How to face the rejection of your girlfriend s family 105

Buy something nice to give to her dad and her family, remember, to buy what they like, and ask your girlfriend if you don't know what they like, this step is crucial....When you meet their families, you have to appear more honest and responsible...If you have a good income and family background, you can find a way to let their family know, ask your girlfriend to tell you or if they ask you what you do...Finally, good luck.

Pay attention to your dress, and ask your girlfriend to say good things! Ask your girlfriend what her dad likes to eat and pay attention to gentlemanly demeanor! If she refuses you, you have to try to please her parents and do more things that move them.

It's better not to be so direct about letting his parents come to your house or your city, and then take them for a few days, and then talk about it, and then let them come and live with them in the future, and then talk about getting married, and then talk about getting married.

Just tell the truth, ask your girlfriend what her parents like to eat. Just take some with you. The most important thing is to look at your people.

Don't think too much about it, just do what you think in your heart.

Don't think about it, you will only know the result when you face it.

Go for it and good luck 1

If you are a more successful man, then the other person will also look the other way!

It's a problem. Let's talk about it.

When young people fall in love with each other, they will meet their parents at a certain point, which is an exciting and headache for them. If you feel that the time is not ripe, it is an even more headache.

It's a good thing that your girlfriend wants to take you to meet your parents, she really sees you as her future husband, and sometimes men and women may not feel the same. Your girlfriend happily tells you that she wants to take you to meet her parents, and you feel that the time is not yet ripe.

You must not be rash in this matter, if you directly reject your girlfriend, it will have a huge impact on the relationship between two people. Therefore, we must pay attention to ways and means.

First of all, you have to explain the stakes and tell your girlfriend that going to meet your parents is something that makes you very excited, and you can't wait to go home with your girlfriend right away. But the reality tells yourself that some things still have to be done slowly, not in a hurry, the relationship between two people has just been on the right track, going down in a stable direction, this stage belongs to two people, I don't want other things to break this balance, two people in love need more to get along with each other.

Secondly, meeting parents is a very serious matter, you think that everything has to be done step by step, when the relationship between two people develops to a certain extent, it will naturally mention marriage, and now seeing parents will make you very scared, for fear that some small mistakes will ruin the relationship between two people.

Finally, you must state that not going to see your parents is not an irresponsible behavior, nor is it afraid to meet them, and it is natural for two people to meet when their relationship matures. Now the two of you should enjoy the sweetness that love brings you.

Although I am a girl, I took the initiative to invite my boyfriend to meet my father, but my boyfriend refused, and his refusal method was to directly tell me not to go, and I will talk about the process below.

I've been in love with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, and everyone in my house knows the existence of my boyfriend when I go home this summer, and they all agree with my boyfriend going to see my father, let my father see how this boy is, and my mother also agrees with my boyfriend, because my boyfriend bought me more than 1,000 yuan of snacks during the summer vacation, and my mother asked me if it was from **, so I said it directly, but I didn't expect my mother to understand and say that I was good. Don't let others down and don't be too reserved, keep yourself.

Later, a few days before the start of the summer vacation, my boyfriend and I went to play at a certain attraction, and then while we were waiting for the bus, I sat on that stool, and it was very hot, so I fanned the fan and casually talked about letting my boyfriend see my father, and here is our conversation.

Girl: "The day after tomorrow, we won't go back to school and not open, otherwise let's go to Qingdao to have fun."

Boy: "Okay, you decide".

Girl: "Otherwise, come with me to see my dad, I sincerely invite you to go, whether to go or not, you can think about it yourself".

Boy: "I'm going to think about it, I'm not going".

This is our conversation, my boyfriend just refused to do so, at that time I had all the grains in my heart, I didn't know what to do, so I was very embarrassed to change the topic, I didn't want to get to the bottom of it, I thought I would be very hurt in that way.

Although such a straightforward reply is very hurtful, but for me he can directly say no, not the kind of beating around the bush, I feel sincere to me, if you don't want to go, you don't want to go, boys may think more than girls.

This actually depends on your own attitude, if you feel that you are really ready to get married, then you can go, just say that you have to prepare some words and buy some suitable gifts, these are very important, because the first impression directly determines whether you will support you together in the future.

If you behave very well in front of their parents, this will be a great help for you later in life. The reason why some couples are broken up is because their girlfriend's parents don't agree, so you must pay attention to it. If you are not ready, it is not good to visit first, otherwise it will be worth the loss to leave a bad impression.

If your girlfriend insists on you going, you can also tell him this truth, and promise him to go, just say that the time to go is postponed for a period of time, and give you a period of preparation, if you explain this reasonably, then your girlfriend will definitely agree, after all, you behave well, she also has face in front of his parents.

If you don't plan to get married in a short time, or if you really don't want to go, you can actually find some other reasons to delay, after a long time, I think she should have forgotten about it, and naturally she won't urge you. If it's really urging you, then you can also go for it, but maybe you don't need to be as nervous as the one above.

You can treat her parents as some ordinary elders, just talk and do what a junior does, so that your girlfriend won't be angry with you because of this, and her parents have seen you, so you should be relatively relieved to fall in love, and sometimes when you ask your girlfriend out, it's not too secretive.

It is a good thing to take me to meet my parents again, we should be brave enough to face this matter and strive for our own happiness, and we should not refuse.