I rejected everything, and in the end I rejected even myself

Rejection can be understood as negation and rejection, and this sentence can be understood in this way, I don't trust anyone, and in the end I don't even believe in myself.

Time is the best litmus test, and it will help you keep the people you cherish the most. The more we experience, the more we understand that not everyone is worthy of our nostalgia, and not every story has an ending. In everything, there will always be a difference, don't waste time on unworthy people and things.

It's better to want to open, look open, let go, and be the master of your own life. There is a good saying: what you leave is the scenery, and what you leave is life.

This means that you don't know who you are, and you can't control yourself.

Because you have rejected too much, you always think that you are very superior and excellent, but who knows that you will meet someone worse than you.

1. Some people once had nothing to say, but in the end, they had nothing to say.

Second, you have traveled all your life from south to north, and at best, you can only meet three people at most. One wants you to live, the other wants you to die, and the other doesn't care if you live or die at all.

3. The same sun every day, different scenery, the same time every day, different content, so that life is full and the thickness of life is doubled, which is a colorful and perfect life.

Fourth, when you trust a person unreservedly, in the end there will only be these two kinds of results, either the person in life or a lesson in life.

Fifth, people are emotional animals at night, they will think about a lot of things, and most of them are painful, this emotion cannot be controlled, and it will hurt when touched lightly.

6. Many times, I would rather be misunderstood than explained. Believe it or not, it's just a matter of your thoughts. Those who understand me don't have to explain; If you don't understand me, why explain.

Seventh, like a song, it is not a good thing to stop at the most hearty time, and they are too greedy and stubbornly think that they can sing it again, only to know that the later tune is so unbearable.

8. I used to think that we could still be friends after we broke up. But slowly, I lost contact. Because every time I pick up the **, I find that there is no reason for Sou Jianqin to look for you again.

9. There is nothing else to pick a man, just to love you, no matter how rich, talented, handsome, eloquent, wise, capable, filial piety touches the sky, great love helps all beings, it doesn't hurt you, it's useless at all.

10. What makes us unhappy is the little things that make us unhappy, we can dodge an elephant, but we can't avoid a fly.

You can refuse, and the methods of refusal are:

1. Be embarrassed.

Embarrassment is a very flexible refusal, for example, when someone asks you to do something, you can tell the other person that you are going to do something very important next, and you may not be able to arrange the time. Because you already have other arrangements before the other person makes the request, you have promised someone something or arranged something important yourself, and out of a responsible attitude, you do not have the time and energy to help the other person.

When you say that, the other person often doesn't force or force you to do something, because the other person knows, because you do have other things to do, and you really don't have time to help him. As long as the reason is reasonable, the other person will definitely accept this strategy without hurting your relationship with the other person.

2. Be gentle when refusing.

Everyone has self-esteem, and when we reject others, we need to take into account the self-esteem of the other person. The same sentence, expressed in different tones and tones, will have different effects.

In other words, when refusing, in addition to expressing your own meaning clearly, the tone should be as amiable as possible. Use a gentle attitude to say the reason for your refusal, so that others feel that you are sincere, rather than deliberately refusing, so that the other party will not be embarrassed to blame you.

3. Use the strategy of denial compensation.

Refusal compensation is when you refuse a request from the other party, but give the other party some positive response, for example, the other party asks you to do something, you can say, I don't have time to help you solve this problem now, but when I am done, I will take some time to help you, when you say this, it is also easy for others to accept, and others can also feel the sincerity of your willingness to solve the problem for him.

4. Present your own style.

In life and work, we often see two types of people, one is people, who focus on doing their own things and do not agree to other people's requests at will, and this kind of people have their own principles of doing things. There is also a type of person who always accepts the request of others, tacitly accepts, and then goes to them to solve the problem, such people, who are afraid that their refusal will bring some bad feelings to the people around them.