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First of all, you should understand your boyfriend's character according to your personality, if your boyfriend is a person who forgets profit, then you should think carefully, and it is best not to tell your boyfriend about it. Secondly, if you really want your boyfriend to help your dad, then get married first. Even if your boyfriend swallows your father's money and divorces you, you can still get half of the money because the property of the husband and wife is jointly owned (as required by Chinese law).
Also, if your boyfriend does work for your dad, you can remind your dad first, tell him what your boyfriend is like, and be careful. Finally, if you can trust your grandmother, who is not old and in good health, it is best to ask your grandmother to help and supervise your boyfriend at the same time. Hope my advice can help you!
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The first thing to do is to make sure that you are a good boy. But while this is possible, it must be done with caution. I think the first thing to do is to wait until your boyfriend graduates, and it depends on whether your boyfriend is willing or not, and secondly, everything in business is a big deal, your father has struggled for so many years to find a reliable person, if you really want him to enter the business, then you must settle down first, such as getting engaged or married, so that your father can rest assured, and you can be more stable, otherwise your boyfriend will also enter the business, and you will break up again.
You say that your dad still knows your boyfriend, that's not okay, you have to introduce it to your family, and it's only possible that your dad and your boyfriend get along
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Whether your boyfriend will go or not, and you have to take into account his feelings, whether he will feel like being under the fence, after all, he is a man, and it is not very nice for others to say that he helps his father-in-law. Men should have their own careers.
What do I think? It's better not to come together, people will be a little unhappy if they are together for a long time, what to do if you quarrel with your father, you have to take these issues into account. You let him create it himself, if it really doesn't work, get married, and then make plans, I don't know what you think!
You said that your boyfriend doesn't know your current background, it's best not to let him know, this kind of love will be simpler. After all, there is no money to push you together.
I wish you a safe and happy family!
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Let's look at his attitude first, and you have to learn to really help your dad.
Also, trust must be built between your dad and your boyfriend, so you should get closer often.
It's even better if you're married.
Another question that must be considered is whether your boyfriend's self-esteem will be hurt.
It's going to have the feeling that he's being sent under the fence, and I'll tell you the truth, so am I.
I do business with my father-in-law, and I rely on his connections for a lot of things, so although it saves a lot of trouble, I always feel a little awkward, because a man should have his own business, right?
This is something that must be carefully considered, I hope you can get along well, and I wish your dad good health!!
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Personally, I think it's better not to let your boyfriend go, after all, you're not married yet. It will cause unnecessary misunderstandings among others, but of course this is just my personal opinion. It's up to you to decide.
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Yes, the future will be a family, so that your boyfriend has the opportunity to communicate with your dad more
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Let's be honest . There are many disadvantages to working together.
I'll talk about it when I get married later. Not good now.
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It's okay to discuss it with your boyfriend first, read your boyfriend's opinion first, if your boyfriend agrees, and then discuss it with your family, isn't it over?
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I see a lot of benefits in every aspect of this idea.
So it's very supportive. 、
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My boyfriend's dad doesn't approve of us being together, so I should let my boyfriend talk to his dad.
As long as a man has a career and is assertive, then the opinion of his parents is only a reference. Both parents love their sons, and if your relationship is very good, you don't need to worry, and the man will try his best to convince his parents. Of course, such a man is also worth it for you to rush with him to face the resistance of Chila's family.
At this time, the girl should know the reason for the opposition of her boyfriend's parents, and then go to fight for it in a targeted manner, of course, not to change yourself, so that it will be too tiring and scattered, but to try to let her boyfriend's parents communicate and accept you now.
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First of all, your boyfriend wants you to have a good relationship with his mother, probably because he cares a lot about the importance of family relationships and thinks that good family relationships are important for his life and future. This is a relatively normal thought, as family relationships have a big impact on a person's life and well-being.
Secondly, your boyfriend often comes home to spend time with his mother, which is also a relatively normal behavior. Family is one of the most important social circles of a person, and family affection and family relationships also have a great impact on a person's life and emotions. It's also understandable if your boyfriend loves his mom a lot and thinks it's necessary to go home and be there for her.
However, when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, both parties need to be respectful, understanding and tolerant of each other. If your boyfriend's mom has some excessive demands or behaviors, you can communicate with your boyfriend so that he understands your position and feelings, and discuss how to deal with this kind of problem together. At the same time, you also need to understand his family background and cultural background, try to integrate into his family circle, and establish a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Most importantly, you and your boyfriend need to establish a healthy way of communicating and understanding each other, understanding each other's needs and feelings, and finding solutions that are acceptable to both parties. It takes effort and patience on both sides to build a foundation of trust and understanding that will make the relationship more stable and healthy.
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