How to plan for a perfect life, how to plan for a successful life

Life is live, and you can only go and live each day!

It depends on what you want.

Some people feel that they must achieve something in their life, while some people think that as long as the people around me are happy, some people think that I must have a lot of money, and some people think that it is good to have enough money. Some people hope to have young and beautiful women around them for the rest of their lives, and some people yearn for the happiness of two people holding hands together for a lifetime.

Everyone's pursuit is different, so how do you plan and how can you ask others?

It's perfect to be with your family.

Success is about doing simple things repeatedly. The reason why some people are not successful is not that they can't do it, but because people are not willing to do those simple and repetitive things.

What is Success?

Success is all about achieving the desired goal.

Success equals the goal, and everything else is an explanation of it. —Brian Tracy.

The Five Fundamental Meanings of Success:

1. Expected goals. Different people, different periods, have different goals.

2. The expected goal must be achievable in order to be considered successful.

3. Success has obvious personalized characteristics, and the criteria vary from person to person. Your own standards, other people's standards, and group standards. The key is to have your own criteria for judging success; The second key is that the standards of others are different from your own, and you must understand others and society.

4. Success is a neutral concept. Both the good guys and the bad guys succeed.

5. Success is mathematically conceptual. All goals are to be quantified.

The core question of success:

1. How to set a good goal.

2. How to achieve the goal efficiently.

Why set goals?

Harvard University has a follow-up study on the impact of goals on life. The object is a group of people with similar intelligence, education, environment, etc. The survey found that 27 per cent had no goals, 60 per cent had vague goals, 10 per cent had clear and short-term goals, and only 3 per cent had clear and long-term goals.

The results of 25 years of tracking show that 3% of people have not changed their goals in 25 years, they have worked tirelessly towards them, and after 25 years, they have almost all become the top people in all walks of life. 10% of the people live in the middle and upper strata of society, and their short-term goals are constantly being achieved, and their living conditions are steadily rising. Almost 60% of the people live in the middle and lower strata of society, and they can live and work in peace, but none of them seem to have achieved anything special.

Twenty-seven percent of the people, almost all of whom live at the bottom of society, have lived unsatisfactory for the past 25 years, often unemployed, rely on social assistance, and often complain about others and society.

In the blink of an eye, there are only two weeks left in 2022, how have you been doing this year? What about the income? What's the catch?

Is there anything memorable? First, the year is approaching, if you are not satisfied with the current work, you should plan as soon as possible, and think clearly about next year's goal plan in advance, so as not to be temporarily crammed and wasted in the year.

Second, what year will you be in your life next year? In the long run, what does he mean in your life, at this age in 2023, what kind of growth and achievements should you have in your life? With a clear goal, it's easy to plan and take the next step.

Third, to learn a skill or deepen your hobbies, you must improve, because as people grow, there will be more and more things to deal with, which will occupy your energy, and after a certain age, it is very difficult to learn one more skill or one more hobby.

Fourth, accompany relatives and contact friends, a busy is a year, this year is approaching, contact friends, classmates, accompany family, do something happy, the epidemic is fully opened, there is no reason for the epidemic to be delayed in the future, so cherish the present to have a better tomorrow, every dissatisfied today is your perfunctory yesterday. Maintaining a good work and rest, consolidating the quality of the past few years, especially after such an extraordinary period, let me know that my health is 1, and other Lingzhou bridges are 0. As the saying goes, stay in the green mountains, and don't worry about running out of firewood.

It is to let us understand the importance of laying a solid foundation. In the recent stage, I have made rapid adjustments to my life, continue to go to bed early and get up early, continue to cook by myself, continue to enrich my diet, continue to build a good environment, continue to do moderate exercise, continue to travel off-peak, continue to read and write; Moreover, we consciously strengthen protection, pay more attention to the partners and parents and friends around us, pay more attention to what we can do in the system, and pay more attention to customer needs. Every day is extremely grateful, when the knowledge of the track is subverted and upgraded again and again, let me be more sober and comprehensive reflection on myself, I have more room for growth, and I also accept this status quo very much.

In 2023, I will continue to do these well, become natural habits, accept the status quo, and at the same time, have the courage to break through and try.

Step 1: Establish your outlook on life, values, and purpose in life.

The purpose of life planning is to achieve one's life goals, and it is also the basis and principle of life planning. People's outlook on life, values and goals in life will continue to change and become clear with age and understanding of society. The life plan should also be adjusted and improved accordingly according to these.

Step 2: Fully understand yourself and analyze yourself. Identify your personality traits and talents.

The main ways are: ask yourself; Calm yourself down and summarize yourself;

Ask him: Let others give you a fair evaluation.

Professional: Help you summarize by professionals.

Step 3: Make your life plan in detail, preferably down to all ages.

Step 4: Give full play to your strengths and set goals for yourself in order to improve your qualities and abilities - action.

We must have lofty ideals and ambitions, and we must work hard around our goals to pay hard work and sweat.

Life planning is a person's pre-planning and design for his future development path according to the needs of social development and the ambition of personal development.