Why is it said that being kind to a breakup is also being kind to yourself?

To forgive others is to be kind to yourself.

It's not an unforgivable question, it's a problem that his heart isn't with you anymore.

To put it mildly, aren't you cheap? I'll tell you what he thinks, the person he likes must not be able to be with him, so at this time you appeared, filling the gap in his feelings or you were too good to him, he was not good to refuse, and now you finally said in the log that you didn't love, so it just gave him a reason, if it was me and I think everyone would do it, it's right that you like him, but don't tell people, it's okay if you're good to him, please be sure to tell him that it's out of a friend's relationship, understand, leave yourself some dignity, okay, It's not just about making your life happy, it's about making him respect you. It won't bother you so much.

Don't think about him when he's not with you.

It's that you decide not to be with him, please take care of yourself, it's all his fault, and then, what he said, he means that there is a retention and wants to make amends.

1。Mom says it's best not to miss two things: the last car home and someone who loves you dearly.

2。Let go when it's time to let go, in fact, giving up is also a kind of love, let it be, maybe you will find her beauty. 3。

Love him and don't keep him waiting too long.

It's like a sika deer, if you don't catch him, you will jump and run away 4. Be kind to yourself, no matter what you do, you have to think a little opener, after all, life is not all about feelings, time will help you, everything will be fine. 5。

Love is like sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it disappears.

6。Even if you are sad, don't be sad. Don't cry because it's over, smile for what you've ever had.

7。Love is a matter of two people; It is the responsibility of two people for love to come to an end. The difference is only in the light of weight.

The only difference is that who turned around first and fell in love with someone else.

Because human nature is like that! If you can't get it, you won't be reconciled! Some people can't be tolerant. He's still obsessed! Wait for you to wake him up! People often think that they love someone very much, but time will tell. The love that was vowed back then has long since faded!

It's because of too much love, so it will become hate because of love, if you look at the point, maybe there will be another understanding.

How much love is how much you hate, this is a philosophy that everyone knows! Because you have hate, your love for her is still there!

The deeper you love, the more you hate, because you give too much, and the other party does not let you feel the response but hurts you again and again, so you will hate this person, and feel that he treats your sincerity as a useless thing.

There is a good saying, how deep love is, how deep hate is, it means that you have love and hate, but then again, hatred is all love. If there is any misunderstanding, sit down and talk about it, there is no unsolvable shield, there is no unclear truth, I wish you a good time as soon as possible.

Because what you thought was true love turned into a ridiculous joke. For example, if you give to the other party wholeheartedly, but you get that it is just the other party's plan to make you fall in love with him, the other party has never loved you from beginning to end, and the kindness to you is only to use you to get what he wants, so you have changed from love to hate. Or because the love you can't pursue is easily obtained by others, and you are very jealous and want to destroy everything, so love turns into hate.

It may also be that the person you love dearly on your true heart again and again. He doesn't love you but doesn't let go of you, and he tramples on your true heart again and again for other women in front of you, turning your love into hate. Hope to adopt, thank you.

Love turns into hate in order to let go of oneself and let him go, hating someone can forgive oneself more than loving someone, people who carry love but can't get it will not know how to move forward, and carrying hate will make you forget each other as soon as possible.

You may choose to start a relationship again because you hate him and take revenge on him, but when you love each other, even if you are deeply tormented by the despair that you can't touch, you can't take a step of empathy.

The deeper you love, the more you hate.

Women are invested in feelings, and men are in pursuit of feelings.

No! Unless you change your mind and don't love it! After getting along for a long time, maybe you won't be tired of being together all the time like at the beginning, but you will gradually have a trust, dependence, and a kind of satisfaction in knowing that you still have him no matter what happens!

Of course. It's just that it depends on how you do it, love is like one.

flowers, if you will water it often, catch insects. Fertilize. Take care of it. Then you don't have to worry about it fading. But.

It will be more and more brilliant!

Not entirely agree with you. After a long time, the relationship will fade. But it's up to you how you maintain it. If you keep it up, you will be very affectionate too.

It is not that it will fade, but that love will become family affection, which is true love.

Each other goes deep into each other's spiritual world and transcends the safe distance of the mind, so many times they will cause harm to each other ......Knowing this, we should be more tolerant of each other.

It doesn't have to be weak, as long as you can find a tacit understanding of your own between the two. Then it's a sure thing that you have deeper feelings!~

It depends on how deeply you love, people will become, and the same is true of love, as long as both parties remember the original promise, whether the love is on the edge or the distance between the two parties is very far, they will return to the original starting point, forever alive love

Love Apartment 3 was ordered to be re-dubbed by the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television.

The relationship between two people after being together for a long time may not necessarily fade, it depends on the personalities of both parties. Judging from what you said, I suggest that you leave him quickly, although it will hurt your heart, but it is better than him hurting you again and again in the future.

Love is gradually transformed into family affection, and it is good to get used to it slowly.

Bu is a change in feelings.

It's because they've been together for a long time.

Let you forget all his advantages.

And when quarreling. But always see each other's shortcomings.

It's a need to be tolerant.

While you are young, let go quickly, this kind of man has no sense of responsibility, his character is flawed, and he broke up before he got married and had no children.

It's not that it's faded, it's just that the two people are used to being together, and after it is more stable, there will be no romantic things like when they were in love before, you can communicate with him, because he has already treated you as a part of him, when you are his relative.

I also think that after two people have been together for a long time, the relationship will not be the same as before, and my husband and I have been for more than 2 years.

I also broke up. He's not as nice to me now as he used to be.

I also felt like it was time to break up.

We have similar experiences.

But if both of you have seriously thought about it.

If you still want to break up.

Then let's get together and disperse.

Being together for a long time does not mean that the relationship will become weaker, it depends on how you deal with this matter personally, and proper separation can also make the relationship warm up quickly, provided that he loves you!

All I can tell you is that your feelings are gone.

It's cold to say that, but it's true.

It is advisable that you leave him quickly, otherwise you will have more harm and he is not worthy of your love.

As the saying goes, love is happiness, and since this kind of love has become a kind of sadness and pain, it is better to let go, why not let your heart be free.

Since he has already betrayed you once, are you still with him???

I am a man and I understand everything he does ...

If I replaced him with me, I would cherish this relationship, my girlfriend and I broke up these days, it was he who hurt me, we are just the opposite,