As soon as my husband is in a bad mood, he starts scolding, and he will scold loudly over trivial th

First of all, I'll face my personal opinion:

1.It is normal for husbands and wives to quarrel occasionally, which proves that they still have each other in their hearts.

2.It is also normal for couples to start arguing a lot, which proves that your marriage is starting to have problems, be good at spotting and solving problems.

3.When a husband and wife quarrel, it is important to have their own starting point, whether it is to quarrel or to solve the problem.

4. Quarrels between husband and wife are not caused by just one party.

5 Marriage is like two boats tied together in the wind and waves, it is inevitable that they will bump and bump, and the key is to be tough or humble to each other.

Cause analysis and countermeasures.

Finding the cause is the only way to prescribe the right medicine.

1.To find out why your husband is in a bad mood, whether he is under too much pressure, or if it is difficult to speak, you should think from his position and don't add your own subjective factors.

2.Carefully recall your own language before the quarrel (inappropriate words when preparing for a quarrel will escalate the conflict) and behavior (do not actively solve the problem after discovering it, do not deal with others), whether there is a violation of principles (the language organization when mentioning the other party's parents, the tone of voice, the tone of the other party), and look at your own behavior objectively, and be good at discovering your own shortcomings, which are actually very small and cannot be seen if you are not careful.

3.Quietly feel that the starting point of your husband's quarrel with you is to divorce you, if so, then there is no point in what you are doing, if it is to solve the problem between you, and the quarrel may be that the two of you do not communicate enough, the method is wrong, strengthen communication.

4. Do you care about your husband in action, although you love him and care about him, but he must feel your love and care for him.

5.Communication in daily life, especially when you feel like you are about to quarrel, will it hurt the other party, and the other party will be sad when you say something, this is mutual, try to minimize or not say such words.

6 Say what you think, pay attention not necessarily to get him to agree with your point of view, just to let him understand your idea.

7. Learn to praise one another, not expose each other's shortcomings.

8 Do not try to change the other person, but change for the sake of the other person, also mutually.

9 So I think it's all mutual, and it's not enough for you to make a single effort, what if there's no edge to the above?

Answer: There is no solution. Send you a word: "degree".

These are just what I have experienced in my life, I will say whatever I think, I don't know if I can help you, I just mixed a few words with my wife, and I can't sleep ......

Temper Your husband has a big temper? Is he a capable man? There are many, many things that can be seen from a person's temper.

If he can't control his emotions well, then he = waste. Don't be angry when I say that to your husband! You try to teach him.

Teach him , why is he angry ? Because of what tantrums ? It can't be for no reason.

Whatever makes him angry, let him find something to get angry about. angry out of anger , out of his wife is a waste ! If that's the case, I advise you to leave him as soon as possible!

You see if he is a good person in nature, if he is a good person, you are educating him after he loses his temper, he is not angry and will change it in a few years, my family is like this, and now I know the pain and the heat. If it's very bad, you'll leave immediately.

Did you communicate when he was in the right mood? If he hadn't been like this before, it would be likely that he now had something in his heart that made him very unpleasant... Through all methods and techniques, let's communicate... Pay attention to the wording...

For those who refuse to change their ways....Should have been divorced earlier....Don't miss it for a lifetime....This is a serious problem.

Try to change yourself, try different methods, only if you change, he will change

What I saw before marriage was beautiful, women before marriage used sensibility to recognize problems, and after marriage they were practical, and they all communicated with their husbands, if it didn't work, then the long pain was better than the short pain---

Avoid it far away, such a man has seen a lot, and it is not strange.

You can try to communicate with him more so that he can relax and relieve stress. If you really can't do it, you can see a psychiatrist...

Divorce!! But is Ni really divorced and thinking about how to live? If you have children, think about them!

Let's figure out the cause first, and then figure out how to solve it.

Is it normal to divorce ------ if you can't stand it, you will divorce--- or not, it will not be good for both of you to ---

Marriage is not the same as love, so there is a seven-year itch.

Anonymity? How are you. I have the same problem as you. Are you there.

1. Such a man is abnormal, no problem can be solved unilaterally, it must be resolved through negotiation, it is not right for your husband to scold you every day when he goes back, no matter how reasonable he is, he can't scold people as often as a life, resulting in tension between husband and wife.

2. A man's scolding is a manifestation of incompetence, not to mention that your husband takes scolding as a daily routine, which is incredible, first, it shows that he has no basic moral quality, let alone a man's family responsibility, and there will not be much hope for such a man.

3. I originally wanted to say that there will be many reasons for a person to scold others, either his own pressure, or your mistakes, or your family is not good to him, etc., and your husband scolds your whole family every time he scolds, more like a gangster in the market, such a person is not reasonable, even if he is reasonable, he is not supported.

4. Scolding is a brutal violation of human rights, and men are important members of the family, like shrews scolding the street all day long, what kind of system does it become, which affects the feelings of husband and wife, also causes family conflicts, and interprets themselves as a mad image, so there are all kinds of harm but no benefit.

5. You can find a time to have an in-depth conversation with your husband, one is to thoroughly understand why he scolds, whether he can change it, and make your position clear, if he doesn't have any reason and doesn't want to change, then you can choose other means including divorce.

Hello dear, I'm happy to answer your questions for you, every time you quarrel your husband scolds you with unpleasant words, scolds him back! Scolding is even more ugly, how to hurt people, how to scold! Big deal divorce!

Ask questions, quarrel and always kick me out.

You can't get used to him all the time, this is also domestic violence, verbal violence, and you can record it if you scold him.

I never admit my mistake when I ask questions, and I am the one who is wrong.

You should learn to fight back, you have to use the words he scolds you, scold him again, let him experience the feeling, and thus slowly change him. If you don't change, it will only get worse.

He scolded you, did you fight back?

It's useless to ask questions and fight back.

How long has it been, and it has only been a while since I got married.

Question: This has been the case for three years.

Have children? If a child tells him that this will affect the child.

Question: I know he probably doesn't love me anymore, oh, is there any reason?

Question: We are both second marriages, and his children don't recognize him now.

You and he are married for the second time, he won't divorce his ex-wife because of swearing, right?

In fact, you can divorce your husband, or you can tell your husband that such behavior is wrong, it will seriously hurt the feelings of two people and ruin the marriage.

If there is a problem with the tone and attitude of the two people, you can pay attention to your tone and attitude. If the man really deliberately scolds, it depends on whether he has children, and if he has no children, he will divorce decisively, if he wants dignity. Because, why doesn't he scold his friends, why don't he scold the leaders?

Scolding you, because the price of scolding you is low, you can scold without thinking.

If it is really the man who deliberately scolds people and has a child, you can't let the man scold you in front of the child! Because, if it is a boy, he will be exposed to disrespect for girls, and it is more likely that he will scold his wife in the future. If it's a girl, you may feel that it's natural for a girl to be scolded!

You can only educate your children in the future, don't make friends with people who are in a bad mood! Marriage has to be the right person, at the very least, when it is reasonable, it is possible to listen.

Besides, you just got married, if it were me, I wouldn't live with him, it should have been sweet at first, if it was not good at the beginning, it won't be too good in the future, or even worse.

Maybe he has formed such a way of communication when he is growing up, so you don't have to be too sad and sad, because he is such a person, and you have not yet reached the level where he can get rid of this "bad problem" because of you; But if he is not a person who is "dirty", but because of the so-called small things in life, he can yell at you and say ugly things, then there is only one possibility, he doesn't love you so much, and he doesn't cherish you so much.

When we can't convince others to change, then we should improve ourselves first, and in this matter, more or less you have your own reasons, and you also said that your temper is not very good. When you become a better version of yourself, I believe that your husband will see it in his eyes, and it will also change, in short, if the two of them are bent on living a better life, the stumbling will always pass, who hasn't come over like this.

It is not right to scold people, in this humane and high-quality society. So try to convince people with reason, and hope that the rest of your life will be good to you.

Scold him back! Scolding is even more ugly, how to hurt people, how to scold! Big deal divorce! That's how I was, he took me to dinner after insulting him.

Answering that the husband scolds his wife is very difficult to hear, first of all, it means that there is a big conflict, the husband is very angry, and his quality is very low. Besides, it can be seen that men don't love their wives very much. In reality, there are some men who like to scold when they quarrel, and today I will tell you what kind of psychology is the man who scolds his wife with dirty words?

Inferiority complex Many times, the more powerful people are on the surface, the more they actually have low self-esteem inside, which is the so-called lack of what you want to show something. He scolds, hits and punishes people, in fact, it is a process of suppressing low self-esteem and building self-confidence.

I don't understand what psychology is when I ask a question.

The psychiatrist showed him and said that he did not have low self-esteem.

Asking questions is often scolding, insulting and slandering people over trivial matters.

It's like I'm very biased every time.

Answer: This is related to his surrounding environment, such as where he works, colleagues or something, and another is that he may feel stressed and come home and see that what you did did not meet his mind.

I mean you have to communicate with your husband well, ask him why he scolds you no matter what you do, and then prescribe the right medicine.

When asked, he doesn't communicate with people.

Question, oh, it's already a crisis, and I'm about to get divorced.

So I just asked him what was in his heart.

Always abusing me.

The answer can tell you responsibly that he has an inferiority complex, because even if he sees a psychiatrist, it is because he doesn't want the doctor to see through his mental activities, so he behaves differently than he usually does.

If it were me, I would have divorced him decisively, scolding you now, and maybe beating you in the future.

Do you understand what to do?

You can divorce your husband, or you can tell your husband that this behavior is wrong, it will seriously hurt the feelings of two people, and it will ruin the marriage.

You should learn to fight back, use the words he scolds yourself, scold him again, let him experience this feeling, and thus slowly change him.

You should divorce the other party immediately, the other party is really a person who doesn't know how to respect herself, and if you live with the other party, you will be very uncomfortable.

When you encounter a problem, you should analyze the problem rationally, everyone will have emotions, be more tolerant, and be more understanding.

You can channel him and don't make him angry. Then tell him slowly. If he has a short temper, then the impact on the child is also great. When children grow up, they will also be short-tempered, socially unsociable, and have low self-esteem. It is greatly detrimental to the development of the child.

Your husband has a bad temper and often scolds, which means that your husband has a bad liver and is prone to trouble in his career. is the so-called family and everything is prosperous, and it is unlikely that you want him to change his temper immediately, but it can let him slowly control himself. Don't mess with him when he loses his temper, follow him, and when he doesn't lose his temper, you should educate him well, tell him the disadvantages of frequent tantrums, and let him control it himself.

Your husband has a short temper and often scolds, I hope that your gentleness can influence him, if you can't change him, find society to change him, if you can't stand him, you can leave him.

Your husband has a short temper and often scolds, which is a very bad phenomenon, you have to sit down and communicate with him and let him change his temper.

If you want to change your husband, first change yourself. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, thank him!

You should persuade your husband to let him restrain his temper a little, telling him that this is not right, not only will it damage his face, but he will also appear to be less qualified.