I feel like I m so weak 200

We say that there is no such thing as good or bad character. Introverts also have their own innate advantages, such as being steady, calm, not impulsive, and more rational in thinking about problems. It's not that introverted and unspoken people are easy to be bullied, it's just that you're used to having a negative mindset about the people around you, and this negative thinking may be caused by individual things that individual people do to you.

Therefore, there are two sides to everything, that is, you can't think that if one person bullies you, everyone may bully you.

One of the best rules of interpersonal relationships is; If you want others to treat you the way you would like to be treated, then treat them like that first.

You are afraid that others will bully you, so you choose to stay away from the people around you, and you keep thinking that they are a group of "deserving to be killed". According to the above rules, you can imagine what others think of you as a misfit gentleman ... Why should you expect others to come out of nowhere to woo you?

Therefore, an honest character does not mean a character that does not interact with others, and honesty also has its own sincere, kind, and friendly side, right? Therefore, if you want to completely change your current predicament, then try to let go of the one-sided view of others in the past and take the initiative to try to talk and talk to the students around you, so that they know what you are thinking, what you like and what you don't like...

I think that as long as you do it with your heart, even if you suffer a loss or twice, it will not prevent you from getting lasting happiness.

Good luck

I think your problem is mental. Don't go back to the cause, think of a solution. 1. Fitness!

It's not that you get into a fight with someone, but that sports make people cheerful. 2. Learn not to care and smile at what happens. It doesn't matter if you wait, does it?

You yourself don't think stupid, no one thinks. In fact, if you are neglected, you can completely urge it, and if you don't urge it, you feel wronged and you can't get along with yourself. If you rush it, you won't quarrel!

3. Make friends, don't make friends and bully yourself, that's not a friend! Ignore them! When it comes to society, they don't necessarily mix well.

4. Learn! Knowledge is power, and if you can't settle down, you can try to take some Chinese medicine to recuperate.

I guess you like to play games, you spend your days in your room playing games, so you don't go out, you don't make a single friend, and you become less and less confident, and then you become more and more addicted to games, because in the virtual world you can get things that you can't get in real life, and you end up in a vicious cycle.

You don't have to care about the people in the school, sometimes it's because you care too much and are too sensitive that you always think how they are rude to you, and don't be afraid.

Forbearance is an advantage, but it is not necessary to forbear everything, it is appropriate to vent your emotions, what is wrong with others, you think you can't bear it, you have to boldly quarrel with each other, do it, or even fight. Because the more you endure too much, the more you will make yourself psychologically distorted, you said that you want to kill them, I fully believe that people who have been forbearance can do anything when they finally break out. So don't keep your emotions in your heart.

There should be a lot of clubs or activities in school, so if you don't stay at home and play games, and participate in more of these club activities, you can make a lot of friends, and once you make a friend, everything will start to get better.

How to say it, your various problems boil down to not being confident enough, as long as you have self-confidence, you will not be afraid, you can express it bravely when you think of it, it is recommended that you participate in more group activities, watch more inspirational movies, and then what about friends, how you treat others, others will treat you, heart to heart, if you are really sincere enough, and have the characteristics of others who want to be friends with you, then this is no longer a problem.

I think it's still angry when you should be angry, such as in a restaurant, snubbing you and the waiter did too much to say,. But this is a small thing.,The average person will only react at the time.,You don't need to think about anything and don't care.,In school.,I think.。。 Do you talk to your tablemates???

I think it's important to at least start interacting with the people near your seat first, right??? I think it's straightforward to say that your popularity is not good, and you have to let him know that it's not right to bully you for no reason, some people like to bully the soft and fear the hard, understand??? I think school is generally a good classmate.。。

Try to have more contact with classmates you don't hate.,Find an excuse to borrow something from class at will.,And then immediately return it to someone and then casually take a few words that you don't have.,,It's very convenient, isn't it?

It's your mentality that has a problem, looking at everyone's eyes are opposites, it's good if you don't think about him, it's not wrong to be afraid of being hurt, but you can't be trapped in it, in a word, look down, don't think about it, stay away from what you don't like, find something you like to distract from the negative.

I can probably understand.

Because we're pretty much the same.

1. Evaluate yourself correctly. Look at your strengths and weaknesses truthfully, firmly believe that you are not worse than others, be upright and confident in the face of anything, and keep cowardice and inferiority away from you.

2. Present yourself correctly. Learn to show yourself in appropriate situations, do more within your ability, and grasp the bigger things. Because any ingredient will enhance people's self-confidence, strength and courage, we must constantly look for opportunities to express ourselves and gradually overcome our cowardly character.

3. Constantly enrich and improve yourself. Be clear about your own shortcomings, overcome them with the greatest determination and tenacious perseverance, continue to learn, enrich, and improve yourself, and believe that you will be able to overcome your cowardly character.

I think self-confidence needs to be cultivated slowly, and there is no need to rush.

First of all, you have faith in yourself and believe that you will be able to stand up strong one day.

And most importantly, do what you want to do legally and reasonably, and don't pay too much attention to what others think of you. In fact, in many cases, others don't pay much attention to you, and the person everyone cares about the most is themselves. This is evidenced by my experience.

I had a psychology class and the teacher played a game with us. A group of strangers formed a circle and introduced ourselves in order. Name your class, hobbies.

Every time we introduce ourselves, we must first repeat the self-introductions of the students who have introduced ourselves before, so that we can remember the names of those classmates. It's a great group game for meeting strangers. After playing the game, we found that in the process of playing, we only pay attention to whether our names are said correctly by the students below, and we pay relatively little attention to how others introduce themselves.

So, we don't have to care too much about what others think of us when we do things. Actually, they're just focusing on what they're doing, and they pay little attention to you. So, don't worry, just be bold and do what you want to do, and be bold enough to improve what you do.

I believe you can definitely improve. Take your time! The road ahead is bright.

Also, it is important to maintain good interpersonal relationships with the people around you. The quality of your relationships directly affects your mood and your courage to do things. Good interpersonal relationships will make you dare to be yourself in front of familiar people, express yourself, and become brave to show your true situation.

Because you know that they will not think anything about you, but you do something wrong, they will give you kind advice and encouragement to improve and improve. At the same time, they (friends) are also good people for you to talk to. They will also give you advice that will help you improve.

According to the knowledge of psychology, people need to communicate very much. The power of encouragement is difficult to estimate. When you feel something wronged, talk to your friends.

It works!

We have to face a very embarrassing fact, that is, understanding what kind of existence I feel like I am cowardly is the key to solving all problems. Shen Yue summed up his life experience in such a sentence, not to mention a bottle of wine, it will be difficult to hold it again tomorrow. This sentence seems simple, but the gloom in it can't help but make people think deeply.

To sum up, it seems like a coincidence that I feel like I'm cowardly, but if we look at things from a bigger perspective, it seems like an unavoidable fact. I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution. We have to face a very embarrassing truth, which is that we all know that as long as it makes sense, then it has to be carefully considered.

It's inevitable. To sum up, I feel like I'm cowardly, how exactly should I achieve this? In this way, it is inevitable.

This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. Anonymous once said that tigers are not afraid of high mountains, and fish are not afraid of deep water. This sentence takes us to a new dimension to think about this question:

Generally speaking, we all have to think carefully. Since how, everyone has to face these problems. In the face of this kind of problem, with these questions, let's look at me and feel that I am cowardly.

I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution. Jin Shu summed up his life experience into such a sentence, self-cultivation is respectful, don't trust respect. This sentence takes us to a new dimension to think about this question:

It seems like a coincidence that I feel like I'm cowardly, but if we look at the problem from a larger perspective, it seems like an inevitable fact. Today, we have to solve my feeling that I am cowardly, Zhang Zhixin once said that love is an indispensable but it can only be an accelerator to push us forward, not a stumbling block to work and study. This sentence is like a bosom mate in my life journey, constantly motivating me to move forward.

In summary, we all know that as long as it makes sense, then it must be carefully considered. I feel like I'm cowardly, how exactly should I achieve this. We need to unify our thinking, unify our steps, and work hard to fundamentally solve the problem that I feel I am cowardly.

Personally, I feel that I am cowardly and means a lot to me.

Cause. 1: Parents are too capable and have too high expectations for their children, and parents with particularly strong abilities generally have very high requirements for their children and pursue perfection, while children cannot do everything perfectly.

As a result, parents will be criticized too much, which will make children doubt their own abilities, and gradually lose self-confidence and have low self-esteem;

Two: the family is incomplete, the child living in this kind of broken family does not get enough love from his parents, feels that he is a child abandoned by society, he sees that other classmates, children can be with his parents, he will be even more sad, feel very inferior.

Three: Parents themselves have this kind of inferiority complex, which is an acquired emotion. For example, when parents encounter things, they always say no, children are not very good at imitating their parents' attitude, and they will think that my parents are not good, so I am even more bad.

Therefore, this tendency of parents subtly affects children.

Self**. 1.Get in touch with people with cheerful personalities.

For people with introverted or low self-esteem, you can appropriately participate in some activities in the cheerful circle or make some cheerful friends. Communicating with each other from time to time can change one's personality and perception of events.

2.Do what you can.

Sense of achievement: For the people who are said to be insecure, they can increase their personal sense of achievement and personal self-confidence through some events within their ability. Let yourself have a sense of responsibility and accomplishment at the same time eliminate low self-esteem, here you can start from the skills and events that you are more familiar with.

3.Develop hobbies.

Everyone has hobbies, more or less. You can choose the corresponding things or fun according to your own preferences, which is the best way to change your personality, and you will be more interested in doing things or self-confidence, and you will be more valued by others.

4.Multi-directional simultaneous adjustment.

You are a typical lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, and your living environment, your parents' education has a lot to do with it, you want to become confident, first of all, make friends with the boy in your neighborhood who can speak, talk to him more, read more books when you have free time, go out to work outside, contact people more, maybe you will overcome this shy and inferior psychology, make yourself stronger, you will be less inferior.

I have similarities with you, I'm a very hearted person, it's okay on the Internet to communicate normally, I don't like to talk in real life, I don't like to have a lot of people, I feel like I have social phobia, I can't integrate into society, and I have only done some trivial work in the past two years of stepping into society, network management, auxiliary police, scenic workers, and I have also done sales to change this character, but I can't change it, I can't be as talkative as a colleague, and I can't take money so seriously, not that I don't think money is important, I just think there are too many things that are more important than money, and recently at the urging of my family, I took a safety officer certificate on the construction site, and my family is also in a hurry to help me Zhang Luo work, in fact, I don't know what kind of work I want to do, maybe my parents are right, I can't keep messing around. I smoke, but I don't drink, I don't play cards, I don't go to bars and stuff like that, I can't fit in with the crowd, those are not the life I want, I'm also confused, I'm very sober about my decadence, I'm also lazy, I don't want to work hard, I feel like I don't care about anything, I have no goals and dreams at all, I just eat and wait to die.

Life still has to be lived, and I am also afraid of strange people and things to live in a muddy way, maybe one day I will find the meaning of life?

Think of it as my own talk, and I'm not qualified to teach others how to do it.