What books have you read that influenced your outlook on life?

Water Margin", first read the seventy editions, then read the hundred and twenty editions, and was impressed by the heroes in the book, that is, in that year, kowtow to the son to recognize his brother, since where I have never regarded money as the first, in my eyes brotherhood will always come first, it was like this before, and it is still like this now! I have been to many places in the country, there are always friends who will be known and made by me, all the friends I know, first of all, there is a principle that he must be filial, if he is not filial to his parents, even if he has more money, no matter how great his ability, I will never associate with him and make friends, this is my principle is also my bottom line, if you will not be good to a person who has supported yourself for decades, how can you be sincere to me? This is my principle of being a man, and it is also the premise and bottom line of my friendship, which is also the philosophy of life brought to me by "Water Margin".

The book that had the greatest impact on my life was "The Biography of Yue Fei". I remember that when I read "The Biography of Yue Fei" when I was a teenager, I admired Yue Fei's noble character of serving the country loyally and sacrificing his life for righteousness. I can't remember many details in the book, but there is a sentence that often rings in my ears and hangs on my lips.

It is"The gentleman does not remember the grudge, and the villain does not remember the grudge"。seems to be a bland sentence, but it is a mirror, reflecting the completely different images of a gentleman and a villain. I quote this quote when educating my students, and I often use it when I educate my children.

This sentence made me learn to distinguish between many people around me, who can make friends and who can only stay away. So the principle of making friends that I adhere to is: those who are not filial to their parents do not make friends, and those who are ungrateful do not make friends.

Even those whose parents are not filial will not always be sincere to others. The ungrateful are even more terrible, and for the sake of self-interest, they will also fall into the trap of their friends.

The Weakness of Human Nature" Dale Carnegie, you may have also read, a very good book, taught me how to deal with people, he expounded some truths that seem to be very obvious in daily life, and gave a lot of advice on dealing with interpersonal relationships, but it is very difficult to do all of them and persevere, I also slowly tried to choose one or two of these suggestions for a period of time to practice, and I think it is indeed very reasonable for what he said. I don't recommend this book because it can make you more sophisticated in interpersonal interactions, but because it can improve your self-cultivation in the process of being kind to others.

My favorite book is Les Misérables by Victor Hugo. The protagonists of the book, Ran, and Agen's experiences in the book can be seen all around our village. How many people love their children so much, dedicate their life's efforts and sweat for them (her), and even sacrifice their lives for their children, but in exchange for being swept away.

It is the painful experience of Ran and Agen that reveals the ugly side of human nature. So that I can realize that people are like this, and in the subconscious consciously or unconsciously, I am Ran, Agen, so I have more forbearance in dealing with the relationship between people, and I am also very tolerant of people and things.

Why? To put it in layman's terms: I have thought of everything and am mentally prepared.

Adler's book "What Life Means to You" has changed its name many times, and now it seems to be called "Inferiority and Transcendence". When I read it in my sophomore year, I had obvious obsessive-compulsive disorder at the time, and after reading this book, I came out of obsessive-compulsive disorder, and it affected my thinking. I've bought a lot of copies of this book and given it to friends with whom I think I have a good relationship, and I think it will be helpful to everyone, but everyone doesn't like it very much, and I think it's a little inexplicable.

Actually, I don't remember the contents at all now.

Qian Zhongshu "The Siege of the City", Mo Yan "Rich Breasts and Fat Buttocks", Chen Zhongzhong "White Deer Plain", Jin Yong "The Legend of Deer and Ding", Doudou "Distant Savior", Yan Zhen "The Water of the Waves", Spencer "Who Moved My Cheese", Cai Jianjun "Time Not as Good as Poetry".

I read all the books that shocked me the most was Sanmao's "The Story of the Sahara", I read it three times, not only her love with Jose moved me, but also a woman's constant self-examination, breaking the convention, with a resolute and soft heart to approach life attitude infected me.

Sanmao's Book is accompanied by the memories of my youth, the woman who yearns for freedom, yearns for the Sahara, and is casual and free. The bearded José she loved. The customs of the Sahara are vividly remembered.

1, "Fu Lei's Family Letter".

Fu Lei's Family Book is a very special book. It is a refraction of Fu Lei's thoughts, and it can even be said to be the most important work of Fu Lei's life, because "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a letter between him and his son, reflecting his painstaking loneliness as a father. The strong fatherly love reflected everywhere in the book "Fu Lei's Family Letter".

Perhaps every father loves his children very much, but while Fu Lei loves his children, he also does not forget to educate him in all aspects, such as art, philosophy, history, literature and even health.

2. "The Education of Love".

The Education of Love is a children's masterpiece that has been circulated all over the world, written in 1886 by the Italian writer Amicius, the original name of the book is "hou re", and the translation is "heart".

Its English translation is "hea r t", which also means "heart". The book "The Education of Love" describes a group of teenagers who are energetic, motivated, and as bright as the sun. Their circumstances range from poor families to disabled people, and some are basking in happiness.

3, "Sophie's World".

Sophie's World is a long book on the history of Western philosophy written by Norwegian writer Jostein Judd, which reveals the development of the history of Western philosophy in the form of a philosophical teacher who teaches philosophical knowledge to a girl named Sophie. It is known as one of the 100 classics of the 20th century.

4, "Ordinary World".

The Ordinary World is a million-word novel created by Chinese writer Lu Yao that presents a panoramic view of China's contemporary urban and rural social life. The book consists of three parts. First published in December 1986.

Set in China from the mid-70s to the mid-80s, the book depicts many ordinary people from all walks of life at that time through complex entanglements of contradictions, centered on two brothers, Sun Shaoan and Sun Shaoping.

5, "The Siege".

The Siege of the City is a long story written by Qian Zhongshu, which is a satirical with a unique style in the history of modern Chinese literature. It is known as the "Neo-Confucian Foreign History". The first edition was published in 1947 by Shanghai Chenguang Publishing Company. The story is mainly written about the group of intellectuals in the early days of the Anti-Japanese War.

Books have indelible traces in our lives, it has been around us since childhood, and has brought us a lot of influences, we have been exposed to books since elementary school, it affects our lives, allows us to understand various truths, makes us see the broad world of file letters, and breaks through our own cognition. The first book I read that broke through the perception was "A Brief History of Mankind", and here are some of my personal perceptions. After reading a brief history of mankind, I was impressed by the author's profound understanding of things, and the ** of everything today has its reasons, which are all derived from the continuous evolution of the times.

Homo sapiens went from being an inconspicuous animal to the master who now dominates the world, not only as a result of natural selection, but also as a result of constant efforts. However, what influenced me the most was that when Zheng He went to the West in the Ming Dynasty, China had advanced navigation technology at that time, but in the end, it was the spirit of exploration from other countries that discovered South America, Australia, etc., which shows the importance of the spirit of exploration. Speaking of Australia, in the primitive period, Homo sapiens arrived in Australia, at that time many large wild animals, but why Homo sapiens can defeat them, some people think that it is natural selection, the impact of climate change, some people think that climate change is not enough to make these large animals extinct, Homo sapiens learned to use fire, helped them hunt, and at the same time, the large wild animals in Australia think that Homo sapiens is a small animal that can not pose a threat to them, and it may also be the impact of the climate, which has led to the extinction of large wild animals in Australia.

Whether it is social, economic or cultural, in the process of similar changes, human beings have formed their own model, the emergence of the agricultural age, relatively speaking, did not make their lives easier, they need to plant wheat, rice and corn, need to bend down to plant seedlings, watering, insect removal, so the evolution of cervical spondylosis and other diseases. The previous barter method could not meet the needs of people's lives, and money and banks appeared. All these things have their most essential reasons, because they are needed, and therefore they appear.

At the end of the article, we talked about happiness, a person's definition of happiness is inevitably different, this is that there is always a kind of person in the world who is smart without learning, and happy without money, but that person is by no means you. Since we have evolved over thousands of years to become what we are today, we may be much happier if we look at things from a broader perspective in life.

1. Hongbi "The Order of Time".

Time passes faster in the mountains than at sea level. Is this surprising? But that's how the world works. In some places, time passes a little slower, in others it passes a little faster.

In our intuition, time is cosmicly unified, flowing steadily from the past to the future, and can be measured by clocks. Rovelli reveals to us a strange universe where the qualities of time collapse one by one, and at the most basic level, time disappears. He tells us that our perception of the passage of time depends on our perspective ......

2. "Guns, Germs, and Steel".

The problems of the first and backward civilizations, the development and retrogression of society, and so on, have always been major issues of concern to mankind. In this regard, Western society generally believes that the advanced technology, perfect social class, and blossoming cultural achievements of Western countries have jointly created the superiority of Western civilization over other countries and determined the status of Western domination in the world, and even believe that the superiority of Western races is ultimately determined. Guns, Germs, and Steel tells us that the answer is not.

It's subversive ...

3, "Cognitive Breakthrough".

6 important propositions related to life, 33 realistic truths that subvert cognition.

This book improves the basic cognition of the six things that are extremely important to everyone from the source (clear understanding of yourself, how to study effectively, establish a proper view of money, efficient use of time, correct handling of interpersonal relationships, and how to view success), figure out their internal logic, point out the misunderstandings of most people, and point to the really important truths in life, so that you can open your mind, upgrade your cognition, and become a winner in life in the real sense.

4, "The Selfish Gene".

We have come from ** and will go to ** again. What is the meaning of life, and how should we know ourselves? Dawkins is shockingly proposed in "The Selfish Gene":

We are born to be selfish. The genetic concept in the book subverts our illusion of ourselves. After the publication of the book, it even caused a major controversy in all walks of life.

5, "The Third Orangutan".

We have language, art, and civilization, and we claim to be the "primate of all things", but the other side of the brilliance of human nature is also full of dark entanglements - it is human beings who have multicultural prosperity, develop advanced science and technology, and create splendid art; It is also human beings who are addicted to drugs, vendetta against foreign races, extinct species, and destroy the environment. When we follow in the author's footsteps, through science and spine humanities, trace the origin of human beings, and confirm the footprints of human beings rising from the animal kingdom, perhaps we will reshape our understanding of what it means to be human and recognize the nature of human beings. The future of humanity may be rooted in this.