My boyfriend is a doctor, and he is busy at work and has no time to take care of the family, is it s

First of all, let me tell you, a man can't be in this state all the time, unless he is an important leader of the country. Sometimes a man may indeed have very important things to go away, but you think, it is impossible for everything to be so important, a man must be measured before you and things, although it is very good that you are sensible, but even if your wife is sensible, a man cannot use busyness as an excuse to ignore this family and you. Therefore, there are priorities, and he sees everything in himself as more important than you, which means that your status in his heart is not high.

What you want is a home, what he wants is himself, so this is not a qualified man. Of course, if you tell me that you love him very much and can't do without him, then you have to be mentally prepared, or you can talk to him, you can talk to him, you can talk to him, you can tell me what is going on, go **, when will you come back, then, you can be the woman behind him. Personal advice:

This kind of man is dangerous, and you need to weigh whether you prefer to live at home or love him more. As for how to choose, I can't help you.

What you want is a gap with the reality, since you have spoken for him so much, you have the right to treat him as if he is really so busy, since he is really so busy, the fact is so, it cannot be changed, unless he changes jobs, but this is impossible, then, there are two choices left, one, you change yourself, tolerate her, and silently be the woman behind him, but you have to learn to endure loneliness and pain. Two, leave him, because he can't give you the life you want.

I think since you asked this question, it means that you already have an idea! If you don't want to be together, forget it, the doctor's job is like this, there is not much personal time, there are many things, if you want to find a boyfriend who can have time to spend with you, obviously he is not suitable and does not meet your requirements, so, think for yourself!

It turns out that the doctor is really like this.

watched "The Big Man Gets Married", and one of the male protagonist's girlfriends is a doctor, and she is very busy with career-oriented work.

Since you're starting to struggle, it's hesitation.

But this kind of thing is really hard to say, a man who is busy with his career and has no time to care about his family or a man who has time to care about his family (will such a man be very cowardly).

If you want that kind of man, who has a career and time, there is only **.

Or just want to live an ordinary life.

The doctor is like this, your understanding, just like the police, you have to be mentally prepared from the moment you become his family, if you can't accept it, it's better to give up early, if you understand and support your boyfriend, then you will be happy!

It is a premise that the wife of a special professional must be prepared accordingly. Military wives, police wives, it's all the same.

If you are not ready to really love him, be his backing, and help him take care of the family, I advise you to be cautious.

Happiness and life after marriage, you are very realistic, you have seen the end at a glance, and you have lost your excitement and joy. What remains unchanged is the nature of his work, so if you want to continue, what can only change is your attitude towards marriage, feelings, family, and life. Ask yourself, can you bear these things, can you maintain a family, can you get the happiness you want from this choice?

The answer is natural.

Follow your own mind, this person, if it is suitable, it is suitable, and if it is not suitable, it is not suitable, just like shoes are worn on your feet, only you know best whether you are comfortable or not, and what others say is blind.

However, if you truly love him, nothing is a problem. Face it with him. I wish you all happiness.

His profession dictates such a life. It mainly depends on whether you love him or not, and you will be desperate to love him. There is also whether he has a sense of responsibility, even if he is busy, he always has to take care of his family.

If you care a lot about this.

You'd better be cautious.

After all, this choice is usually a lifelong thing.

The choice was sloppy.

You must eat the bitter fruit of your own choice.

You should understand him, you can't let the patient wait in the hospital to suffer, he will watch TV with you at home, and talk about family life. If so, can you have him?

He may want you to do the housework at home, clean the house, and then he may need you to take care of his life. Laundry, cooking or something. This draft may be the answer he needs.

Your boyfriend cares about you because the doctor has to work the night shift, and he is afraid that you will be bored at home or afraid of being alone at home.

What your boyfriend said, he was busy with work, and he was worried that you would be lonely at home alone.