I dated my girlfriend for 4 years and broke up for 1 year

Updated on psychology 2024-04-27
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In the past, your helpless naivety may have caused her a lot of damage, she is afraid that the tragedy of history will be repeated, and she is afraid that what you are showing now is just an illusion.

    So she may be testing you, otherwise I can't explain why she still cares about you all the time, unless she's really amorous.

    Well, without further ado, persistence is the most important thing, she loves you, and as long as you keep persisting, she will come back.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's really hard to tell who's right and who's wrong when it comes to emotional matters. You are a man. It should be more open-minded.

    It's yours and yours after all. It's useless if it's not your forced stay. No amount of words may comfort you.

    This kind of thing can only be figured out on your own. It's good to be brave and face it. Time will change slowly.

    If a woman leaves you, please let go of yourself, don't be too sad, don't give up on the woman who doesn't know how to cherish you, and don't continue to give your tenderness and love, because that is often in vain in the end.

    Women always say that we men are not good or bad, but they don't pay attention to the fact that there are still many good men among men, and there are also some negative wives among women.

    Remember, at any time, don't be sad for a woman with a negative heart, as a bloody man, you must understand that sadness ultimately hurts your own heart. If that woman is determined to break up with you, no matter how sad you are, she will be indifferent. So, pack away your grief and live well.

    It doesn't matter, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. This flower flies, and there will be more colorful flowers waiting for you. Just take this woman who has been with you for four years and doesn't know how to cherish it as a passerby on your life journey.

    You should learn this lesson, not as an example. A manly man should think openly. Such a girl is not worthy of your love, because she is too casual and indecent, and at the same time does not cherish feelings (love), her departure is a good thing, and you should be happy.

    There are many good girls, so why bother to feel sorry for this girl who abandoned you? It's not worth it, you should cheer up, forget about her completely, and devote yourself to your work (or study) career, I believe you will find a satisfactory one in the future"Girlfriend".I wish you all the best!

    May you be happy and happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, hurry up, take out your killer idea. Marry her, it's a pity that such a girl doesn't marry, she will regret it for the rest of her life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You do it and show him that he knows that you have changed, and he will know, but during this time he is still afraid that you have not changed, take your time, and if you love him, don't be in a hurry, and move her bit by bit.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're sorry to waste four years of other girls! How precious is a woman's youth. Think for yourself what you would do without her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Keep up the good work and don't give up. If people work hard for four years before giving up, you won't be unable to hold on for a year.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    disappointed too many times, will really die, maybe once he really loved you, but with the change of time, people will change, if she really loves you, will choose you, if she feels that leaving you is the best choice, maybe leaving you can be happier, if you are really good for her, I hope you will fulfill her, it is not easy for everyone, in order to pursue their little happiness, they have paid a lot, can only say that you are not suitable.

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