Should I go when my boyfriend s mom died?

Updated on society 2024-04-25
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My boyfriend's mother has passed away, and if you have established a friendship, then you should definitely go to participate, which is also a comfort to your boyfriend, and you can help with the aftermath, but if you haven't established a relationship yet, you can ask a few friends to go with you, and you can appear as friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My boyfriend's mother has passed away, and as a girlfriend, you should still go to see it, because as your confidence in your relationship with the man, you should also go to cheer him up, comfort him, and let him give me confidence.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your boyfriend's mother has died, you should go, as long as you two love each other and have no opinion, anything at home on the boy's side, as long as he tells you that he invited you, you can go.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you and your boyfriend are in a relationship with the intention of getting married, then in this case, your boyfriend's mother has passed away, you should still go, after all, this will also leave a better impression on his father and other family members to a certain extent, and also make your boyfriend feel that you care about him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My boyfriend's mom died, should I go? This is definitely okay, if you really care about him, make sure that he is your boyfriend, his mother's biological son, you should go as a girlfriend, you should go to accompany your boyfriend and deal with his mother's funeral.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If the relationship has been confirmed, then you should go, at this time your boyfriend needs your comfort and encouragement the most, so you should go, give him spiritual comfort, and also give him practical help.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should go when your boyfriend's mom died, I don't think he knows what you think, but I suggest you go, after all, you have had feelings for each other, and he needs help the most now. Wait until he's done taking care of things before you talk to him about your thoughts formally. But as for wearing linen and filial piety, you don't need it, just go as a friend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you have a good relationship with your boyfriend and her mother dies, you must be there, and if the relationship is bad, then you don't have to go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This depends on your situation, depending on how old you are, if you are all adults, you are sure of the relationship, then the suggestion is to go as well, if there is no certain relationship, then this depends on the attitude of the girl, you can go if you want to, it's okay if you don't go, and you have to comfort and comfort your boyfriend afterwards

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course it should, their family must be very busy at this time, and he must be very sad and sad, so you can help and comfort him at the same time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can go, as a friend, I want to go to condole, go to the house to mourn and see if there is anyone who needs help.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My boyfriend's mom passed away, and it was a big deal for him. Your visit to pay his condolences is the greatest spiritual comfort to him. It is recommended that you go for it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your boyfriend's mom dies, it's the right thing to go for as a girlfriend. Of course, this is after playing for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Under normal circumstances, girls do not go. But some girls are kinder and will go to his house to see him. It doesn't matter if you can help or not, but it's good to give a comfort, or a hug.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Boyfriend's mother passed away, and it stands to reason that you should go and see it, comfort your boyfriend, and if you just know each other for a long time, you don't have to go

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In this case, you can go or not, without a clear relationship, or you can go to condolences as a friend.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Your boyfriend's mom has passed away, and you should comfort your boyfriend if you feel that your boyfriend has the possibility of continuing the relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your boyfriend's mom has passed away, and if you're just sure of a relationship, it's better not to go, you can ask your boyfriend for advice.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your relationship with your boyfriend is clear, and both adults know about it, then of course you have.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    According to human feelings, you should go.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Generally, no. Because generally speaking, if you are not married, it is best not to participate in the other party's funeral, unless the other party has approved it, you only have to have a wedding, and the funeral will invite you, you can participate at this time.

    Precautions: White things are particular, children are even more so, generally after the marriage can be directly to the letter, to give the letter to go, not to go to the meaning does not recognize the in-laws, is to be yellow, there is a kind of family, is called the coffin head to marry, both men and women have a parent died, to three years before the children can get married. Therefore, there is a marriage of a coffin.

    Your situation is urgent, you don't have to worry about whether you are married, your boyfriend's mother died, the first step is of course to notify you, you go, the daughter-in-law who passed through the door at the end will be red, and you will be given a sum of money, if you are happy to go, the next step may be to get married within 100 days, otherwise it will be three years later. If you don't go, it's not a matter of wrongdoing, but the man's family is basically sure that you have denied this family business.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Of course you can, his mother passed away, and his relatives, friends, and classmates can go, not to mention you, you should go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is the case that should go.

    1. As a family member.

    After dating for several years, her mother asked ** to go, indicating that she was willing to continue. The boyfriend's family, which is also his own family, should be involved in family events.

    2. Give your boyfriend emotional comfort.

    The death of a loved one in his boyfriend's family is emotionally comforting for him, and his presence can give him strength. Emotional sustenance is very important between people, and when facing the departure of a loved one, if the closest person can give spiritual encouragement, it will help a person get out of grief.

    3. Understand the interpersonal relationships of your boyfriend's family.

    It's a bit anachronistic, but it's true. In the face of this major event in the family, you can see the side of many people who treat people and things, so that you can make some psychological preparations for integrating into your boyfriend's big family in the future.

    When attending a funeral, you should pay attention to the following:

    1. Clothing: Dark colors such as black or blue should be worn, men can wear white shirts or dark shirts, women should not wear lipstick, and scarves with bright tones should not be worn.

    2. Jewelry: Try not to wear jewelry, if you need to wear plain jewelry, you can consider plain jewelry or try not to leak, do not leak to wear, this is a great disrespect to the deceased.

    3. Condolence sentences: care and comfort are very necessary for the relatives of the deceased, some excessive weightlifting such as crying should be avoided as much as possible, and attention should also be paid to the wording, as a condolence sentence, it can generally be said like this: "I am really sad when something like this happens, please mourn" or "This time the incident is too sudden, please take care of your body".

    4. Wording and actions: At the funeral, you must pay attention to the wording, and do not appear words that make people think of misfortune such as "death" and "miserable"; Solemn mourners at the funeral should be restrained and refrain from high-minded talk. If you are with children, don't let them laugh and play, keep your voice as low as possible, and behave gently and steadily to show sincerity.

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