At the age of 25, I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years, and my family was worried that I wouldn t

Updated on society 2024-04-13
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hey, love is this thing, I feel like I can't stop anything when I come, I don't come, I can't force anything, I think if I can, I'd better go to him, after all, I have been in a relationship for three years. If it really doesn't work, then wait, now China doesn't also advocate late marriage and late childbearing, nothing you are not old, take your time, I wish you find a good man who loves you and you love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you're thinking too much, it's normal for this phenomenon to happen now, don't be too anxious, I'm more single than you! Sometimes it's not a question of whether you can find it or not, it's your mentality.

    Entering the society is to face all kinds of pressure, there are countless turning points in life, whether you can survive what others say doesn't matter, all have to rely on yourself, believe in yourself, I think you can!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What's the hurry when you're only 26 years old? South Korea's **50 is also relieved to be a leftover girl, you have to have confidence in yourself, love will definitely come to you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on what kind of conditions you want to find, counting on finding a white rich handsome, it depends on fate, if you just find a general to live, it shouldn't be difficult.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are only 25 years old and are not in a hurry, there will be better ones in the future Many boys don't care too much about their looks, the key is the heart, saying that your income is also good, and it will be easy to meet.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What's this, it's so much older than you and haven't married, what do you want to do so much. It's just that your marriage hasn't arrived yet, and when you do, you will naturally have nowhere to escape.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Ask yourself, you don't need to ask others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Blind date, even if you are twenty-six, you are not old, and you are not afraid of finding a boyfriend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Impulsiveness in young men is a normal sign in this situation, and it would be better if they showed better restraint. Off topic. However, if there is no such restraint, it is difficult to have a great future.

    For now, you need to have a good talk with him, and clearly tell him that you want to wait for the time to get married, complete this ceremony, and cherish yourself now, which is the persistence of love in the future, I hope he can understand.

    Second, in fact, you still have some of him in your heart. Right, so, how to say, life is like this, you can't have the best of both worlds, take care of one side, the other side has to let go, and see which direction your heart is still inclined towards.

    Three, talk to your mother, she is a person who has come over, a lot of things and a lot of experience, she will tell you from the perspective of a person who has come over, what to do about this thing, if she wants to see how this person is, you can invite her boyfriend to the park to play, let the family take a few hidden glances on the side, from their experience, you can help you judge whether this man is reliable in the details, after all, so many years of life experience, will always help you avoid a lot of detours.

    You yourself are in the bureau, it is difficult to see these, good sisters, especially smart, can help you with the staff, less experience than you, don't ask them, so, the family is more reliable. Older ones are more reliable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you think that you can entrust this person in this life, let your parents know as soon as possible!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ask your parents for their opinions first, and then ask your boyfriend if he is willing to go on the road with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You don't have to discuss the major events in your life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should sell some health care products, and some nutritional products, saying that your boyfriend gave them to your parents, so that they can pay more attention to their bodies.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have to know shame, just think about it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, let me tell you clearly that even if you are divorced at the age of 24, there will still be people who want it, which is not a problem, because 24 years old is not too big. You don't have to talk about divorce all the time, it's not a stain on your life. Please don't feel too burdened, please be confident.

    This is your own problem, and you always think that you have fallen off the price and are inferior. Since there is a guy who is willing to marry you, this is already very revealing, I don't know where your low self-esteem comes from? So the first thing you have to do is to completely delete the word divorce from your mind, and don't take it seriously yourself.

    Secondly, this boyfriend cares a lot about what his family thinks, and it is estimated that he will not be very old, and it is likely that from childhood to adulthood, everything his parents have done for him, so what to do, I feel that if my parents do not support him, he will have no confidence. If you are a truly independent man, you just notify your parents when you get married, and your parents only have blessings and help, how can you oppose or hinder them? Obviously, the child was raised at home, at least it shows that the man's family is very traditional, patriarchal, and inferior.

    Finally, ask yourself a question – are you trying to get rid of yourself quickly because you feel like you're getting a bargain? Or do you really love this man, so much so that you can't extricate yourself? Ask yourself seriously.

    My conclusion, treat this man as a spare tire, consume him, and then open the door of my heart, live confidently, make good connections, and find a more mature and stable, responsible and assertive man, and a more enlightened family ideology.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are thousands of eons, may you get earthly happiness. Feelings are a luxury, I like it when I am young, and if I am older, it seems that my heart is just a responsibility, and love is difficult to say. I don't see you every day, and I can't drink the same river water, I think of my emotional experience, so much love, it's difficult to say hello now.

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