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You don't have to say anything, you don't have to do anything, just follow your heart.
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Patience, tolerance, and more consideration for each other, it's fine.
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When you're out there and you're penniless, pick up your phone, hey, do me a favor, I don't have the money to lend me some money, okay? Home to you.
Borrow your uncle, damn me has no money, chatted for a while, how much do you want, give me the card number, and call you tomorrow.
When you are blocked outside by the youth of society, you hit **, speed to this place, I was beaten.
Just you're out of the way, wait, I'll call someone, I'll be there later.
When you have a girlfriend, you say to him, buddy, haha, I have a girlfriend, I'm mad at you, old bachelor.
Garbage, isn't it just a girlfriend, brother is not rare. After a while, ask how old is your girlfriend and is she good-looking? Is there the one I used to be pretty?
When you have to go home from work, hit **, yes, I'll be home tomorrow, I don't miss me.
Miss your sister, the old immortal, know how to hit **, come back, come back and invite me to a big meal.
When you break up with your girlfriend and have a sad face.
Haha broke up with your girlfriend, you are proud and deserve it.
After a while, it's okay, just this little thing, make you suffer like this, be happy, go, I'll have a treat.
When you have a mobile phone arrears, say to him on QQ, hey, the mobile phone is in arrears to help teach 30, pay your sister, Lao Tzu has no money. After a while, the SMS came, hello dear customer, you successfully paid 50 yuan online.
When you go out to buy food, someone next to you says, buddy, bring some for me. Get out, this is better than the baby, the lazy one is going to die, go by yourself.
When you go, what to eat, hurry up.
When you are holding snacks to eat, a person snatches your snacks and eats them by yourself, and you shout loudly, you ball baby is cheap.
Haha, my brother has always been cheap, and what he eats is yours.
In today's world, there is a kind of person called a brother!
There is a kind of brother called - dependent on each other.
There is a kind of brother called - never leave.
There is a kind of brother called - sharing hardships and blessings.
There is a kind of brother called - sacrifice to save each other.
There is a kind of brother called - life and death depend on each other.
There is a kind of brother called - on call.
There is a kind of brother called - charcoal in the snow.
There is a kind of brother called - revenge will be avenged.
There is a kind of brother called - my good brother.
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The reason why a person is happy is not that he gets more, but that he remembers less.
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Just treat him as a buddy, you don't have to do it deliberately.
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1. Tolerance and efforts to resolve contradictions.
Brothers, because they are connected by each other's blood, have the greatest bond.
He is not only our brother, but also a complete and independent person with his own thoughts, concepts and personalities, and will not be completely integrated because of each other's blood.
How do brothers get along with each other?
2. Respect each other and don't make decisions for each other.
Whether you are a brother or a friend, you need to respect each other and never take each other for granted.
Everyone has their own life, and everyone also has the right to choose their life, and which way to go is his own choice, and we don't have to interfere too much.
You can also treat your brother with respect as if you were a friend, listen to each other's voice, understand his demands, and think about each other, but don't interfere in his life.
How do brothers get along with each other?
3. Interdependent and independent of each other.
Because of the blood relationship, brothers have an inseparable connection with us, and because of the blood relationship, we can maintain interdependence, one glory and one loss.
Many times, we can share weal and woe, but it is difficult to share happiness, when there is a foreign enemy that infringes on our own interests, we can work together to resist the external enemy, but once the external enemy disappears, conflicts will break out between each other.
Brothers are our blood relatives in the world, but they are also independent individuals, with their own independent side, both interdependent and independent of each other.
How do brothers get along with each other?
4. Keep a distance, and don't exceed the rules.
When you get along with your brothers, don't lose a sense of boundaries because you're too familiar, and keep your distance from each other at all times.
Distance is not only a need for feelings, but also a way to protect oneself, and family affection without a sense of distance is a disaster.
Distance is also the basis for two people to leave room for maneuvering, so that there are fewer contradictions and frictions between each other, and they can get along more happily.
How do brothers get along with each other?
5. Make progress together.
It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish, and the same is true with his brothers.
We can not help our brother make decisions, but we can guide him to a positive, hopeful path, and make life more meaningful through mutual growth and progress together.
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1.Think more from the other party's point of view, be more tolerant, and be more understanding. In this way, you can enter each other's world, understand each other, and enhance the relationship between the two.
2.In life, when friends encounter difficulties and setbacks, we can't stay away from friends, or even abandon them. You can't abandon your friends because of temporary poverty.
3.In life, we should respect each other, care for each other, and replace ridicule with praise.
4.Follow the principle of equality and stand on the same level as each other.
5.Don't expose its shortcomings. Friends will make mistakes and have shortcomings, but when getting along, don't publicize their shortcomings or mistakes, otherwise your friends won't have to do anything.
6.The sea is inclusive, and there is tolerance.
In life, getting along with friends, it is inevitable that there will be some disagreements and misunderstandings, and there may even be quarrels and even fights, at this time we must know how to calm down and tolerate each other, even if one party does not do it, but the other party must also have a tolerant heart.
Friendships last forever.
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1.Honesty is great, and we do what we say.
Whether it is a colleague or a buddy brother, honesty is always the standard of life, if the brothers are full of falsehood and let the interests go wrong, then they cannot be called real brothers. Sincerity is the greatest joy of being a human being. in order to make you live really. in order to make you stand firm in the circle of brothers.
2.There is also a bottom line between brothers.
Don't be presumptuous, and you have to be measured when you joke, of course, this has to be done according to your personality. Brothers also have to settle accounts, and the relationship between brothers also needs experience. Brothers can't blindly ask for each other, they need to know how to give. Sincere dedication, hard work can be rewarded.
3.Be tolerant among brothers.
Since we are together, we must be tolerant, and we must have a tolerant heart for doing wrong things or misunderstandings, and we must not think about things in a bad way. But it is important to communicate, to clear up misunderstandings or things, and not to be ambiguous.
4.Brothers must be clear about money.
Interests and money are relatively sensitive topics, and there are many brothers who do not agree with each other because of money, in fact, everyone says it, just do what you want, don't love face and can't let go. If it's a brother, you have to say it openly.
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There is a characteristic of getting along with brothers, that is, there is always a person who goes out to be dominant, but this is mutually conversion, not fixed. When you're with your brother and people dominate, you just consciously do a good job of being dominated. If you take a ride on someone's car, it is a subordinate position, what should you do?
It's about giving. This is the iron law of the world. You don't have to worry about anything, you can choose to be alone so that you don't have a lot of dominating emotions.
If you are together, then take the initiative to give, and the brotherhood will be more willing to get along with you. The second is to be with your brothers and seek common ground while reserving differences. Don't show off your personality.
Whether you can help or not depends on your own strength. Never be reckless, otherwise you will fall into the trap of unwillingness. The third is that there must be principles and bottom lines.
You have to know what your bottom line is, and you have to let your friends know your bottom line. People with a bottom line will be respected by others, on the contrary, people who are unprincipled will be entangled themselves. All that's left is to help friends according to their own strength.
The main thing is sincerity. There is no special reason, you can't let yourself be entangled in making friends, your friend asks you to pay the fee, which means that he doesn't want others to take advantage, so don't let people suffer. And through this, you should understand that your so-called brother still divides love and money very clearly, respects others, and if you don't like it, try not to be confused about money.
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I think that brothers should treat others with courtesy, sincerity, and morality, and they should talk to each other about everything, do not do things that cause harm to each other, do not want to do unrighteous things to each other, and should do their own things for brothers. If your brother has done something wrong, think about whether the thing he has done wrong is big or small from your own point of view, and judge whether you can forgive him according to the size of the matter; On the contrary, think from his point of view, maybe he can't help himself, or really for the sake of the interests of the powerful and embarked on the road of no return, if you can advise you even if he is pulled on the right path, if it is late, you don't regret recognizing him as a brother, you can wait until he is really a prodigal son to turn back, and then the true friendship of brothers cannot even be replaced. If he really doesn't want to turn back, you have to tell him to get through the journey safely, and I will be the first to appear by your side when you are in trouble and stick a knife in your ribs.
As the saying goes, "The way of friends is to treat each other with all sincerity; Brotherly love is more expensive than a knife in the ribs! Hope it can help you get rid of your troubles.
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The first is that there are human beings first, then there are couples, then there are fathers and sons, and then there are brothers, these three relationships are the closest and most trustworthy, and they continue to extend from these three relationships, and finally form the nine clans.
The second is that when brothers are very young, parents hold one hand at a time, and brothers form a close relationship under the care of their parents. The clothes worn by the elder brother can be worn by the younger brother, even if they grow up and start a family, they can't forget this family affection that blood is thicker than water, even if their parents are not alive one day, brothers must take care of each other, and they must not gradually alienate each other because of the departure of their parents. Treat your brother's children as if they were your own children, the so-called "filial piety should do your best, brothers help each other" is the duty of the son of man.
The third is that you can't listen to the woman's words and stay away from the flesh and blood affection. Although the brothers are separated in form, their blood and qi are the same, and they are all compatriots. Sometimes, because of the division of family property, if the sister-in-law and daughter-in-law are not good enough, they will instruct their husbands and brothers to divide the family property, and each will fight for each other.
My parents raised my brothers because they wanted to see each other humble and help each other in the future, instead of doing things separately. There is a poem that is well written:"The same spirit and branches are glorious, some words are not sad, once we see each other, we can be brothers", cherish this family affection.
The fourth is to get along with each other, the younger brother must be respectful to the elder brother, and the elder brother will be merciful to the younger brother. Brothers must think in one place, and strive to make one place, the so-called everyone collects firewood and the flame is high, and the truth comes from this. Therefore, an emperor called ten brothers to him before his death, gave them a pair of chopsticks, which were easily broken, and gave them ten pairs of chopsticks, no matter how they were broken.
So the king said earnestly that if the brothers are not united, they are like a pair of chopsticks, which can be easily defeated, and if they are united, they are like ten pairs of chopsticks, which will not be easily broken. It's the same with brothers, if they go their separate ways, then there will be no unity between nephews, and if there are bad people bullying, no one will stand up and unite against the enemy, and in the end no one will survive.
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You can call the two brothers together and tell them that you are the closest people, understand each other, tolerate each other, don't hurt each other, hurt each other is to hurt yourself, I believe they will understand these truths.
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01 In terms of money: the brothers settle the accounts clearly, and there is no need for "relief". When you're short of money, the first people who think of borrowing money are probably your siblings.
After all, the family affection that blood is thicker than water is there, and as long as conditions permit, most of them will lend a hand. In the early years, there were several families in our village, in order to give birth to a son, they had already given birth to three or four daughters, and they also paid a lot of fines for this. But it is this kind of life that makes the children of these families very promising:
They either relied on studying or working, and they all went out of the mountains and settled down in big cities. At first, parents wanted their children to go to university and find a formal job. But nowadays, just from the perspective of making money, those who have a formal job are the least rich.
Fortunately, these brothers and sisters are very united, and for the "big things" of buying a house and a car, they are all helping one family, and whoever has more money will come out first. But it is also agreed that the borrowed money will be borrowed and the money will be repaid, but there is no need to pay interest. It is with the help of their brothers and sisters that each of their small families can settle down, even if they encounter difficulties, they will not be chaotic and travel early, and the powerful "support group" has become a source of power for them to wander outside.
Caigen Tan wrote: "Father and son are filial piety, even if they do it to the extreme, they are all appropriate, and there is no trace of gratitude." If the giver is virtuous, and the recipient is gracious, he is a passerby, and he will become a market.
It means that parents are kind and their children are filial, brothers are friendly, and younger siblings are respectful, even if they do their best, it is a matter of course, and there should be no trace of gratitude between each other. If the giver of grace thus confesses his kindness, and the recipient is thus grateful, then the closest relatives become strangers, and the affection of flesh and blood becomes a market transaction. Brothers and sisters get along with each other, money and money should not only support each other, but also timely "even", only the two do not owe each other, in order to return to the same code of suspicion, in order to speak confidently, to do things with temper, in order to make the most sincere brotherhood can continue.
02 Social: Gifts are still exchanged, no need to be on the same page. During the New Year's holidays, visiting relatives and friends, it is inevitable to give gifts, and there is generally such a mentality, giving away what you think is the best to show sincerity and generosity.
For those who are financially well-off, they don't have to think too much about what they want to buy. And for people who are financially tight, they have to consider the cost performance, that is, prepare the best gift with the least amount of money. It is not surprising that people in the countryside will start early and prepare some local products, such as chickens, ducks, fish, pigs, vegetables grown by themselves, snacks made by themselves, and so on.
Whenever you spend time and thoughts, the memories of childhood and the taste of childhood can always come to you. And people who return to their hometowns from other places often bring back trendy, fashionable, and even rare items that are not common in the countryside. These fancy, bright and modern gifts always give a sense of city life.
In this regard, some people readily accept it, but some people feel that it is "not equal", for fear of indebting the other party, and they always want to give more and more.
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