A hesitant decision, a difficult decision about love and marriage

The most feared thing about feelings is to drag mud and water, and it is obscure!

Because people are emotional animals, the longer they get along, the deeper, more complex and more difficult their feelings will be.

If the other person is not what you want, and you can't give the other person happiness, end it immediately, remember, it is the end immediately!

There are three reasons: first, if you don't love each other, but just the other party loves you, neither party can be happy, even if she is very good to you now, but love is not wishful thinking, even if she is willing to pay for you now, but when she does not get your corresponding feedback one day, she will lose the motivation to continue to love you and eventually break up. Rather than that, why waste everyone's time and affection?

Everyone's youth is precious, and a woman's youth is even more so, can you bear to let a person who is very good to you and loves you wholeheartedly end up disappointed and miserable for a long time? If you are a person who cherishes the fragrance and cherishes the jade, please don't hurt someone who loves you for that little selfishness!

Second, since they are going to break up, they will have to break up sooner or later, so why let the two sides continue to torture? People are not afraid of death, but people are afraid of waiting for death, rather than dying, it is better to be happy, why give a knife today and a shot tomorrow? This is not the work of a human king, and it is also against humanity!

Third, keep the first two points in mind!

The only thing you need to think about right now is how to break up?

Breaking up is an art, some people share the pain, and some people share the meaning!

You haven't known each other for a long time, and you don't have a deep relationship yet, you can take the initiative to euphemistically say that you feel that you are not suitable for the other party, and that you are not suitable for the other party, not because she is not good, but because you feel that you are not worthy of this relationship. Because the other party pays more than herself, she is not invested enough, which is very unfair to her, maybe being friends may come to be happier, they are really working hard for each other's feelings, but unfortunately there is more than enough strength to do so, I really feel sorry, I hope she can find true happiness, and bring her the most sincere blessings!

Give each other more respect and apologize to yourself, which can be regarded as a reward for the other party's kindness to you and for your efforts!

Don't put it off, because you can't hurt someone who truly loves you! Friends, really!

If you really don't love her, then bring up the breakup as soon as possible! Because the longer it takes, the more it hurts each other, especially to her, the more she gives, the deeper she loves, the more it hurts. In addition, you said that you don't particularly mind her family conditions, but you can already tell from the tone of your voice that you do

If you really don't want to be sorry for her, bring up the breakup as soon as possible. Otherwise, the greater the hope you give her, the greater the disappointment and the deeper the hurt. Find a time to ask her out and show her your heart in a tactful tone, hoping that she will understand.

Is there really someone who patiently enlightens him? The landlord knows the answer and is looking for someone to persuade him to go down the steps, the conditions in my home are very good, and the situation in her family is very trough, I don't particularly mind, "You said you don't care, so do you still have to take it out and say it?" Hypocrisy.

Either be ruthless or endure. This brother thinks that his love is not deep enough, like this, it is not called love, it is called a waste of youth.

I'm worse than you, and my girlfriend never takes the initiative to contact me ......It's me every time. No surprises at all....