In the face of such two people, how to face problems after encountering them?

People are people, why not animals. Because people have thoughts and feelings. People are people, why do they like TV, life and death are said to be love.

Because in this way, you can feel the love of the other person. People are people, why do you feel so scared and dare not accept what you find on TV when you find it on your body? Because people are very realistic, because this scene on TV is found in you, you will know how heavy and heavy the pressure is.

Love, not because the other party loves you to death, is called true love. Love is because the other party can live a lifetime because of all the troubles and troubles in life with you, which is called true love. Death is not terrible, what is terrible is infinite torture.

Parents, children, both parties, friends. All those who are related to you have the potential to become a stepping stone to your love. I've watched TV, two people who love each other have to experience life and death, misunderstandings, and all the opposition of parents and friends can still be together, so there is a lot to see, and only then can I understand love.

If not, no one will watch TV anymore. But when we are realistic, misunderstandings, and some cold eyes from parents and friends, can you accept them all? Can you be with him at all costs?

I don't think many people can! Friends, reluctant to be together will not end well, the other party is unwilling or from the pressure of parents, you are forced to marry him, and you will not be happy. Let it go, it is very happy to find someone who has no pressure and is ordinary and ordinary for a lifetime.

Reason is a good thing

He may find that he is simply thinking about a state where he cannot move an inch, give him some time to think about your future!

The simpler you think, the more complicated it is to do!!

Tell him: Don't live with illusions!

Life is inherently complicated! It's not like this earth doesn't turn without you!

Give him ideological work.

If you feel tired, just let it go.

Don't continue because you feel sorry for his tears.

It's distressing because you've had relationships before.

It's human nature.

But if each other is tired.

This is not the essence of love, nor is it what those who seek happiness want.

Our hearts are loaded to the limit.

Don't break up with a lot of noise when your feelings are worn out.

Now at least all the happy times are preserved.

Breaking up is not a big deal.

Just choose to break up. Say the breakup. Accept the breakup.

It takes a lot of courage.

It's over. Calm down.

You'll find that life goes on too.

What he needs is your encouragement

Take courage and encourage him to face the reality together, face your love, your future

There's a distance.

Let's think about it.

Your heart is so confused.

Every time your attitude changes, his attitude also changes, I don't think you have a consensus and tacit understanding, it's better to reach an agreement through ** or letter before meeting.

What do you want to see why he is holding back? I think he should love you, and the difficulties you encounter should be faced and overcome together. I hope you can think about it seriously, since you both love each other, it's a pity to give up like this...

Maybe he wants you to know how much he means to you, how much you love him, how much he should love you, what he should face, what he should face, and don't let yourself regret it.

Landlord, you are a standard coward.

I really want to read it, but you're writing too long.

Agree with one's point of view, feel tired and let it go, maybe he doesn't really like you, but he has a shadow in his heart and feels unwilling.

When two people get along, whether it is a friend or a lover, it is inevitable to encounter a lot of problems after being together for a long time. So, when faced with these problems, what should be the most reasonable way to deal with them?

In fact, this still needs to be considered from many aspects, some problems are not reasonable solutions that you want to solve, if you can solve them reasonably, then there will not be so many disputes and hatreds in this world. But no matter what, for individuals, there will be an attitude towards the right way to the problem. Only in this way can you live a smoother life in the future.

First: Don't run away

When two people encounter problems, at least they must have a correct concept, that is, not to run away. Because you can't escape from it, just like we often say, if you dodge eleven, you can't avoid fifteen. You can run a monk, but you can't run the temple.

This kind of evasion is just delaying time, and it is not conducive to the relationship between two people.

On the contrary, it will escalate the contradictions of the problem, and even produce the results of a cold war and a deterioration of relations. Therefore, not running away and facing it positively is the first step to a reasonable solution.

Second: have the right attitude

If there is a problem between two people, since they don't run away, they have to face it. It is necessary to have the right attitude. When dealing with problems, you can't only consider the problems and flaws of the other party without doing self-reflection.

It is often said that when two people fight, it is never the fault of one person, and they all have to fight fifty boards each.

Therefore, if two people have a problem, they still have to analyze and consider it from two aspects. It's best to talk about your own problems first, let the other party know that you are impartial in your approach to the problem, and then communicate with the other party and sort it out. Find a reasonable solution to avoid similar conflicts and contradictions in the future.

Third: there is no distinction between right and wrong

In getting along, everyone has their own concept of right and wrong. When two people's concepts conflict, water and fire are incompatible. The only way to deal with it, then, is to separate from each other. It's like the Romance of the Three Kingdoms.

As mentioned at the beginning, the major events in the world must be divided for a long time, and they must be divided for a long time.

If two people have been together for a long time, if the concept of right and wrong cannot be integrated at all, they are full of conflicts and incompatibility everywhere. Neither of them had the attitude of being calm and sitting down to talk. The only way to do this is to separate.

If two people encounter a problem, we will actively solve it, and if you want to solve it reasonably, it is best to find a time for two people to talk about it again.

When getting along, two people should solve problems reasonably like this: if it is not a problem without a bottom line, it should be appropriately tolerated, and if it is a problem that the bottom line cannot be crossed, they should break up as soon as possible. Long hatred is better than short pain.

Then you should solve it calmly and communicate more.

In fact, many problems between two people stem from the way they communicate, or their different personalities. Personally: hot and cold or self-esteem.

Too strong, no empathy.

Some behaviors that don't respect each other enough will easily touch my bottom line, and such behaviors can easily make girls feel insecure.

Enlarge. Although I think that most of my sense of security is given to me, isn't the meaning of companionship (or the potential existence of a partner) just companionship? Giving a greater sense of security?

Therefore, if something goes wrong, when I try to communicate well with the other person, or I have already explained my anger, I hope to solve the problem together. If the other party still ignores it, after repeating it, then it will be dead. The way to hope for a solution is naturally not a perfunctory attitude like a little girl's coaxing, buying, buying, buying, etc.

Instead, I hope that the two of them can communicate clearly, honestly and straightforwardly, whether it is to explain the problem or explain themselves, or to slowly run in with each other. It is enough to be able to first put on an attitude of being willing to solve problems and be willing to improve, and then to be able to act accordingly.

But it's true that it's hard for most people, especially boys. I don't know what kind of shelf I'm holding. will also give steps, but if you are treated coldly, you will lose patience again and again, and after speculating on your own, you will decide that the other party is not sincere emotion, repeatedly, even if you still like it when your patience runs out, you can't bear it impatiently.

In addition, if there is a problem, don't treat it coldly, the result of cold treatment is that the other party finds out that he is blind and decides to give up on you. Think about it from the other person's point of view, reflect on yourself, and then calm down and sit down to talk. Don't casually mention breaking up, the word breakup hurts, trust and understand each other, and give each other a certain amount of personal space and time.

Don't bind him with your so-called love. Solving problems is not just talking, but doing and improving. It's really not that easy for two people to fall in love.

Two people together will not always be smooth sailing, there will always be all kinds of problems, problems to solve, quarrels, cold violence is not a way, when the conflict occurs, it will be more intense, but afterwards we must calmly tell each other, so as to enhance mutual understanding and avoid the next time.

In real life, two people will indeed encounter a lot of problems together, after all, two people are independent individuals, each person has their own temperament characteristics, two people who love each other together, when they encounter problems, they should tolerate each other, Lei Jieduo thinks about problems from the perspective of each other, and can't just think about themselves.

If people who love each other encounter problems in getting along, they will actively communicate and solve them, and they will think about each other and deal with things on the premise of love.

Pay attention to trust, pay attention to communication, pay attention to tolerance, pay attention to mutual understanding, so that you can solve the problem, and you must pay attention to the importance of mutual trust.

If someone who loves each other encounters a problem, I think they can solve it positively, and solve it more coquettishly with each other.

When two people get along, they can do that. First of all, they must actively communicate to find out the cause and ** of the problem, and then they can actively solve the problem together. When men and women get along, especially close lovers, conflicts inevitably arise.

Sometimes conflict can make the feelings between two people more intimate.

<>Of course, this situation must be the result of effective communication after the conflict has occurred, otherwise the conflict will only be a contradiction and will only damage the relationship, and then look at the other party's opinion on the matter. We should carefully remember if there is a problem between you because of something, or if there is an unresolved problem that has led to the current situation. When the problem comes, it needs to be solved.

But some couples, often have problems, go around. On that day, no one cared about anyone, and the next day no one mentioned each other, and when nothing happened, it seemed that the problem did not exist at all.

However, if you can't stand the "I think, you know" of two people, you should actively communicate. You should take the initiative to connect and communicate, and then control your emotions. Once you face a crisis, especially when two people want to discuss, you should control yourself and think about the good things between you in the past, but if there is a problem, you must solve it in time, you can't put the problem aside, the problem is getting bigger and bigger, accumulating more and more, at a certain point it will trigger a series of chain reactions, exacerbating the contradiction, in the relationship, some people will be in order to cater to each other or out of distrust, fear of consequences, and keep silent about their true inner thoughts, real needs, and even will be moved by their own approach, Think you've made a sacrifice for your feelings.

These things that you have experienced allow you to calm down and you can better deal with the problem in front of you instead of just trying to fight. Everyone can sit down and have a good talk, although girls are irrational creatures, we boys, in fact, any problem that arises is related to two people, so before we complain and blame others, we need to calm down and think about whether there is a problem of our own.

When encountering problems, two people should communicate well, because communication can solve most problems and avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles.

After two people encounter a problem, they should solve it together, and then they can sit down and communicate calmly, and tell each other what to do to make themselves comfortable.

Two people should sit down and have a good talk, find out the reason why something happened, and solve it, so that it is the right thing to do, and never quarrel.

When two people encounter a problem, they must talk about it, and they must also solve this problem, so that they will not make such mistakes again in the future.

It is very normal for two people to inevitably have conflicts in the process of getting along, because in our lives, there will always be various contradictions, and how to deal with these contradictions has become very critical. Contradictions are not terrible, if you can deal with the contradictions well, the two people will become more intimate, if you don't handle it well, it will have a very significant impact on the feelings between the two people, and the following principles need to be followed to deal with the contradictions.

1. Know how to communicate well. Conflict is something that happens in everyone's life, because two people have different production environments and completely different personality traits, so they will also have different positions on things, which leads to disagreements. When two people have problems, the best way is to learn to communicate, only communication can understand each other, the most real thoughts in the heart, to be able to express their own views, two people can truly seek common ground while reserving differences.

2. Don't just know how to vent your emotions. When two people have a conflict, the most important thing is to be able to have a good communication, to be able to tolerate each other, to understand each other, not only to know how to do emotional discovery, if you only know how to do emotional, find that you can't calm down, it will hurt the other party very much. A person who only knows how to vent his emotions and never cares about the feelings of the other person can also lead to cracks in a relationship.

3. Know how to empathize. When two people have a conflict, the most important thing is to know how to empathize, a person who can stand in the other party's position to think about the problem, often will be more tolerant, two people in the process of communication can also understand each other better, the contradiction can be easily resolved. When there is a conflict, don't say that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, it is never a place to pay attention to reason in the family, and many times it is about the relationship between two people.