Why don t you reply to the ex message?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The main reason is that there is no possibility for the two of us, and replying to his message will give him extra hope, so he simply ignores him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because I understand that a breakup has to look like a breakup, and some things are not suitable for us to do, such as intimate ** conversations every day, chatting until late, dating, eating, watching movies, etc.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I was deeply hurt, I chose to gradually forget about this relationship, and naturally I would not contact again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why don't you go back, no matter how passionate the love was at the beginning, but when he stepped on eight boats, he married me but didn't want to have children, in fact, when he had an illegitimate child, when the divorce and I had to make amends, I didn't let go but when he had let go of me, I had already let go, just as if he was an ordinary friend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I have a new her, so I will not do this kind of thing, which is also a sign of responsibility for the current one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because I'm thinking about whether what you said moves me, and if it doesn't, I won't reply.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After all, we have broken up, and it is human nature to ignore him! I'm going to start my next relationship, and he's wasting my time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Even if we like that and it's our ex, there must be a reason for separation, if we don't have the heart to keep going, why chase it back?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because I already have a wife who loves me, I can only protect my wife and can't go with others anymore. For those who don't stay with me, send her your blessings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I've long since adapted to life without each other, and what to do to disturb this peace will only cause trouble for myself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In the previous experience, I liked that one of my previous exes had broken up for a long time and then got together again. found that she was not as good as she imagined, so after that, she decided that the breakup would be completely separated.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Why go back? It's not that you talk about the ex, but if you go back, you're not responsible for the current one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since he is already an ex, there is no need to go back.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since you have broken up, don't have any contact, this is the minimum of respect, and it is also respect for the current one!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe at first, it was to be a little more thorough. If it's been a long time, it just doesn't feel like there's nothing to say.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The former scumbag is dead, and he is afraid to talk to the dead.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because the ex has already said, it is recommended not to pair these zodiac signs! Are you really sick? Or am I sick?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People should learn to look forward and not waste time on things that have no results.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because he didn't send it to me, how can I reply?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Get married, I don't even dare to go back.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Ex is a stranger, and strangers don't need to speak.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Why not go back? If you are not polite, just be measured.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When are you sending me a message?!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The ex does not reply to the message may state:

    1.She may not know how to reply to you, or she may not be ready to face you. This could be because she has some negative feelings about your relationship, or she hasn't thought through how to handle your relationship.

    2.She may have lost interest in you, or she thinks you're no longer important. If she has started a new relationship, she may feel unnecessary or uncomfortable connecting with you.

    3.She may not know what to do with your relationship because she doesn't know if you can continue to be friends. She may be confused or unsure and therefore choose not to respond to your messages.

    5.She may just be too busy to respond to your messages. This doesn't necessarily mean that she's lost interest in you or that she doesn't want to contact you again, she just doesn't have the time or that she's prioritizing something else.

    Please note that these are just some of the possible reasons and not all cases apply. Everyone's thoughts and behaviors are unique, so it's best to make more specific judgments based on your relationship and the specific circumstances at the time of the breakup.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It means that you are not so important in his mind, or that he already has a new love, so he is reluctant to reply to your message. There's no need for you to dwell on this anymore because you've broken up. If you want to reconcile, you can find him to communicate well and see if he is willing to get back together with you.

    If he doesn't want to get back together with you, there's no need for you to pester him anymore because you've already broken up. If he doesn't want to reply to your messages, you can tell him directly and ask him not to reply to your messages. You don't have to worry about it, you don't have to be sad about it.

    Because you have broken up, there is nothing to do with each other, and you will feel sad for his affairs. All you have to do is let go of him and go find someone who truly loves you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The landlord asked this question very, very undeservedly. Ex, why is it called ex-and-ren? First of all, the past is the past, and the past means that you can no longer go back in time, and it also means that you have gone from being a couple to a stranger. How can a stranger reply to you?

    Dear, don't be stupid, he really doesn't love you. I don't know if you're a boy or a girl, but what I want to say is, dear, he really doesn't love you anymore. There are many couples who still reply when they receive text messages from each other after a breakup, one may be out of politeness to the question, and the other may still have a good impression of each other and hope that there is a possibility of getting back together.

    But obviously, none of your cases are either, because you say "always". He doesn't want to get back together with you, so he won't reply to your messages, because it's not necessary, and it's adding to his own troubles, which is obviously not going to be done. Secondly, he didn't reply to you, or didn't tell you "don't post it again, you're annoying" and other such words, which means that he doesn't even bother to say such things to you, because he doesn't want to pay attention to you at all.

    In other words, he doesn't even want to give you the word annoyance.

    Dear, save yourself some self-esteem.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    For many lovelorn people, the saddest thing is that even if they are still in the same environment as their ex, they can still see each other's new dynamics in the circle of friends, but they are strangers.

    There was no communication with the ex, and even if he was cheeky enough to send a message, there were only a few replies or even a response. Why does my ex always not reply to messages? You try to save your love like this!

    In the eyes of the ex, once the breakup is a passerby, he does not need to treat you like before, you can understand it by empathy, the key is how much you accept the fact of the breakup.

    I'm also a person from the past, and I've tried to be broken up, I really want to talk to my ex, even if it's a quarrel, I will feel at ease, this kind of psychological effect we won't dig deep for the time being, I mainly tell you, in the redemption, how to talk to your ex 'talk very happily'...

    In fact, you should know very well why your ex broke up with you in the first place, this is the backlog point, since you want to redeem it, you must avoid continuing to be the self that your ex hates.

    For example, if you break up due to insecurity, your ex, who is usually insecure, will have a strong desire to control, and you will chat with your ex before you break up, often replying intermittently, including some of the usual high-PU behaviors.

    The ex feels tired and proposes to break up, but in fact, it may just be because you are busy with work and can't respond in time.

    Then you have to stagger when you are busy with work, or don't initiate a chat, once you initiate a chat, as long as you can do it in seconds, sincerely reflect on the past, it is easy to stir up the emotions of your ex. Your ex may not be very happy to talk to you for the first few days, so you should look for him a few more times.

    Another example: breaking up due to a quarrel, obviously the two personalities are not compatible, either you are stronger or you are more passive, the ex feels that there is no future with you, but the breakup will not be blocked.

    When you talk to him, you should avoid inadvertently setting him a compliance test, that is, what you are going to do, you can no longer use a 'command' tone, the obedience test is based on the premise of a high interest indicator, but your ex is no longer interested in you.

    You should start the topic with work and related things, such as pets you have together. Why does my ex always not reply to messages? You try to save your love like this!

    The above is just a relatively superficial way, and your relationship in the theory of love building has even been destroyed to the extent of 'foundation', through the control of the details of the chat, you must be careful in this process. The control of details is based on your emotional control of your ex, and people with high emotional intelligence and rich experience in love can also figure it out themselves.

    If you really don't know what to do, you may want to ask your friends of the opposite sex to understand how their mindset changes after the breakup.

    No matter how active a girl is, she may reply, but it will definitely not be like a strong response when she is in love, either she takes the initiative to find her ex, or she ignores it. But by chance, I have some thoughts about my ex, usually because I saw a certain dynamic of my ex.

    Of course, in this process, remember to correct your position and control your sense of need, say n times.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love should be a prophet before acting! If you also encounter emotional problems, want to recover from a breakup, have conflicts in your marriage, etc., you can come to me to chat, click on the upper right corner to follow, and escort your love!

    After a breakup, you first have to be able to face the fact of the breakup!

    You know, you have broken up, and it is human nature for him to ignore you, and it is a matter of course, you can't still ask him to come according to the formal standards of falling in love at that time.

    In fact, after the breakup, many couples no longer see each other and no longer contact. Only a small number of them still have good relationships and continue to keep in touch.

    However, you also need to understand that a breakup has to look like a breakup, and some things are not suitable for you to do: such as intimate ** conversation every day, chatting late late, dating, eating, watching movies, ......

    Maybe you think it's okay for ordinary friends to do this, it's really nothing, but you're not ordinary ordinary friends, you're lovers who just broke up, so it's not appropriate to do these things again. Why break up otherwise?

    Many girls just don't recognize this, and after breaking up, they will still raise their satisfaction very high, thinking that if he doesn't give you a good response, he just doesn't love you and doesn't give you a chance, and he is a ruthless scumbag. This kind of mentality will only make your relationship worse and worse, and the more you think about the worst, the more you fall into the circle of a vicious circle! If this is the case, then don't think about repairing the relationship, it's just a waste of your time and experience!

    In fact, the real situation is not as bad as you think! After all, you are redeeming, and the other party does not respond well, which is normal. If you really embark on the road of redemption, then don't start to be pessimistic and lose confidence because the other party doesn't give much.

    Because redemption requires you to bear the pain of two people and solve the problems between you. It's normal to feel sad, to feel at a loss, and even to feel like you're inferior.

    In fact, more often than not, it is not that he is ruthless, but that you are unwilling to change and improve yourself, and you are not taking the right path and using the right method. Don't always think that a few words can save each other, this kind of luck psychology can only make you farther and farther away!

    If you encounter problems in your relationship and want to redeem your ex and repair your relationship, then you might as well come to him [Love After Holding the Son] to help you analyze and solve your emotional problems!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I wanted my ex to reconcile but I asked her, what should I do with me?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Teach Jane to communicate correctly and solve the problem that your ex does not reply to your messages

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's quite normal for your ex not to reply to your message, don't get old and get entangled, get old and get in touch, where is there no grass in the world, why bother to love a flower and plant!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There can be many reasons why your ex doesn't reply to your messages after a breakup, it could be that he or she needs time to process her feelings, or he or she doesn't want to keep in touch with you, or he or she is busy or forgot to reply.

    Whatever the reason may be, here are some suggestions to deal with this situation:

    Respect the other person's decision: Don't keep pushing the other person to reply to your messages or try to contact him or her through other means, which may make him even more reluctant to respond to you. Respect him for her decision and give her some time and space.

    Give yourself time to process: After a breakup, you also need time to process your emotions. Give yourself some time to adjust your emotions and don't rely too much on your ex to reply to your messages.

    Revisit your move: If you've been trying to reach out to your ex, then you need to ask yourself why. Is it because you want to be with him and she again, or is it because you just want to make sure that he still cares about you?

    Try to communicate with others: If you find it difficult to deal with the emotions of a breakup, try talking to family, friends or a psychologist for support and advice.

    The most important thing is to be overly entangled in the fact that your ex does not reply to your messages, and try to let go of the past and focus on your future.

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