How to control yourself from actively talking to the people you like

1. Blocking. Probably you don't want to.

2. You put him in a group that you don't use often.

You can do this less often than you follow her.

3. Less on QQ

If you can...

Next time you open this QQ more, you can't see it, forget it.

Over time, it becomes a habit.

Finally, appreciate your child.

Know what to do.

I know exactly what I'm going to do.

It's about the same as me, but of course he's not my real friend, we haven't met yet. But I ......

I told myself not to miss the stars for the sake of the sun.

There's nothing you can't get over, it's okay with fate, it's always yours if it's yours, it's useless no matter how hard you try.

Letting go does not mean giving up, and you may not be able to wait for the results you want, but there will always be unexpected gains.

Here's what I learned.

I'm registered for my QQ, it's nice to meet you, and I'm free to talk to me.

Whenever you want to talk to him, you can talk to someone else to divert your attention.

Ask yourself first, why do you want to control yourself, you can talk to him without confessing, just say that the conversation is unhappy, it makes you sad, and you happen to have a long pain that is better than a short pain, which will make you more sober.

Deleted his q and **.

Then go make new friends of the opposite sex.

Actually, it's nothing to talk about.

If you two can't talk. I think you'll be more confused.

I don't know if that's right for you.

According to my words (this is my life).

I went back to see the ** of the male star I liked, and then said how ugly that person was! Slow hypnosis.

And then it's fine.

That's what I did, anyway. Sometimes the spirit doesn't, sometimes it doesn't.

Delete him, or change the trumpet yourself.

He's a bad guy, he's a wolf silently.

Find a game to play. Let yourself not think about it.

When you want to talk to him, write down what you want to say to him in a notebook.

You also have a diary.

Hehe, remember to think about musicalism, maybe you just think about the feeling of friends.

Let go of everything and think of something happy! If you allow, you can also go on a tour, be sure to go on your own, and when you come back, you will definitely be happy! Because when you admire the ingenuity of nature, when you admire the wonder of nature, you will definitely find yourself how small, then, for your own unhappiness and depression, and even the pressure of life and feelings, will become even more insignificant!

He's just a little bit of a vignette in your life to contrast the fun! a Being able to speak is not something that can be taught. Friends should take the initiative to talk to others when they are in contact with people, and don't be afraid that they will speak badly.

Because no one doesn't make mistakes, it's normal! By the way, there are always people around you who can talk, so you can ask them a lot! It is also a way to improve one's own speech.

Accidental&magan20 2008-08-23 10:19 report.

The aura of the talking person is stronger, more able to move people's hearts, experts say that this is the difference in thinking, if you want to improve your thinking, you must see what position he is in when the person who can talk and why he says so, generally from three aspects to figure out why he said this in order to transform into his own ability, so that after a long time of thinking can grow into a person who can speak. If you want to be a person who can deal with people, I think you will find which groups in life, such as: officials, ruffians, businessmen, there will be some taboos of group characteristics, just try not to violate these taboos.

Here are a few common mistaken personalities that I hope can help you: 1. Self-centered thinking, characterized by 1).Hope that others will serve him, 2).

Backward understanding, for example, A is the leader who once said to B because of one thing, "Chacha asked him to find me", and then another thing said to B, "Chacha is who", he will understand backwards as "Chacha is who asked him to find me"2 The thinking of money is too heavy, and others have the word "money in a sentence", they will think that people are talking about money, but in fact, people may say that this matter is interesting, or want to express other meanings. 3.Personality A sentence is understood by the general public as one meaning, and in his expression it is another meaning, so it is more difficult to communicate with people.

4. Extreme, specific examples are not easy to give. You can also do some personality tests to see what mistakes you have in thinking, or read some books or check on fortune telling** to check if you have a personality that is not suitable for society and correct it, which will help you speak.

I don't like to talk, I think I'm too introverted, so I take her to more places, take him to some places where you can relax (such as: climbing, visiting tourist areas), it's best to call you a better friend, keep asking him something, and communicate with him kindly.

Tell him more stories about yourself or your friends, and it's best to find him first.

Well, let's observe first, what are his hobbies and interests, and it will be better to start from here.

Does he really dislike talking?

If so, then you have to observe him carefully, see what he likes, what he wants to say and hear in his heart, and then talk to him. Always let him be the protagonist.

You should leave room for yourself to speak, and follow what you say, and you can still connect with the room you leave, and you can't do it. Try to talk to him about things that concern him.

You have to talk to him more, take him to more places where you know a lot of people, my cousin is also so untalkative, he is like me. Hehe, he's just the reason why he was rarely accompanied when he was a child.

Don't rush it.

You have to care more about her. Don't speak too hard. If you are hard, she will be silent, and she will close the door of her heart.

You have to understand her more, she is very eager to be understood.

Second, you don't rush her to make a decision. Introverts are usually passive, and the pace is usually slightly slower.

You have to communicate with her and discuss it.

The most important thing is that you should encourage her to talk more and establish a habit with her, which is called warm time.

There will be a time every day, and this time must belong to her, to you as her listener, and to say whatever she wants in this warm time.

And then in this time, you can't be critical, you can't be guided, you can't blame.

At this time, it is definitely a warm time.

If you keep at it, maybe after a long time, she will open up to you.

A bit introverted, hopefully you can develop a cheerful personality as this personality will help you in the future.

Find more topics that interest you and communicate with others, communication is a kind of ability.

You may be more introverted or rarely talk to others, so you are afraid to speak for fear of telling others while others ignore you or are afraid that others will laugh at you for your mistakes.

You just like to be quiet, quiet

First of all, don't say you"I don't like Tancha dressing"Talk to someone else. Since you want to change, it means that you are still very willing and willing to associate with others.

Also, it's not your personality that is the problem. Want to change your personality? Don't dream, even a psychiatrist can't easily change anyone's personality. Is it necessary to change it? You're taking the problem too seriously.

It's not that you don't like talking to people, it's just that you haven't found the right way to make the stove.

You are a friendly and discreet person, which is very good, and maybe you yourself have not even realized it. Much better than some people who speak without their brains and use words to hurt others, intentionally or unintentionally. But you should also learn to express your thoughts to others, starting with the person closest to you

For example, if you are a student, talk to your tablemates. Don't tell me you can't find a chance, others are there for you every day. If you can't find a topic, just observe and see what other people have hobbies or what can help them.

If it really doesn't work, just find something delicious to share with him. In short, let others know that you are following him and that you are happy to be friends with him. In fact, others are also looking for such opportunities.

You don't necessarily need to speak first, but you do want to let others know that you're friendly.

Your actions are your other language. Answer.

Hello, not liking to take the initiative to talk to others is not a problem, for example, not liking to talk to people and not looking good does not affect falling in love at all. In this world, if you can think like this, there must be someone in another part of the world who thinks the same way. So, you're not alone.

The question itself is not lacking, and it is only when you take it as a question that it becomes a problem.

If you really want to train yourself and want to take the initiative to talk to others, then please believe in yourself, don't get in the way of face, and tell yourself that you are unique in the world, so you are great, so you should talk more about your feelings and thoughts and care for other people.

If it's not necessary, don't say it, because you'll regret it later, and you'll be nervous when talking to that person and don't know what to say. Or just pretend, pretend to be normal, and go with him|She gets along like a normal friend.

If you like someone, you have to chase it boldly, otherwise you will be one step ahead of others, and you may miss fate, which will make you regret it.

Now people are more open, if others take the lead, they will lose the opportunity, so if you like it, you have to take the initiative to send a message, take the initiative to hit **, take the initiative to ask her, otherwise all this can only be a fantasy.

I didn't dare to ask questions, I was afraid that there would be no topic, I was afraid that he didn't want to talk to me, he used to take the initiative to find me, but now he is cold to me, and I don't dare to chat with him.

I really want to message him now, but I just don't have the courage to message him so that he can reach out to me.

Get up early to send a greeting, you should always dare to do it, as long as you have the first contact, you will not look very embarrassed, and you will not be nervous Send a greeting and say good morning, this is fine, and you will get used to it slowly.

What to do Create opportunities to get in touch with it.