Why do you hate others imitating yourself, is it a natural attribute of the mind?

Of course, you know very well that you are proud.

Your question is to wonder if your pride is right and whether such pride will bring negativity to you.

There will be such a warm-hearted heart in life, when you help each other, on the one hand, you enjoy the appreciation that naturally flows after receiving help, and on the other hand, through different help, you are also increasing your experience. Therefore, we firmly believe that among the same group of people, there are too few people who maintain the same positive and eager to learn and follow them angrily.

As a result, people become very concerned about the gaze of others, for fear that it will touch on the essence of our pride: because we only want to prove that pride is only to make ourselves better, and that I am learning from others, only by learning from their merits, not by imitating them.

You are one of the few smart people who are smart enough to analyze yourself, which is really commendable; At the same time, you are also a perfectionist, we do not give in return, but we need affirmation to increase the motivation to move forward.

Grandma, what's wrong with pride, it's precisely because of the proud mentality that it causes the motivation to move forward at all levels, isn't it?

This is not a psychological defect, let alone human genes, it is just our positivity and the unity of arrogance.

Yes, because everyone is an individual. Being imitated by others is like being denied as an individual, so it will be annoying.

People will unconsciously imitate the people around them, but if they show it and deliberately imitate it, it is very annoying, because when you imitate a person, you subconsciously think that you are inferior to him. And people won't admit it yet, so you'll hate him even more.

I think you can think about imitation from a different perspective, and it's a good thing to be imitated by others to show that you are outstanding! You're not good, and you don't want people to imitate others, right? Since you can't control other people's thoughts and practices, why not make some mental adjustments to adapt?

Don't be bothered by this question, don't worry too much, it's better to go with the flow. If you are too worried and are always afraid of being imitated by others, which will affect your normal life, then it is recommended that you seek professional consultation.

Hello this friend:

First of all, the so-called hate is the name of your consciousness. It's something you can recognize. I hate a certain behavior.

However, from our psychological point of view, the reason why you hate someone's behavior is because subconsciously you have caused it to hurt. It's complicated. If you have been hurt by a certain behavior, why should you imitate it?

Because the pain of being hurt is also a feeling. So, can painful feelings still be imitated? Yes!

Pain is also a sensation that can be felt in a person's nerves. That's why masochistic people are self-masochistic. Do you understand?

You hate what they do, but what they do makes a deep impression on you, and people will be impressed by two things: one that they especially like or admire, and the other that they hate from the bottom of their hearts. In both cases, you can't help but imitate it, the former needless to say, everyone wants to be what they like; The latter, on the other hand, needs your own psychological cues to overcome, you see behaviors that you hate, think about the shortcomings of these behaviors, and then tell yourself:

They're wrong, don't do that.

What kind of behavior are you talking about?

This is a psychology that cannot accept sharing, and we must learn to be open-minded, learn to share our benefits, and be willing to share.

It must be a feeling that the sense of space has been encroached upon.

You should still be a student, in fact, it's nothing, suggesting that you should be generous, encourage yourself to share good things, and be a popular person, wouldn't it be good?

I believe that this feeling of lack of security still comes from "not enough", like a gambler who does not have many chips, you hold on to the chips in your hand, but you don't know that these are not all you have, but you are blinded by this feeling of "poverty", and you are too anxious about your own resources.

Your knowledge, insight, and even just that eye for buying good things is something that others can't imitate, and you have far more than you think. Be optimistic, learn to sublimate the inner height, health and wisdom that is a person's real capital.

Do you decide that you are not perfect or inferior to others in many areas?

Because you're supposed to be a person with a lot of personality, you don't like this kind of behavior very much. Understandable. But you can try to have an atmosphere of "often imitated, but never surpassed", so that you will not annoy yourself with the behavior of others.

When others imitate themselves, many people get angry. This is an indication that the mind is not mature enough. Someone imitates the fact that it is at least worthy of being imitated by others.

Everyone has their own habits and hobbies, but some people are bored to learn from you, some people want to get your attention, and others are incomprehensible.

It may be that your movements are more offbeat, or more noticeable, and imitating your movements can bring fun to everyone;

There is also the fact that you are more easy-going, people like to tease you, and your popularity is good.

As for ridicule, it depends on your reaction, if you are also happy, others are naturally not laughing, if you are resistant, others still imitate you like this, it is disrespectful.

Maybe the small actions of your mannerisms in social life are particularly funny. So sometimes people keep guessing and imitating your movements. In fact, he should think it is funny in his heart, but in fact, he does not also belong, if we look at it from our point of view, it can be understood that he is laughing at us.

But maybe you're doing it. It's more interesting to make others look at it, but the clown on stage will be imitated by many people because they are putting on a show. Actors are not those clowns, they can't avoid some things.

I think it's laughing at me, so I feel very uncomfortable, I don't think it's okay, don't care too much about other people's eyes. As long as you're happy. What are you doing?

I'm in someone else's world, and I tell you about myself. Go forward broadly. Because on the wide road, there will be some residue that cannot be avoided, so ignore him.

Maybe it's a joke, maybe it's a mockery. It depends on what kind of action is being imitated.

Isn't your action too eye-catching? That's why everyone likes to imitate?

Congratulations, your move has become a trend.

It's normal, I also hate being imitated, I usually tell several people before I do something, let the people around me know that I'm the first person to do it, and I want to be unique and have my own style.

You don't observe others, so that you don't know that others are imitating you, so you don't have to get angry and you don't have a lot of troubles.

I also don't like parroters.

Maybe it's that I hate myself, I'm more selfish in my heart, I don't want other people to be the same as myself, I want to make myself special, and my personality is more withdrawn, such people can't make any good friends.

I think this mentality is very bad, because since she is similar to you, and you hate him, then it means that you don't like yourself enough, and only when you learn to love yourself will others love you.

It's normal to be in the heart, and I heard that people have this feeling when they look in the mirror themselves, it's too similar. It feels strange and familiar at the same time, and many people are very dissatisfied with their appearance. Your friends won't do the same thing as you and go the same way.

This kind of person is very inferior to himself in his heart, and even looks down on himself, because he feels that he is not good, so people who are similar to himself are also very bad, which is actually an unhealthy state of mind

That means your own character, or some of your own behaviors are not very good, because if you hate people who are similar to you, it means that you hate yourself, and it means that some of your own behaviors make you unbearable.

Because people who are similar to themselves feel that they are always imitating themselves, they always feel similar to themselves, and sometimes others are better than themselves, so they feel particularly disgusted and uncomfortable.

I hate imitation by others, in fact, I also have this mentality, because I always feel that it is a kind of vanity for others to imitate me. Also, everyone has their own characteristics, so why change yourself and learn from others?

It's a kind of selfishness, it's also a kind of maverick, and it's normal to want to be a little different from the crowd, and most people don't want to be similar to others.

Everyone is independent, and it is understandable to hate others for being similar to themselves, so let's not put this dislike out there, because others are also independent individuals.

Because I'm not the kind of person who has a particularly good character.,It's a special hate to see the kind of person who has the same personality as yourself.,Because I don't particularly like myself.。

I think I care about my own behavior, I care about privacy extremely, and I feel that everything I do is within the scope of privacy, I don't want to be noticed, I don't want to be talked about, and I can't tolerate others copying my behavior in front of me with a joking attitude, because I am not confident and have an inferiority complex.

My eyes are big and I like to blink and blink, she thinks it's cute, and she learns to blink from me, but her eyes are small and she blinks exaggeratedly, and then I don't blink again! I also had a roommate in the past who imitated the tone of my speech, which was also annoying. I don't like it because I feel like I've been copied by someone else.

Everyone else is fine, she's sick, what kind of psychology is she? Everyone else is doing their own good, she keeps learning from me all day long, she changes how I change, it's really disgusting to death, and I feel very uncomfortable.

I also hate people imitating me, I used to have a roommate, all kinds of imitations of me, what clothes I wear, she has to buy the same, what books I read, she also reads, obviously she can't understand, just say what I said, as if she came up with it in her own head.

It felt like it had been pirated. But then I read a sentence: imitation is the highest praise, I think others will imitate another person because they recognize this person in their hearts, and they feel close to this person in their hearts.

If I think about it for myself, I will only subconsciously imitate others when I am willing to be close to them. If I was to be taken as a role model, I would not have taken it lightly.

When I was a junior in high school, I didn't know what was going on, and I always said that I imitated her, for example, my mother bought me a coat with ears, and then I wore it to school, and she said that I imitated her because he had a lamb's wool coat and ears. Another example is that other classmates wore an overcoat, and she also said to imitate her because she wore the overcoat first (and then she often imitated my small movements as well.

When I want to take bread when I eat it, I put it in my mouth, and after class, she asks me for bread to eat, and she also holds it in her mouth, but in fact, she has both hands empty and can hold it completely, but I dare not say that she imitates me because I have a bit of inferiority). And then it made me nervous over time, causing me to be disgusted by anyone who said I imitated (although later she didn't say that I imitated her with others).。。