What should I do if I promise a boy s confession and regret it later?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-01
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's get along first, I'm just like you, a guy likes me from college until graduation, I don't like him. Later, I found that I was used to his goodness, but people didn't wait. He took me to meet all my good buddies and classmates, I was the first time I was sick downstairs to pick me up to see a doctor, every day after work always worried about cooking for me, maybe no one will ever be so heartfelt to me again, but I hurt him twice, and now I don't have the face to go to him, missed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm sure I don't like it and then tell someone. Don't wait and regret it, it will hurt others over and over again. If you don't like it, then quickly explain it and break up. Because it doesn't feel right, it will still be wrong after all, don't wait for a year or two to correct it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have someone you like now, get along slowly and get in touch for a while. Tell him that you need to be calm, and that it is difficult to judge the answers you made in the unstable mood of yesterday. To put it simply, there is still a shadow in the psyche.

    Still can't accept it, I have to think again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To like is to like, and not to like is not to like. Don't say, "The twisted melon is not sweet, but it quenches your thirst!" "Most of the world's so-called chaos and abandonment start like this, and in the end they cry and die.

    I will send you a message: "Learn to say no". So let's be brave and go to the showdown.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think first of all, you have to determine what you think in your heart, if you really don't have any feelings for him, and you can't have thoughts about him in the future, you should make it clear to the boy face to face as soon as you are sober, after all, it is your fault, the attitude should be sincere, the words should be tactful, but the meaning should be clear, and take the initiative to apologize to the boy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm the same as you, I finally made it clear, if you can be friends, it's best, if you can't, there's no way. I don't think it's a couple, and it's hard to be a couple, and it's not a qualified girlfriend. It doesn't feel like it's right.

    You must sincerely apologize. Tell the other party not to take it seriously, you can't remember what you drank or what you didn't say. In addition, you want to explain:

    I don't say yes, just because you're not suitable. No, the other party's conditions are not good. Reassuring work, please put it in place.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can't just make a mistake. After all, you really don't like this guy. If you have to be together, will your conscience be okay?

    Moreover, one accidentally took advantage of the boy - you, even jumping into the Yellow River, can't wash it away. If you say yes, you can't, and it will have a big impact on your own reputation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This question, it is recommended to come according to your character, if he knows that your character is a confession, it is normal and reasonable to regret it the next day, then you should follow your daily comfortable situation, just like you will confess impulsively, and you will regret it impulsively the next day, so tell him that you want to break up, and each other will be neat.

    If you find any other circumstances or information after the confession that affect your liking for him, it is recommended that you can talk to him about these situations or information, and if you still can't accept it after the conversation, you can directly explain your reasons and tell him that you are sorry for yesterday's confession You want to take it back, I hope he can agree, so sincere communication is also good.

    To be honest, I'm not very surprised to see your question, because, I once had a college roommate who was like this, she met a tall, thin, and capable-looking boy when she was working during the winter vacation, and she liked him simply because his appearance and temperament were the type he liked, and then she continued to be kind to him, and after returning to school, she also contacted him every day and cared about him. After about half a year, she finally couldn't help but confess to him, and the other side accepted it by default.

    However, she regretted it the next day, because she didn't know how their next relationship would develop, she felt that what they were going to say was said in the first few months, and it was a distance love, and the boy would go to other cities to work and live in two or three months, she felt that she couldn't accept such a relationship, so she broke up with someone else the next day.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You ask the other party out to have a good chat, tell the other party frankly what you think, as long as you are honest enough and explain the reasons clearly, I believe that since the other party loves you, it is impossible not to understand your appeal, and if he really loves you, he will inevitably improve or even change himself according to the reasons you propose, even if he doesn't want to change and give up, at least he knows that he is defeated in **, so that he will not be overwhelmed, so that he will be too sad and sad.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello friend. What should I do if I regret it on the second day after confessing to a boy? Personally, I think it means that you are still more impulsive.

    Without careful consideration, it is very irrational to do these things in a hot head, and you can directly explain it to the boy, saying that the two of you are still a little estranged and inappropriate, so it is better to get the boy's understanding, but you must say it well, blame yourself for the problem, this is the best. Thank you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you regret it on the 2nd day, then you can say to this guy, I don't want to be in this relationship with you as a couple, I hope you can forgive me, and I make a formal apology to you, because I have finally figured it out now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're going too far. Then you just tell him that you regret it, and there must be no way to do it, otherwise you will find fault with the other party and then talk about him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Simple?!

    If you are sure that you really regret it, face the reality calmly and tell him: "I'm sorry, maybe I was too abrupt......I guess I'm not your thing, excuse me! ”

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After confessing to a boy, I regret it the next day, and it is recommended to take the initiative to make it clear to the other party and not delay it for too long.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you regret it, just say it, it's not a big deal, because if you want to hide it, you can't hide it, it's your problem, not his, you should reflect on yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I just rejected a friend's confession, which was super uncomfortable, and I don't know why I cried instead. I have a good impression but I can't talk about liking it, I don't know if it's because I can't be friends or because I feel uncomfortable hurting the other party. [crying] [crying].

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then I can only say that you don't love it enough, at best, you like it, and when the novelty passes, it will be tasteless.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you want to confess this boy, then you must put on the skirt, don't feel so shameless after a day.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You tell him frankly that I am a material girl. If you want a car, you want a house, you need a deposit.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not true, confession rejection is a normal phenomenon, find the reason for rejection, work hard to change yourself, and make persistent efforts, you will definitely find someone you like.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is not necessarily true, some boys may be like this, but some boys don't give up so easily, they like to stalk.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yes, most boys will die after being rejected. He'd rather look for a new target than eat back.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No. Because I will continue to pursue the girl I love after my confession is rejected, I don't think it's true.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think this is certain, this is a division of people and situations, some people are more persistent, and after he is rejected, he will continue to entangle.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is not necessarily true, it depends on what the boy likes about the girl. How many are there in Chengdu? If he likes him very, very much, he won't give up even after being rejected.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After the boy's confession is rejected, he will completely die, this is not true, most boys will not completely give up, and will continue to chase each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, it won't be completely dead, because if it's a girl you like, then you may think you're testing yourself, so you'll work harder, but if this woman has a partner, it won't be.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When a boy's confession is rejected, not all boys will completely give up, maybe they will hold on for a while to see if they can impress the girl, after a period of time, if the girl still doesn't agree, it is estimated that they will give up completely.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you completely die after being rejected, I think you are right to refuse, such a boy, I don't think it is necessarily reliable. Under normal circumstances, boys will not compromise so easily, and they will definitely continue to chase with all their strength in the later stage.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This depends on the person and the situation, if you really like it, you may confess many times and not give up. If this boy has a big temper, or doesn't particularly like it, after the confession is rejected, he should die.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It may not be completely dead, there are many boys who will not give up, pay silently, and silently wait for that person to change his mind.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's true, if the boy doesn't like you, why bother with it, the woman chases the man's compartment yarn.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In fact, not all relationships between men and women are like this, although girls are infatuated, they may also be completely dead after being rejected by confession, while boys understand that the other party's rejection of themselves under the guidance of reason means that there is no chance.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Personally, I don't think this is true, because some boys are still very persistent, and they won't give up easily.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    After the boy confesses, if he is explicitly rejected by the other party, he will definitely die later, because he knows that the other party will not like him, then he will definitely not pursue the other party anymore.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Boys confess to girls and are rejected, and some of them may not give up if they are thick-skinned, and there will be a second confession, but most boys will basically give up.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Everyone is different, some boys will continue the second time after being rejected for the first time, but some boys will give up completely after being rejected, which is also a matter of dividing people.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There are no absolutes, there are indeed some people who will die after being rejected, but there will also be some people who work hard to get better, hoping to get this love.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think that after a boy confesses, he will be completely rejected, this sentence is not correct at all, sometimes the boy is very persistent, he will definitely not give up, and he will definitely confess to a girl again and again.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It may not be completely dead, because it depends on whether the girl will refuse to make him die.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    After the confession is rejected, it will not be completely dead immediately. It is only after a period of feeling hopeless that you will completely die.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    After the boy confesses, the girl's refusal is very tactful, so that the boy will not give up and will continue to pursue.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    <> love is not something to accept so that you don't regret it. Love is to have a romantic relationship with the person you like, its purpose is not to make yourself not regret it, and love with a certain purpose will not be happy.

    If you regret it now, it may be that you like him. Or that this boy has become better than before, and he regrets it almost every day in his life. Regret is a very small emotion, for example, today, I ordered a fried chicken, but I remembered that I wanted to **, I regret ordering this fried chicken.

    In a well-known sentence in "Love Apartment", every day of life is a live broadcast, and every day will not be repeated.

    Confession, or confession, means to express one's thoughts or hearts to others, specifically to express love, also known as showing love, and in this case it is often considered a way to establish a romantic relationship. Confession can be expressed in various ways, such as face-to-face expression, writing love letters, making **, online instant messaging, giving gifts such as flowers, etc.

    Regret is a Chinese word, pronounced hòu huǐ, which means that you feel unrelieved about what you haven't done or done wrong, and you are always thinking about how you didn't do it in the first place, and you are constantly complaining and chagrining.

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