A question of the future! Hear what you guys think!

Hello sister! What do you mean by "can't go to college"? Why?

I studied art, that is, painting, and was admitted to the university, and I only started learning when I was in my second year of high school, and you also like "art" If you can't go to college because of bad cultural classes, I suggest you go to an art class, and then take the exam for an art college, and then a job is very easy to find, and you can eat by learning art! As long as you have the ability, it doesn't matter what school you graduated from, or you haven't gone to college, as long as you have the skills. You are still young now, you should learn more things, even if you go to work people now and ask you how old you are, they don't like to use you because you have too little experience, no matter what you do.

Only by learning skills can you gain a foothold in society, otherwise it will be difficult to find a satisfactory job.

Today's society is very complicated, and if you want to find a job, one is to have someone, and the other is that you must have real skills.

Sister, you are too young, and I don't know where you are, design is now a good direction of development, because I am engaged in this industry now, and you say that there are few good training institutions now? You are wrong, there are good training institutions, but you don't have good ones, you can go to other places to have a look, and sign up for classes to determine your grades by your own hard work! Not everyone can learn to design well!

Now there is no way out except to go to school, or have a fixed property at home to help.

You can self-study in a related major, then find a relevant job, take your time, as long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed.

1. There are very few good training institutions, and there are many deceptive institutions;

2. There are many training institutions, and the number of students is small;

3. The number of students is small, and the salary is large;

4. There are many branches of art, depending on your preferences, you can learn whatever you want, the ideal state is self-study + training;

The age is good, now there are many one-year classes, mainly with the training institution to have a good relationship, more learning and practice, a year of study, and then go to work, two years later 20 you will understand more what you want, further study, so that 21 years old is good, 22 years old or before the discovery of academic qualifications restricting your development, you can take the self-examination or participate in some academic education in training institutions, before the age of 24 may your future is already very bright, and others at the age of 24 may have just graduated from college, you have at least 3 years of work experience, If I were HR, I would choose you!

Is design really that good, I advise you, or don't jump to conclusions so early, I just studied design, went to undergraduate, only to find out that the so-called design is not suitable for me at all, what I need is an empirical industry, and for women, doing design is not long, I want to imagine that you can still do design at the age of 35, and now business, the design that spawned, many are not real design, many designers in practice gradually transformed into the role of designer, I am preparing to change careers, I don't regret learning about economics and design, I think I can use it as an amateur hobby, and I'll be much more relaxed.

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How to increase self-confidence?

1. Have a strong desire.

When a person has a desire to get something, a hormone is produced in the body, which is converted into an energy to help you achieve your goals. This is often referred to as the role of potential.

2. Find your interest.

Interest is the best teacher, doing what interests you feel relaxed and at the same time will do better.

3. Be well prepared.

When you're well prepared, you won't panic in the actual process. And calmly and steadily, it will naturally enhance self-confidence.

Fourth, strength maturity can make perfect.

The more skillful you are, the better you can play. If a professional senior chef is asked to talk about how to manage a restaurant in front of hundreds of people, he may lack confidence, but if you ask him to share his experience of making delicious food, he will be confident.

5. Lift self-imposed restrictions.

Many people's lack of self-confidence is caused by self-imposed limitations, thinking that I can't do it, I can't. Someone asked Carnegie how to be confident in his speech? Dale Carnegie told him, "If you think everyone in the audience owes you money, you'll have confidence." ”

6. Self-reward.

When you do something well, give yourself a reward and make yourself look forward to the reward after your next success. Small achievements are small rewards, big achievements are big rewards.

7. Never give up until the goal is achieved.

When you make up your mind to do a good job, you must have the spirit of breaking the boat, and if you don't win a complete victory, you will never withdraw your troops, which will naturally improve your self-confidence.

I'm going to go out for a while, and occasionally I see your question. I used to be a fresh graduate, and I was confused when faced with problems, and I didn't have the courage to take responsibility for it. However, I have never given up on the ideals in my heart, and it is important to have a good attitude, and I must look at everything.

Everyone says that society is like a magic whetstone, which can sharpen all the edges and corners of young people, making you sophisticated and sleek. Everyone understands the truth, but it is easier said than done, and you can only truly understand it after you have experienced it yourself. You say you have a lot of self-esteem and care a lot about what others think of you.

In other words, who doesn't talk about others behind their backs, who can not be said behind their backs. The most important thing is to behave in the world and be worthy of oneself and conscience. You must have your own principles, if you are doing the right thing, Yu Gong is worthy of the company, and it is not without benefits to yourself, so why care about what others say.

You may find yourself in a difficult situation right now, but I would like to advise you that the problems you will face in the future will be a thousand times more difficult than those you have now. It is said that a good teacher is helpful to you, you must have a good teacher to guide you, and you must have a good friend to help you, otherwise you will not be able to do anything. Frustration and self-blame won't help you solve the problem, but it will make you get nowhere.

Look at your weakest link, what is the problem, and the most critical way out to solve the problem, and then do it step by step. There will always be a way out in life, it depends on whether you want to find it or not.

I am also a fresh graduate now, I am also working as a real estate agent now, now I have been doing it for more than a month, I have also received a lot of difficulties, I wanted to give up, but then I think about whether giving up now means that I am too cowardly? That's why I'm still holding on to it. In fact, we welcome the graduates who have just come out like this, there are still many difficulties waiting for us, we can't be so negative now, work hard, believe in yourself more, we are just beginning, we still need to hone now, try to change your personality, slowly you will become very good, come on oh believe in yourself.

I'll just give you one thing: you already know your shortcomings, and you're afraid you won't be able to correct them??? I can't say that I believe you can make it right, it's important that you believe that you can overcome it! Self-confidence, regaining self-confidence is a top priority! Come on!!!

There is always a process for everything, just get used to it slowly.

If you really do it, you have a lot of talent to learn, but in China it doesn't feel like a big future. You can go abroad to study or something. After all, you haven't seen many good anime in China.

There is a future in everything you learn, and the key is to give full play to your strengths.

If your craft is particularly good, it should have a future. If the craftsmanship is mediocre, then there is no future.

Go to Beiying Media in college, or go to North America to study in France.

The platform has gone up, and the technology in hand does not worry about no money, I am a professional.

Okay, as long as you have that talent.

Anyway, I wonder if it will be related to your relationship? To be honest, this little ambiguity between men and women is not surprising, that is, an online game between a lonely man and a lonely woman, you can be calculating, or you can laugh generously, it depends on your attitude. A wise woman has a wise approach, it depends on whether you want to keep the relationship?

You can also ring the alarm bell at the right time. Don't let this kind of thing become the norm!

You have to talk about it so we can help you.

Be sensible, getting along with two people is a science, top of the second floor!

If you are a factory, if you are from Hunan and just want to find a job closer to home, you can consider going to Changsha, if you want to make more money, then you don't have to go, the salary there is lower than Guangzhou, and it is relatively difficult to find a job.

Of course, it is best to focus on career and honor the elderly.

Many of our family are in the medical field, in fact, the nursing major is also a very popular major now, because I am a second-year junior college college bachelor's degree If your school has an undergraduate, the bachelor's degree of the college is the best.

Go home. My mother has a good care for when she is old.

As long as you have the heart to make money. I won't complain here anymore. I know you're angry.

Are you angry about the sky or the earth? People who complain about themselves will never survive the next level of life experience. I've read your question.

To prove yourself as a man. Children's private affairs, there is a sentence that makes me very heartfelt when I watched a movie recently; Women will make men soft-hearted. If you really have the heart to earn money to support your family.

You'll naturally have a way to earn it. Remember! Next time, don't let everyone see you complaining here.

Let's talk about it when your job is stable!