No matter what I ask, my husband will instinctively oppose it?

Whether your husband is not pleasing to you is why he will oppose it like this, since this is the case, you must stick to your own ideas in everything, and you must stick to what you think is right.

It means that the two of you disagree, please leave him.

That means that the two of you don't fall in love, and if you want to do this, your husband will object.

That means that your husband doesn't treat you as a wife at all, and he doesn't respect a husband like you, I don't think there is any difference between having and not, you should be very unhappy in this marriage, I think you should consider talking to him, if not, divorce.

It means that he is resistant to you, so he will react to you in this way.

No matter what I ask, my husband will instinctively object to it, well, this sentence gives me the feeling that you have no dignity with your husband at all.

No matter what I ask, my husband will instinctively oppose it, and that's fine.

Take advantage of the fact that you don't have children, and get a divorce as soon as possible.

He doesn't love you at all, but because you're old and you're willing to marry him, he agrees to get married.

He had poor sexual prowess, he must have known it before marriage, and someone was willing to marry him, so he got married in a hurry.

Generally speaking, if the premarital relationship is not very good, if the two people are more compatible after marriage and have a high quality of sexual life, the relationship will slowly deepen. And your bad sex life is an important reason why the relationship cannot be deepened.

The man knows very well in his heart what the newlyweds should do at night, because he can't do it, so he always finds various reasons to work overtime, just to escape. You should understand this, you understand, you know why he went home to sleep during the day and went to work overtime at night.

In my understanding, men can't be normal in their married life, so they should be kind to me in other ways, right? This understanding of yours is exactly wrong. If he has a deep affection for you, he may be able to, but he has no affection for you.

Why do some men pamper their wives? There are two situations, first, I really love her and love her, so I love her well. The second case, in order to get her, in order to get her body. And your husband doesn't have either, so it's impossible for him to be nice to you.

Think about the problem and leave him, or you will live like this for the rest of your life. Unless you love him so much that you don't care about your own happiness.

This really can't be said that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read In fact, your root is still in You can't get physical satisfaction from your husband Don't deny that people are advanced animals But please note that no matter how advanced people are, they are still animals or retain animal instincts I am skeptical about your future I suggest you have a good talk with him To be honest If what you say is true, your husband should have low self-esteem The only purpose of his overtime is not to want to face you Because he feels guilty about you Really, you can't use your mind to think about your husband's behavior Because hehe, hehe, in fact, if you want to live with him again, just talk to him once, don't complain, if after talking, he still doesn't change or doesn't care about you, you just leave Because people are selfish after all, no one can ruin their lives because of others, and then you still think about it Are you sure that his concern can make up for your physical dissatisfaction If not, it is recommended that you don't have children first Remember not to use children to maintain your marriage The definition of children can only be the crystallization of love Definitely not the bond that maintains your marital relationship.

You should consider divorce, this kind of man is not worthy of your love, and there is nothing to be afraid of divorce, there are too many divorces in this society now, you want to live with such a person for a lifetime, when do you want to survive.

After reading your nonsensical talk, I really sympathize with you, and as a man, indeed, I also think that your husband's approach is not good. I think you need to have a good talk with each other, exchange opinions, and seriously consider your future marital life. It is recommended that you have relatives to mediate the matter, otherwise the situation will not be optimistic.

If it's as you say, then I think you can choose to divorce, and there is no need to stay and leave to find another happiness for you. With this kind of man, you don't have a good life to talk about. Think about it yourself, it's me, just leave.

In fact, your requirements are really not high, I just want my husband to accompany you more! Disharmony in your marital life should affect your normal life. Your husband is a careless husband, since he can't do it physically, he should take good care of you mentally!

You should accompany your husband to see a psychiatrist!

If it's a real situation, then you can choose to get a divorce. There are no children, no other burdens, and let's pursue our own happiness. You should think about it seriously.

Then leave!

He may have no fear and think that you dare not divorce!

What are you afraid of, after the divorce, as long as you work hard, you can find it again, and there are many people who remarry now.

Are you really willing to live a life like this? You are willing to let you have a child, the child is like you, often can't see your father, and your father indifferently says that I want to work overtime.

Do you want your child to endure loneliness like you, without the love of his father, and grow up like that?

Divorce really, taking that step, it may be difficult now, but it will be fine in the future!

It feels like he's not reassuring you right now.

I feel that this man can't understand it anymore, maybe he is already disgusted with you, and it can really only be described with this word.

Is it that after giving birth to the first child, you are not so tired of your husband? I don't pay much attention to his feelings?.. anymoreThe outer cold and the inner heat type, I do the same to my wife. I wanted to be nice to her, but I couldn't. Men are dead.

I sympathize with this woman, but I don't agree with everyone's thoughts, divorce at every turn, so irresponsible for marriage, I feel that if my husband is really like this, he should care about him, respect him, and go to the hospital together to check whether it is a heart disease or a real physical defect. Let's all care for them together, not against their male compatriots. If it is really a physical defect, of course, I also applaud everyone for choosing to divorce, after all, it is a lifetime of happiness, and I can't afford to hurt it.

After the divorce, he continued to care for him as his best friend, after all, he had lived together, and his physical defects were not his fault, everyone was flesh and blood.

Your husband is gay, right?

And it can be seen that he doesn't love you at all, and marrying you purely for the sake of getting married.

You've only been married for a year, so do you think there will be a year after that? How are you going to live? Do you continue to endure it, can you endure it for a lifetime? It is recommended to break up as soon as possible without children, otherwise it will hurt the children when they have children.

Will he be, there are a lot of cases like this now, you won't be very unlucky to be a wife, you are very likely to be a wife, really, there is no time to have children, make the right decision, don't delay yourself.

I suspect it's your husband's sexuality at work.

I think it's better not to have this kind of man, it's a shame for a man.

Married life is not normal.

What a concept. You're pregnant and have a baby.

It is possible to have a married life.

It's just that your husband's frequency is too low.

Or that the quality of sexual life is too poor.

If that's really what you say.

Your husband has problems with sexual performance.

In fact, his psychological pressure will be greater.

Maybe it's just the way he works overtime.

To escape and vent and reduce the feeling of guilt when facing you, you can actually go to the hospital to see it.

Have a good talk with your husband.

If only it was a knot in the heart caused by that question.

It's OK to solve it.

After accidentally breaking his foot and being sent to the hospital by the staff, he was quite dissatisfied with the process of waiting for the doctor, but when he saw that the attending doctor was so handsome, he immediately moved his mind. She asked her friend to check their information.

When she learned that the other party had a girlfriend who had been talking for seven years, she said something like this: The longer the relationship, the better, and there must be a problem if you haven't been married for seven years. You can get married after falling in love for half a year, and you can get married when you get married in one go, but if you have been in love for seven years and have not come to the step of getting married, you can basically judge that the relationship is invalid, and falling in love is like this, not the longer the better.

It sounds scary for a few years, but it's actually like a fragile layer of paper, poked and broken.

Dr. Zhao really broke up with his girlfriend a long time ago and did not make it public, just to get rid of the unnecessary "rotten peach blossoms" under the guise of "rotten peach blossoms".

Qu Xiaoxuan saw him, so he chased after him, and it was naturally a matter of course. It's really not about falling in love, the longer the better. If two school-age young people have been in love for several years and are still unwilling to get married, after all, there is some irreconcilable contradiction between the two.

Either they are waiting for a better appearance, or they can't pass the level of their parents, or they are not satisfied with each other enough.

How many people who keep saying that they love you, but they refuse to marry you, and as a result, they marry someone else not long after they break up. It's not that he doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you. There is no need to use your youth to talk about a love that ends without a problem, and if you haven't married you after seven years, then you don't have to waste time waiting for him.

Falling in love should not be for the purpose of getting married, and many people say that falling in love should be for the purpose of getting married. But Qu Xiaoxuan didn't think so.

She said: Falling in love for the purpose of marriage is utilitarian, falling in love, loving to the point that there is no strength to toss, then get married, this is noble, is the greatest respect for love. Marriage is a natural thing.

When you fall in love, you want to be together forever, so you get married.

Loving each other is a matter for both men and women. If you are married, it means that you have also been in love with each other. It's not that the resentment is not in the head.

Think back, what did he love about you at that time? Think about it again, what has happened between you now, is it that the love between the two people has faded after living for a long time? Or is it his nature?

Is it that you don't pay attention to grooming and don't attract him? Or does he have a new love for you? Or is he bored with life or not good at expressing himself, or is it your delusion?

Or is it something else? This is a case-by-case analysis. No matter what the situation, both husband and wife must continue to be able to create the kind of gravitational force that attracts each other, including emotions, hobbies, temperament, cultivation, etc., and consciously work hard to manage their love, so that your love tree will always be evergreen.

Otherwise, there is a risk of fission. Be cherished, be calm, and be rational. Think twice.

But no matter what, couples have to trust!

Let's communicate with him well.

Maybe he's busy at work, or something else!

Don't be cranky!

Communication is the only way to keep your feelings warm!

As the old saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet. It's the same with feelings. It's not necessarily that your husband really doesn't love you anymore, it may be the rebellious psychology of other rights.

I also have a similar situation, my wife has to call me every day, every day I want to care about her, I want this, I want that, and I get bored after a long time. I was in no mood for the care I wanted to give her, and I became very passive.

I feel that if I want to be cared for by my lover, I can't ask for it, but I want to attract it.

The care that is coming, even if it is coming, you will not really be satisfied.

Make yourself attractive and have the desire to make him care about you.

Whether it is love or care, it is a very instinctive reaction of human beings, and it must be born from the heart.

Let me give you a suggestion first, if you ask such a question, you should give some reward points appropriately! Otherwise, who would be willing to put so much effort into the version.

Sajiao may work better than complaining, give it a try!

You are stupid, people are not for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed, I am afraid of what he will do, and put the work of the family away. Just do it. What kind of society is it, who is afraid of whom.

Let's find a way to live together as soon as possible.

Tolerance and time will solve everything.

Take your time and don't rush.

If you are too noisy, it will make your relationship worsen and counterproductive.

A good excuse should be copied, such as a wedding anniversary or a birthday for the three of you.

Communicate with him well, and tell him what you want him to know slowly and carefully, but this kind of person especially needs you to care more about him first, be more considerate of him, and the more you pay, the more you will gain, otherwise you will get twice the result with half the effort.

You talk too much, and you really don't have a brain. The relationship between people is like a hedgehog for warmth in a winter night, too far away, unable to feel warmth, close to each other, hurting each other. You and your husband are two hedgehogs, but you always think you should get closer.

And in reality you are far beyond the distance between people and people. From your husband's point of view, if he says bad things about your family every day, can you accept it???

You can say these things to anyone, but not to your husband. You have told all the people who have lived with him for decades, and you don't bother anyone.

If you say this, your husband is disgusted with your questioning of your family, and they are also your husband's relatives, and it is normal to feel uncomfortable and unhappy in the middle, but he is not doing very well. You also have a reason not to say that the elders are not. What do you think?