My boyfriend said that he didn t match my personality and asked me not to look for him every day. Bu

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Girl: Your relentless pursuit has taken your boyfriend out of breath.

    In your world, there's nothing else to do but miss your boyfriend, miss your boyfriend, love your boyfriend.

    Seriously, girl, you're so boring! There's a lot more to do in this world than love.

    How long have you not been with your parents, how long have you not played with your sister Tao, how long have you not been yourself, I have improved. There's so much to do! But you don't do anything, just guard your boyfriend.

    It's not that you don't have a personality fit, it's that you're too clingy to him, and he needs to have his own space.

    Instead of being with you every day, he also has his own things to do.

    By the way, why can't you care about your career, you are in this society, and you are not just his girlfriend.

    If you continue to be clingy like this, how many men will be scared away by you.

    If you have too much time, go to a training class or a health club or something like that, make some friends, don't do nothing, just sit there and think about him, so you are really boring!

    And it's not cute at all.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on what kind of quarrel you have, if every quarrel does not have much impact on your feelings, on the contrary, you love each other more, that is a way to communicate feelings, the premise of this situation is "the head of the bed quarrels, the end of the bed and" kind, then you should love well, that is a kind of happiness that the gods will be jealous of; If every time you quarrel, you have to fight for a long time, and it is very painful, then you have to think about it, whether it has reached the level of "not speculating, more than half a sentence", whether it makes you feel that this relationship is not strong at all after every quarrel, whether you don't want to communicate with her, because you quarrel as soon as you communicate, if this is really the case, then breaking up is also a relief. Think about it for yourself, and then make a decision, no matter how you decide, I wish you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't let people lead him by the nose, he said if he wants a little space, then give him a little space. Satisfy him, if she doesn't satisfy him, she has a better way. Women can't rely too much on men, but also have their own independent side and their own dignity.

    And there will always be a chance to meet the two of them for a long time in the future, so it's not a bad thing to adapt in advance, if he really likes you, it's called wanting to catch up, if he likes someone else, you go to pester him, he will annoy you even more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Inquire through his friends if there are any other girls around him, and if there is a ** that can check him, of course, don't let him know. If it's not the best, if he's really working, you can look for him when he's on vacation or when he's alone and has no friends, sometimes when his girlfriend calls**or when he's playing with friends**, it's really annoying to hang you**. If there are really other girls, I can't say, I can only suggest that LZ things be checked clearly, don't get me wrong, and you can even pretend not to know the situation and be friends with that girl, I believe she is also embarrassed.

    But your husband is quite dragged, and my girlfriend is angry and irritable if he ignores him for a day.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Wow,Are you really sorry that no one wants it or what?,To stick him with a face like this.,The more you do this, the more he thinks you're worthless.,Actually,What he said is not that the two of you are not suitable.,It's that you're not suitable for him at all.,You're not what he wants.,I don't understand this.,Hey。。。 You might as well go freely and leave some dignity for yourself, girl!!

    This man is simply riding a donkey to find a horse, and as soon as he thinks it is appropriate, he will kick you mercilessly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's obvious. You go and find out if he likes someone else, or if you don't like him in something that he wants to leave. If you are so cold again, leave and cold him for a while to see if he will look for you. People sometimes need space.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's only been 2 months.

    What are you still clinging to, Bai Ming doesn't care about you.

    If he really likes you so much, he will want to see you when he is tired.

    When you really like someone, the most tired time is to be with them.

    That's the real thing, and I'm going to break up with him.

    Find someone who really loves you Don't be bitter about yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To put it simply: either he doesn't love you anymore, or you give him too little space, which makes him nervous.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is he a very conservative person?

    Or does he think you're delaying him from playing with his friends?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hey、、Why is it simple not to understand?

    He doesn't have feelings for you anymore.

    Or rather, it's light on you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The key is how you look at this relationship, if you still want to cherish this relationship, then two people find a suitable opportunity, talk about it, ask him why he is unhappy, from the beginning of the two together unhappy or slowly unhappy, see if it is his own reason or your reason, or the family reason, if both people still love each other, open their hearts and talk about it, Two people understand each other and negotiate each other to make changes, solve problems together, some people are not good at words, everything likes to be put in their hearts is also easy to misunderstand, after all, how lucky it is to meet people who like each other in the vast sea of people, a hundred years to repair the same boat, and cherish it.

    But if there is a problem with the relationship, then you can really think about whether this relationship is worth continuing, after all, some people in this society are eating from the bowl and looking at the pot, and before the success of the two sides to stabilize the relationship, once you succeed, there are also those who will have a showdown with you immediately, and the heart of defense is indispensable. To find a reason to be unhappy, if it is a matter of principle, then the long pain is better than the short pain, if it is a small problem, then the showdown, try to consider the other party's position, empathy, the two will become husband and wife in the future, and there are many things about oil, salt, firewood and rice after menstruation, so now the run-in period must see each other's character clearly.

    Except for special reasons, I think if two people love each other, how can they be unhappy together? Love is never tired. Since we are not happy together, how can we love for a long time, but it is precarious.

    In addition, the relationship is very taboo and self-deception, you think that you will be in love for a long time, but in fact you really don't love, you think you love deeply, but you are used to the existence of that person. And of course, don't miss each other out of impulse. So it still depends on how the parties themselves measure this relationship, in fact, love or not, whether you need to continue, I believe that the parties have a scale in their hearts, and finally wish the world a lover to become a family eventually!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You shouldn't choose to break up, because your boyfriend is unhappy and doesn't talk, it's likely that he doesn't want to hurt himself, and everyone handles things differently.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think there are still a lot of boyfriends like this, he doesn't quarrel with you, probably his temper is still quite good, you can try to ask him when the relationship is good, don't break up at every turn.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    should choose to break up, because such a boy will always put his emotions in his heart, and the two of them can't solve it at all, and the fundamental problem will only make the final contradiction bigger and bigger.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You shouldn't choose to break up, because everyone deals with unhappy situations differently, and no one is perfect.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Faced with this situation, you can communicate with your boyfriend, tell each other that you don't like this mode of getting along, and hope that the other party will say it, and everyone will be honest about what they have, and discuss and solve any problems together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your boyfriend is not good at expressing himself, what he says when he is unhappy must be difficult to hear, he is afraid of affecting you, if you want to communicate with him, you can take the initiative and ask him why he is unhappy. Comfort him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It can only be said that your boyfriend is an introverted person, usually not good at expressing his inner thoughts, and keeps everything in his heart, if you can accept your boyfriend's character, get along with him well, accompany him through the trough of life, if you can't accept it, you will decisively propose to break up, there is no need to waste your precious time, just look at how much you have paid in this relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your boyfriend is unhappy and he doesn't want to talk, it means that he doesn't want to bring bad emotions to you, maybe he is having trouble at work, at this time you should give him some care, he will feel very relieved and touched, instead of choosing to leave him at this time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When your boyfriend is unhappy, he always doesn't speak, like this case, it belongs to his personality problem, if you really can't accept it, then, you can only choose to break up, and find a suitable one again after the breakup.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You shouldn't choose to break up, there must be some reason why your boyfriend is unhappy, it's best to communicate with him well.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Your boyfriend always doesn't talk when he's unhappy, it's a personal personality problem, if he loves you very much, this problem is understandable, don't choose to break up with him because of this problem.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    My boyfriend is unhappy and always doesn't talk, I think everyone has a time when they don't want to talk when they're unhappy, you should understand him more than choose to break up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When people are unhappy, they want to be quiet, if you love him, accompany him quietly, and when he calms down, he will tell you why he is unhappy, if you don't love him, break up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Choosing to break up, a man is angry and doesn't speak, so it's a small amount of gas, a man's small amount of gas is really annoying, and anger needs to be solved is not something that can be solved without talking.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If your boyfriend is unhappy and always doesn't speak, it means that your boyfriend's personality belongs to the introverted personality, if you like each other, it is not recommended to break up, but to communicate with each other well.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In addition to your boyfriend's unhappiness, if you don't say it, you probably don't want you to worry, you can talk to him to see if he can change, and if you can't stand it, break up with him again.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    My boyfriend is unhappy and doesn't talk all the time, should I choose to break up? I think my boyfriend is unhappy and always doesn't speak, so such a person is determined by his personality, so it's better to break up with him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course not. It's possible that your boyfriend has been having a lot of problems lately, so you should enlighten your boyfriend.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I quarrel with my boyfriend every day, so I want to break up, but my boyfriend doesn't want to break up, and only two people can communicate to solve the problem.

    Find the reason for the quarrel between the two people, if it is a personality incompatibility and do not want to change for each other, then you should tell your boyfriend to break up is the best way.

    Otherwise, you have to make changes for each other, and the relationship between the two will be better.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Then the two of them communicate well, if it is really not suitable and they don't want to be together, then break up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Learn from each other's strengths, let each other more in life, tolerate each other more, and if the other party does something wrong, you should tell each other as soon as possible, so that the other party will have a clear understanding that the other party will also correct. Slowly merge.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Personally, I think that at this time, two people should not mention the past, they must tolerate each other, understand each other, and solve problems by means of communication, so that they can get along well.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't think I should reconcile with him when I encounter this situation, because the inappropriate personality is a very big problem, and the two of them will often quarrel over some things.

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