How to face the urging of family and relatives to marry? It s really endless! Annoying! 50

Marriage is responsible for both parties! Be reasonable!

For many older single young men and women, going home for the New Year is obviously a thing that makes them more embarrassed and comfortable, because for them, not only can they not experience the happiness of going home and reuniting with their relatives, but they will feel more troubled because of the relatives' door-to-door urging marriage, and when faced with this kind of problem, I personally think that sometimes we should not take some of the square stool style of revenge in moderation, which may be able to make ourselves more calm.

For example, during the Chinese New Year, some relatives came to the door, and after learning that they were still single, they made some verbal sarcasm to themselves, so in this case, I personally think the best way is to directly and clearly tell each other that every Naizhishan person has the right and freedom to choose their own life, whether they are married or not has nothing to do with the other party, and the other party has no right and qualification to interfere in Changzhong's own personal life. Only in this way can the other party truly realize that his approach is wrong, and it has caused your dissatisfaction, so that the other party can restrain his words and deeds.

Of course, for relatives to urge marriage, we should also be polite, some relatives are indeed out of good intentions, and they are their own elders, if we reply, there are still some not very polite, you can explain their reasons to each other in some euphemistic ways, such as their own affairs, career has not stabilized, so for the time being, I don't want to consider personal marriage events, wait until the career is stable and then consider marriage events, maybe I will make myself more confident, And at that time, I will also let myself find a relatively more reliable object.

Try not to quarrel with your elders.

Maybe the urging of the elders will be annoying, but we still have to try to control our emotions and not rush to quarrel with them.

First of all, we want to regain our freedom and rights, but we don't want to become enemies with our loved ones.

More importantly, a soft attitude is more conducive to both parties to calm down and communicate slowly, so as to achieve better results.

Throwing a tantrum and slamming the door, or posing as a shrew and tearing their faces, is not a wise way to respond.

Of course, respecting the other person's ideas does not mean that we should agree with the other person's point of view.

Prove yourself with real actions.

The urgency of urging you to marry is directly proportional to how bad your current life is.

So what we need to do is not only to get rid of that hanging appearance in front of our parents, but also to be their "teacher".

Let your parents often find that "your skills are not as good as you", and feel that you have really become an adult who is in charge of your own affairs, and they don't need to worry about it.

If you can't even break free from the image of a "child", then how can you get your parents to respect your individuality?

Don't think of "single beggars" as "single aristocrats", because there is still a gap between tens of thousands of worries and thousands of elegant calm.

So please regularize your routine, live a delicate and not sloppy life, and at least don't let your parents worry about whether you eat or not.

When you are urged to marry, you can explain to them that you are in love. In dealing with the problem of urging marriage, the simplest and most effective way to deal with it is to tell the relatives who are urging marriage that they have secretly fallen in love ......When you learn that you are in love, your relatives will naturally rest assured, and they will not come to you again to urge you to get married. ......It's simple, it's effective.

However, the problem with this method of coping is that if relatives find out that they are not actually married after a while, things will be more troublesome, so how to deal with it needs to be dealt with properly. 2. Take the initiative to talk to relatives about your career development achievements and future plans, so as to avoid being urged to marry. The reason why relatives will find themselves to urge marriage is for their own happiness.

Therefore, relatives urging marriage are actually caring for us. ......After clarifying this point, when the relatives harassed Li Qi to urge marriage, he could talk to his relatives about his career achievements and his future career development plans. ......In this way, when relatives see the state of their dedicated career development, they will no longer come to me to urge marriage and distract themselves.

In this way, the problem of urging marriage can be solved. 3. In the face of being urged to marry, you can raise your own standards for marriage. When relatives ask themselves to urge marriage, there is a more effective way to deal with it, which is to raise their own standards for marriage.

Fundamentally speaking, the reason why relatives are looking for themselves to urge marriage is to build a happy family for themselves as soon as possible. Therefore, relatives will certainly not want to find a ...... of marriage with a person with poor conditionsIt is for this reason that when you raise the standard of marriage, your relatives will definitely agree. However, because there are too few eligible people, he cannot get married in a short period of time, and his relatives will not bother him anymore.