A man knows that you are angry, but he doesn t coax you, what is the truth?

Tired and unloved: Coaxing unreasonable anger is tired and doesn't want to coax.

In the process of dating between men and women, in fact, many times women will have a petty temperament, and occasionally "do" it, which can increase the interest of the relationship and make each other more familiar with each other's personalities, which can be regarded as a "test".

After all, there are always all kinds of unhappy things happening, and it is impossible to always greet each other with a smile, so how to resolve the other party's grievances when the other party is angry is actually very important.

However, there are some women who do not grasp the proportions well, are very "acting", turning anger into daily life, often "unreasonable", asking the other party to coax themselves, but afterwards they are "unrepentant" and continue to make ......trouble unreasonably

Such a woman is often angry, often asks her boyfriend to coax, and over and over again, has constantly consumed his patience and love, making him tired, how can he play that pleasing role?

So when he is tired, he knows that you are angry, but he doesn't coax you, because he is also tired.

He would even wonder if it was because he was too tolerant that he made you so unscrupulous......

Some people will find that their boyfriend makes themselves very angry in the process of falling in love, but he still shows a very indifferent attitude, at first you may think that he does not feel that you are angry, but after a long time you will find that he deliberately does not coax you, so why is he unwilling to coax you even though he knows that you are angry? Next, I will give you a specific talk.

First of all, the first point to say may be more realistic, because if a boy is unwilling to coax you, then it means that he does not have much patience with you, that is to say, he does not plan to get along with you for a long time, just for a short period of play, so whatever you say he is just in the left ear and out of the right ear, he will not care at all, so in his heart, you are not so important, naturally he does not need to spend time and energy on you, There are even times when he thinks that if he chooses between the bonus and playing the game, he will choose to play the game without hesitation. If you meet such a boy, you must keep your eyes open, and you must withdraw yourself from this relationship in time, and you can't make mistakes again and again, and keep falling into it.

Secondly, the second possibility is that he is red and stuffy but red is not so obvious, so you don't feel it, so Aini, who is hidden in the details that you can't see, doesn't feel it. My friend used to have a boyfriend like this, when his girlfriend was angry, he wouldn't coax him at the first time, but gave his girlfriend a certain amount of time or space for him to think clearly, and the friend encountered difficulties in the salary, and then her boyfriend rationally analyzed the problem with him, for fear that she would suffer again, and in his opinion, her boyfriend was Zixiao helping others instead of helping him.

In the end, in fact, some boys hide their love very deeply, and even some love is hidden in those insignificant details, but you don't notice and notice, so if a man doesn't coax you, it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you, it's just that he has a different way to coax you, so we should observe more traces in life, and we can't think what it is because of what we see.

Because the man is also angry in his heart, he doesn't want to talk to you, so he doesn't want to coax you.

The reason why this situation occurs is because for many men, they are very face-loving, and they are very machismo, so the bridge did not think that even if they knew that you were angry, they would not be sensitive to the light chain Shenyi bowed his head and took the initiative to coax you.

1. Think about whether you are unreasonable.

If you get angry over some small thing, maybe your boyfriend will think that you are looking for trouble. No matter how much you cry or make trouble, he won't coax you. To be honest, it's a terrible feeling.

You should think carefully about whether it is your fault. Girls are actually very coaxing, and they don't need to be treated cold.

Most girls have glass hearts, thinking that their boyfriends obediently take the initiative to coax themselves, which is a manifestation of their love for themselves. In fact, while you are asking for the other person, you are gradually exhausting your boyfriend's patience. The essence of coaxing you may be that he cares about you, not what he wants.

If it's because you're being vexatious, it's even more annoying. You really can't blame your boyfriend for not coaxing you.

2. Give yourself a step down and take the initiative to ask your boyfriend why he is not coaxing.

In fact, in the process of love, you don't know how much pressure a man is carrying. Even when you are angry, you make all kinds of requests to him: such as giving gifts to coax you, such as watching movies with you.

Because the material cost of coaxing you need to spend is too high. It's better not to coax. Find a way to step down for yourself, and take the initiative to communicate with your boyfriend why you don't want to coax you after you are angry.

3. Try to change the behavior of asking to be coaxed.

Don't test your boyfriend's patience again and again. Women also need self-denial, you can't control your temper, others coax you, do you think they are following you? Then you're obviously taking advantage of your bad temper.

Don't rely on men to take care of your emotions every time.

There are many ways to communicate, and only this one is stupid to sulk. It will only push the boyfriend farther and farther away. Try to make some changes for yourself, increase the time for communication, make yourself more mature, and try to change the behavior of asking to be coaxed.

In the relationship between men and women, why men don't coax you when you are angry is mostly because you can't coax you well. For example, the more you coax, the more angry you get! In other words, the more you coax, the more aggrieved you become.

When a man suffers from such a situation, he will remember it and feel that coaxing you when you are angry is like planting a mine for himself! Once the coaxing is not good, it is easy to provoke the fire and make a fool of yourself in public. It's better to let yourself be rational and digest it yourself.

As people often say, the only one who can save oneself is oneself.

When a man is angry with you, he will no longer coax you, but will give up on you, let you be rational and communicate alone. Therefore, when a woman gets along with a man, if she is angry and the man comes to coax, she must know how to stop the loss in time, go down the ladder if there is a ladder, and never give shame. Otherwise, it is very likely that you will be left out in the cold.

In the relationship between men and women, why men don't coax you when you are angry is mostly because you are vexatious. For example, I should not be angry, but I have a very big temper. In other words, everyone knows that I am noisy about big farts, and this is easy for men to resist, even if you are angry, they are not willing to coax you.

It is especially worth mentioning that there are some women who are usually small-bellied and angry for no reason.

To put it exaggeratedly, the number of times a day to get angry is more than the blink of an eye, and it is obvious why men can stand it. In the face of these situations, women are angry, and men are too lazy to coax, in other words, their hearts have collapsed. All in all, women should not always be unreasonable and angry, so that men are not only not easy to coax you, but will dislike you and worry about staying away from you.

In the relationship between men and women, why don't men coax you when you are angry, it may be that you are insatiable. Every time you get angry, you need a man to coax you, if the man doesn't coax, he will be cold and violent, and he will be angry and silent! In fact, when encountering such a situation, it is a bit overly emotionally dependent, in other words, a little too much.

For women, no matter when, they must be emotionally and spiritually separate, and they need to have the ability to resolve emotions. It is very likely that I will not coax you at the moment, and if I persist any longer, I may break up with you and give up on you. When a man loves someone, he can coax you and do everything for you, but women must understand that this kind of love will not make the other person very tired.

One of the reasons may be that you are being unreasonable again, it is your fault in the first place, and it is impossible to coax you all the time. The second may be that they are too embarrassed to back down.

A man doesn't coax you when you're angry, it's because he doesn't like you that much, doesn't want to be with you, and doesn't have feelings for you, so he will be very perfunctory to you.

I feel that this matter is your fault, the man doesn't love you so much, and the man thinks you are being unreasonable.

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There is a man who is more lenient, he will not appease your emotions when you are angry, but will think about the problem with a "straight man" thinking. He will think, "Why are you angry with the liquid slap", "Am I angry?" "Whose fault is it?" and so ......onOnce he decides that it is not himself who is wrong, even if you are angry with yourself, he will not feel that he should coax you.

There is also a situation where he really doesn't love you anymore. When some people love you, they will use sweet words to make you happy. But when he doesn't love you, he is filial piety, no matter how angry he is, no matter how aggrieved and sad he is, he can be hard-hearted, turn a blind eye, and dismiss ...... manuscripteven thinks that you are hypocritical and bored with your anger, let alone coaxing you, he may still avoid asking for a cleansing.

Sometimes the male sail Jian Yuan also has a stubborn temper, he has a quarrel, he doesn't want to take the initiative to bow his head and admit his mistakes, so he won't coax women to be wild, it is also possible that the man himself is impatient, he doesn't want to coax women with low anger, he feels that he is superior, and the female state should have a good peace talk with him, and should not let himself grovel to coax women, he feels that it is not worth it without that patience.