What are the rules when you get married, and what are the rules for getting married?

Buy a car, buy a house, buy a dowry.

Chinese culture is broad and profound.

You can ask your local elders, or people who have experienced it, because the customs of the region and the region are different. It's good to know about it, and those who don't know are not guilty

Every village has its own rules, and every nation has its own rules, so I can't tell you what the rules are.

The customs and habits of each region are different and cannot be uniform.

The customs are different from place to place.

1. After the groom arrives at the bride's house, the bride's parents will sit with the groom for a while, and then the bride's sister and sister-in-law will appear on the stage, start to ask for red envelopes, and agree on the price of the noodles, which is generally negotiated in advance. When the wedding noodles begin, the groom should eat them quickly, and the bride's family will quickly grab them. The implication is to win the rich, so the two parties will try their best to tease and steal the happy face.

Under normal circumstances, the groom can only eat one bite, and the noodles are robbed.

Second, after eating the wedding noodles, the groom came to the bride's door, and the bride was ruined and did not open the door, and he had to take a red envelope to open the door. Of course, these red envelopes are all requested by the bride's family.

3. Door lock fee When the groom enters the house, the bride's parents have already locked the door, and if you want to marry the bride back, you have to pay the door lock fee, not give a red envelope, and do not open the door. Some smart grooms will arrange for someone to hold the door in advance and not let it be locked.

Fourth, three cannons When the groom has almost taken out the red envelope, the bride should get on the sedan chair, but the groom must put enough three cannons, and the firecrackers are longer than the other, so that the bride can get on the sedan chair.

Fifth, if you don't go back, you can't take the road when you get married, which means that husband and wife don't go back.

Sixth, grab the red quilt after the hole room On the night of the cave room, the groom and the bride will grab the only red quilt, and whoever grabs it will have the final say in the future. That's an interesting marriage custom in some of our rural villages.

In the long-term case summary, I found that women's attitudes towards marriage are more cautious than men's, although it is not as old as the old saying goes, "marry a chicken and marry a dog", marriage is a lifestyle choice for women, and the husband and wife are a community of responsibility and economy, and sometimes a community of debt. Excluding divorce, the man a woman marries can determine the state of a woman's life in the second half of her life.

A period of time before marriage, is a process of transformation of a woman from girlfriend to wife, men in this link not only to pay gifts, but also to buy weddings, etc., and this period of time is also the reduction of women's control, which leads to the phenomenon of "premarital bargaining" for men, whether it is a woman who wants to marry or not, in this link may become a "tool" for men to bargain before marriage.

No matter which of the above situations, I don't recommend that girls let their boyfriends be quiet, and don't entangle, marriage should be a very cautious thing, you need to know why he proposed to break up, but this shouldn't be asked by yourself, you asked, it's into the third situation. In the case of not knowing the reason for the breakup, the girl has to preemptively agree to his breakup, readily agree, don't ask the reason, don't look for him, the next thing to do is to tell your parents, and then let your parents negotiate with his parents.