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Love must also be principled.
We can't let ourselves be deceived because of love, and we can't be hurt because of one-sided love.
If everything they did happened before your marriage, you can not pursue it too much, but it should be used as a basis to prevent recidivism.
If this phenomenon occurs again after you get married, it is a matter of principle.
The nature of the problem has changed radically.
Communicate well: Tell him your bottom-line principles. Let him know that the thunder pool in front of him is **.
Tell him his own principles, this is actually the minimum principle of a normal person.
In addition, you don't have too much psychological pressure, and you still have to trust your husband until you find signs of problems. It's also about reducing stress on yourself.
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Now that you're so young, you've had an extramarital affair, your marriage foundation is too weak, or is your husband too attentive, and you tell me that you care too much about each other, ignore your own feelings, and love is humble in the depths.
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Trust him! Make him turn back with sincerity!
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You go with the flow
Don't think about it so much
Hehe, if you forgive him this time, give him a chance, but don't talk about such things when you quarrel.
Because it will make the other party feel disgusted
And if he's still in touch with that woman, don't give him a chance, even if you love him again.
Because you're degrading yourself by doing so.
If you love him, you let him go, let him go to that woman, and you're not afraid that no one will want him
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In fact, what you said about love is more inaccurate, to a large extent, you have love for each other, but it is not full, at least it is not mature and thick, and you can be intervened and threatened by feelings. For love, I believe that many people and families have, but love will not be the same degree and weight, when love is really healthy and full, two people will be temperate and self-reliant, but also able to tacitly understand and grasp the feelings, such feelings will not deviate too much, there will not be too many problems formed, and for many families and feelings have the same love, but this kind of love does not continue to produce new feelings, but pauses, only the feeling of the past, just in the feeling of reluctance, But there is no tacit understanding and certainty between the two people.
For your feelings are actually like this, you have loved, but this kind of love has not been to the state of production, has gradually stopped and consumed, and now there is a gap, your panic and doubt, the fact is that there is no certainty, when you can't grasp the direction and dynamics of the relationship, you will become guessing and doubting, you will be afraid of your own loss.
Therefore, there is no need to suspect anything all the time, it is useless, if they are really repeated, and repeated enough to tilt your marital state, it can only mean that your feelings have accumulated a big problem, but you are not aware of it, and now you should adjust the state of your life, do not stare at the third party, and do not need to blindly believe and doubt him, but also should examine your own marital feelings, think about it, how to make the real tacit understanding between you, you can really grasp it.
Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.
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Don't mess with him, he won't feel the warmth of the family, and the guilt in his heart will turn into annoyance.
Reflect your generosity and establish the image of your own room, you are his wife, which cannot be changed.
My husband has an illegitimate child outside, this phenomenon is often encountered in real life, in the face of this situation, I think there are three aspects that can be done, if you are too wide-minded, open-minded, you can forgive him, the second is to accept his illegitimate child, since the husband who loves you has no love, love her next life and death! The third way, then divorce him, because he betrayed you, so you can't accept it, I think these three situations can be used for your reference.
You quarreled with your husband, you kept saying that he had a woman outside, he was angry and drove away, in real life, why do husbands and wives quarrel because of such things, I think as a woman, if you don't have evidence, you can't talk nonsense about things like this, two people are together, and they don't even have the least trust, so how can they live? If there is someone outside him, he will choose to leave you, or after a long time, you can also perceive that if there is no evidence, don't go so cool, that will hurt a person, if your husband says that you have it outside, and you haven't, are you particularly uncomfortable? So you should consider each other, since there is no conclusive one, you can't go back like that, you can't go like that, it will affect the relationship between your husband and wife, he drives away angrily, proving that it sees that there is really no woman outside, so you can't listen to this all the time, otherwise the two of you will often quarrel together, do you think it makes sense?
This is uncertain, and everyone's opinion is different.
First of all, I'll face my personal opinion:
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