My girlfriend and I don t get along, I m so tired, I ve already said we re breaking up, but now I m

Updated on psychology 2024-03-08
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, since you're going to spend so much time writing about it, you must absolutely love her. When you say you want to break up, she will redeem and love you. She did go a little too far at times, but her aunt couldn't help it.

    You are a man who will not understand, and when a woman comes to the great aunt, she will make herself angry for no reason for various reasons. You still love her, but you're tired, so let it go. We may not know if we are making the right or wrong decision, but trust that God will make you uncomfortable and will definitely make you happy.

    We never know what surprises await us tomorrow. You calm down and think about whether you lose her or not, you can't live. No one will be unlucky for a lifetime.

    Now that you've made your decision, trust that you'll meet a better one, and so will she.

    Don't be too sad, if you really love her, then go back to her, maybe she is too young and immature, but people always grow up one day. Feel free to ask!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love is when you fall in love with someone, and you will be desperate for anything. You can never fool your heart, don't be sad. If you still have feelings for her.

    Well, don't let go. The two of them need to tolerate each other in love, and they can't continue anymore, so be happy, man, you are so good that you don't have to worry about finding a girlfriend, cheer up, you are a good man. I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't love her. After a while, someone else will reply, and then pick a few words that you want to hear, and then you will be in a good mood.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I feel tired of getting along with my girlfriend, I want to talk about breaking up, but I feel unwilling, I think people's thinking is more chaotic at this time, and they should choose to separate temporarily, calm down, and then make a decision. After this cooling-off period, whether you are still worried about each other, or whether you just want to break up, it may be clearer at that time. When a couple breaks up, it is not necessary to make a decision immediately, it is also responsible for the relationship.

    Personally, I think that in many relationships, there will be a feeling of getting tired of getting along with each other, and everyone will want to break up at this time. For some people, they feel very unwilling in their hearts, so they don't mention it. In fact, many people are reluctant to break up, not only because they are unwilling, but also because they may also be a little reluctant, and there is some love for each other.

    When people are in a low mood, or when the relationship is not going well, it is often not the best time to make decisions. Therefore, I don't think it's necessary to decisively mention the breakup in the first place, and deal with such a period of untidy and messy.

    can choose to separate for a while and calm each other down. During this time, two people should not contact each other, and when each other's emotions are calm, they are often able to make the right decisions. If, after all this time, you still miss each other very much, you can choose to continue to be together.

    After the cooling-off period, maybe the conflict between you will not be so intense, and you can even deal with it in a peaceful way. <>

    If there is really no possibility of the two of you being together, or you feel that each other is tired and reluctant to be together just because of your inner unwillingness, it is not too late for you to choose to break up. The decision to break up was also made after thinking twice, and I believe that everyone will not regret it. Whether it's together or breaking up, it should be deliberate and not impulsive.

    I think this is the real responsibility for a relationship, and I hope everyone can start seriously and say goodbye seriously.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you want to break up, then bring it up quickly, what is there to be unwilling to, aren't people giving you so many years of youth? If you have the idea of breaking up, don't drag it out, and delay each other with your own troubles.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If that's the case, I think you should communicate with your girlfriend often, so that you can get closer to each other and get to know each other better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you can talk to your girlfriend about this, and if the relationship between the two of you does come to an end, I don't need to struggle here.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It can be proposed to let the two people calm down for the time being, summarize the contradictions between the two during the period, and make positive changes, which can still be redeemed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then find a time to sit down and talk, put your heart to heart, see where the problem is, find the problem and solve it, and escape is not a good way.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First, you need to explain clearly how the conflict occurred, why and how it happened, so that we can better help you.

    Second, what I want to tell you is that both men and women, when they have a temper, what they say is angry talk, and it is best not to take it seriously on both sides of the quarrel.

    Thirdly, if both parents are opposed, I think it is unlikely that you will be together until the end, so I suggest that you first understand the reasons why both parents do not allow it, and then you must first convince your parents to accept her, and then give her a future.

    If you don't plan to follow her to get married and have children in the future, love her and love her for a lifetime, then I think you just forget it, don't redeem it, and look for another woman who makes you want to grow old with her.

    Otherwise, you will hurt your current girlfriend even more in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's a momentary anger, then calm down, there should be no problem.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your girlfriend has already misunderstood you, and she won't be able to change the status quo for a while.

    It's better to follow your girlfriend's wishes, take the initiative to apologize to her, and sincerely show that you are willing to correct your attitude.

    At the same time, make yourself better. Now my studies and work, including interpersonal communication, have improved to a higher level. When your girlfriend sees your progress, she will naturally be impressed by you.

    I wish you a smooth relationship and a happy life!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Hobbies and interests, lovers have their own interests with each other, fun and hobbies can make everyone have more common topics with each other, if we like to do something with each other, then the other party can know, there is not a saying called fifty steps and a hundred steps.

    2. Care and love more, sometimes couples need not more rhetoric, maybe just their intimate words, whether it is for men or women, you must learn to care more about each other, so that the other party can feel your necessity.

    3. Encourage each other, give girls more self-esteem and face, many times each other in front of friends, in fact, lovers should consider each other when talking or doing things, and for example, as a girl, you must give your boyfriend face in front of others, and praise your boyfriend a lot.

    4. Learn to communicate well, lovers should communicate more with each other, we should not talk about each other because of the long time in love, in fact, sometimes men and women are more important to listen to the heart of the other party, so that couples can better understand each other.

    5. Keep promises, dare to take responsibility, whether it is a girl or a boy, in fact, we have to have our own commitments, boys don't always say some sweet words in front of girls, we should be more sincere to face each other, and dare to take responsibility for what they have done, and consider each other more.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your girlfriend feels this way about you, it means that during the time he has been with you, he has found a problem, and he will ask you to break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, the biggest problem between you is because of your repeated connivance, causing her to think that you should treat her like this, and you should lose her temper and coax him.

    A person can't be blindly good to others without a temper, and she will not be grateful, but will gain an inch.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let's communicate well, you also check your own mode of getting along, sometimes it's too intimate, and the other party also feels very tired, and the emotional thing is to run in with two people, because the gender is different, the family is different, there are many differences, and each other can adapt to the run-in.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can be honest with each other. Maybe we can solve the misunderstanding.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want something, you have to say it.

    If you like it, you should pursue it.

    Don't say anything, bury everything in your heart.

    In the end, all that's left is regret.

    You still have to be brave in life

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Go to him immediately, explain it to him, and open each other's hearts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In case of trouble, think more about the problem from the other person's point of view.

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