about each other, so it is natural to show the most casual and more real side of yourself to each other, so friction will appear, This is the road that people who are in love have to walk, which is like reaching a hurdle, some people are separated because they understand, and some people are together because they know better. Of course, you can't completely use time to measure the truth or falsehood of love. To use an analogy:
When you like someone, you want to chase her, so you will show your best in front of him, show your care, and value her. When you determine the relationship, there will be a sweet period of love, which shows that the other party is all advantages in your eyes, and deliberately hides the shortcomings to cater to the other party, this is a stage, and the next stage is to understand each other, and you will inadvertently show your true side, this is what some people often say: when chasing me, it is good for me, but I can spoil me, and when I catch it, it will change.
In short, the relationship is really complicated, and you will always experience it yourself, and I want to tell you that you are in two different stages between you and those two girls, so it's unfair not to compare people at different stages. There is no right or wrong in feelings, it is impossible for no one to be hurt, there is a perfect ending, and if you want to solve the problem, someone must be hurt. But as a man, you have to take responsibility and responsibility, and when you decide which one to choose, you have to decisively give up the other, which is the best choice for that one.
Her happiness doesn't have to be given by you, but you must not delay her from finding someone who can really give her happiness. Good luck from the bottom of my heart! Choose with your heart!
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If the two of them fall into the water, who will you save first? Ask your heart, which one do you prefer? Don't be delusional about both, you'll lose both.
Is your current girlfriend something you really admit? You've been together for some time, and it's inevitable that you'll no longer hide from each other, so your character flaws are exposed. The second one you've only known each other for two months, and you haven't developed any further, and even if she has a crush on you, you can't just assume that she's a better fit for you just because she's probably disguised herself.
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The horsepower of the road is long-lasting.
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Decide as soon as possible, choose one or the other. It cannot be pulled off. Otherwise.
You may not be able to choose any of them. Girls are selfish and don't want their boyfriends to step on two boats. It's weird, how can you like two people at the same time?
If you don't know yourself, how can others know about you?
Of course, a long time with a short time will feel different.
Losing her temper at you shows that she is used to pampering you and does not treat you as an outsider.
Those who have been together for a short time will come to things and understand people's psychology. Will be obedient and please.
But the short time doesn't mean that she always treats you like this. Only a long time can understand a person.
Hope you decide soon. This kind of thing no one else can help you. Only a quick knife cuts through the mess.
Also, think about it, is there a reason for the tantrums? Obedience to you is not not unaware of your shortcomings.
You have to think carefully before you choose.
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wangfei640115's is so good, teachable, thank you!!
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I suggest that you communicate with your girlfriend, and it is very unlikely that you want to eat it all.
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Depending on which one you prefer, from the point of view that you evaluate your first girlfriend, you prefer the second one.
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It's only been 2 months, and you can know that she's not a person who gets angry.
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Like and have a good feeling is different, ask yourself how you feel, like that one to think clearly, and then quickly make it clear to others, don't always drag two girls, it's not good for each other.
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Liking and loving are different, liking is good feeling, and falling in love with the feeling of a heartbeat, ask your heart.
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It depends on which of them you like, or if you don't think you have a good impression of either of them, so you can only be a normal friend. If one of you has a good feeling, just express your heart with one of them, after all, the two are happy, the other girl, you can communicate well with the girl you like, you just say that you want to ask another girl out for a meal alone, make things clear, let the other girl know who you really like, the girl will naturally quit if you understand, if you don't want to be so embarrassed, you don't have a good impression of those two girls, then the two funny banquet skins are well explained, Let's just say that everyone is only suitable for friends, and you don't want to think about lovers for the time being. If you like one of them in order not to hurt the heart of the other person so you don't say clearly that you deliberately refuse, you will regret the original choice, in fact, feelings are a process of mutual harm, think about it yourself, if you have an object, but there is a girl who confesses to you, you will choose to refuse. It's just that this auspicious tanci is when you don't have a girlfriend, two girls like you at the same time, although the situation is different, but the ending will be the same.
That's normal.
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