Why do I hate to live, others hate me, what s the point of me living?

As you yourself said, "If you have a goal, you can't achieve it", so you don't think it's interesting to do anything. That is, you are not reflecting your self-worth in your life. Since you have a goal, it means that you still have the motivation to struggle, have you reflected on yourself why the goal cannot be achieved?

We all have our own unlimited potential, not everyone's small universe will explode, you need to keep tapping. When you are still "zero", if your goal is to do "9", then you need to go through a lot, as long as there are a few setbacks in the process, you will be like you now, and you feel that the goal cannot be achieved. But if you break down your goal, you can quickly reach it by setting it at "3" at first.

Think about whether there is such a problem in your goals.

And in our lives, life is the most important, don't hate to live if you hate anything, because we are not only living for ourselves, but also family and friends around us. Friends, adjust your mentality, adjust your goals again, and work hard! It will work out!

Life becomes boring because there is no motivation, no expectation, no desire. The way to change the status quo is: find your dissatisfaction, try to become satisfied, in the process of realization, you will feel that life is suddenly very meaningful, but it must be positive and positive, but it is not that you don't like anyone, who you beat up and other retaliation, this is not advocated!

Because you don't have what you want in your box, you don't have a goal, you're limited to the environment you are in.

It's a chaotic universe.

According to psychology, it's not that others hate you, it's that you hate yourself, and you just see your reflection in the eyes of others.

Only if you change your mentality and love yourself optimistically and positively, you will be lovely, you will be attractive and attractive, and others can feel your positive energy, be close to you, be close to you, and like you! It's like the nutrient charges attract each other, you reject others, you reject people thousands of miles away, and of course others will hate you and stay away from you. If you have positive energy and self-confidence, you will take the initiative to contact others and fall in love with others, you will be happy, you will smile, so how can you be honest?

Impossible. In short, this law is very simple, your mentality improves, everything improves! You need to change it yourself, you can't ask others to change it, and others can't force you to change it, only if you are willing to change it! It's easier to understand by analogy:

Life is a mirror: if you smile at it (him, her), it (him, her) will smile at you; You cry to it, and it (him, her) cries to you! If you like it (him, her), it (him, her) likes you; If you hate it (him, her), it (him, her) hates you!

You love it, and it loves you!!

Finally, I wish you happiness, smile, imagine that everyone likes you, and silently say "I am good, I am healthy, I am chic and fit, I am auspicious and charming", repeat it several times, dozens of times, hundreds of times, how do you feel again? At the same time, you can also say "I like you, I love you, thank you" to anyone in your heart, and the other party will naturally feel something! This will heal the wounds of the soul by itself!

Here's the secret to making your dreams come true.

Secondly, you can see Maitreya Buddha laughing every day, and after practicing for a few months, you will become an apprentice and laugh!! Who would say no to someone who laughs all the time?! Smiling is a process and way of physical and mental healing, and it is also the golden key to improving interpersonal relationships.

What do people live for? For our own sake, we don't live for others, and don't give up on ourselves easily because of the negation of others.

People don't live for others to see. As long as you don't interfere with others and affect others, it's meaningless to hate or dislike anyone, and there's no need to care. Besides, people don't necessarily hate you. No one can be a good man.

If others hate you, it means that you have one or another kind of faults to change.

In fact, many of us will find in our lives, and sometimes we find that we have become the kind of person we hate when we are alive. In fact, this is a reality that many people can encounter in life, because in our lives, many reasons will cause us to drift away from our expectations, so we become the kind of people we hate.

First of all, lost one's way.

In life, we will find ourselves more and more lost. Because we don't have a firm goal, we are always bumping around like headless flies in life, and in the end we will find that our original goal is gradually drifting away from us, and we can't grasp our own direction in life. At this time, we will feel that we are very annoying, and we may have become a person who can get by as a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day.

Second, you can't be self-disciplined.

Sometimes we actually have our own goals in our hearts, but in real life, we can't stick to them. Many people are intermittently ambitious, constantly eating and waiting for death. In fact, when I recall it, I feel that I am particularly annoying.

Because I can't be self-disciplined. If we don't have self-discipline and persistence, then we will be further and further away from our goals and will deviate from our own direction in life. When we get farther and farther away from our goals, we actually hate why we live our lives the way we do.

In the end, I couldn't find my former self.

When we find ourselves in our lives that we have found ourselves who we worked so hard for, we hate ourselves very much. In fact, life is in our own hands, and if we are not able to control our own life and gradually lose ourselves, we will feel that we hate ourselves more and more.

Therefore, we must constantly examine ourselves in life, be firm in our goals, and then move on with self-discipline and perseverance, so that we can see a better self.

First of all, the first point is to live as the kind of person you hate, that is, you have to make yourself such a person in this relationship in society, otherwise you can't survive, then the second point is to live as the person you hate, then it is some helplessness in reality that you have to change.

Because I am alive and alive, I find that the kind of person I hate lives in the right way, and I can make myself suffer less and make fewer detours.

Because many people in society have changed, they will no longer be as simple as their previous selves, and they will slowly change and become the kind of person they hate.

Because society is a big dye vat, many people will slowly forget their original intentions and live as annoying people.

Because he forgot his original intention and what kind of person he wanted to be, he became the kind of person he hated when he lived.

Although everyone wants to live the way they want most, but because of the pressure of life, there is no way to live the kind of person they hate, which is also a last resort.

Because in order to get what they want, in order to get what they want, they have to do things that they hate themselves.

Because a lot of people are getting older, they will change a lot of things for themselves, and they will become the kind of people they hate for their own benefit.

Because there's me alive, like the earth has to endure the night and the dawn, without me, who is bothered.

Because you are a 'mortal) person in life, do you think you can not be annoyed?

Person! One is to eat, drink, and sleep! In addition to this, different goals are generated according to the different circumstances in which each person lives! There are also people who live their lives in a daze! You should be annoyed that you can't find your goal right now or that goal can't be achieved!

There are desires, there are feelings, and there are troubles.

It can't be helped, because that's life. Why do people encounter so many different troubles in their lives? It's inevitable, isn't it?

Why do you think a new life cries when it is born? Because he is here to accept the ordeal, otherwise there would be no human beings, and they would all be immortals, wouldn't they?

People are born with troubles, whether you have money or not, you have troubles, the problem is to see how you face it, you think less about your troubles, and you don't want to see more and more troubles. I'm going to get sick in the end.

The solution to the immediate troubles is to go out and play more, find more people to talk to, (if there are not few) Internet is more and no one knows, say whatever you want. That way, people will be a little happier, too.