I prefer to be alone, but I want to be part of a group

You can start by learning to talk to people who are not trying to please them, and try to be as easy-going as possible. When you get along with friends, look at what they like or know what they like, so that the conversation won't be boring. Try to give others some ordinary greetings, and slowly you will learn to become more cheerful.

First of all, don't feel like you're trying to please people, just get along with them. You can find more topics to talk to people about. Which topics are appropriate to talk to everyone and which are appropriate to talk to certain people.

Of course, before this, you still have to enrich your knowledge, otherwise, you will have nothing to say after chatting for two sentences, and you will not be able to talk anymore. In fact, as long as you treat people sincerely and help the people around you, you will naturally have many friends. Also, participate in more group activities.

Identification: landlord sullen type.

There's nothing that forces you to be with everyone. You're afraid to be embarrassed. That's why you've been alone, a lot, and you start to think that this seems to be the way it should be, and you give yourself a reason:

I like to be alone, but actually, you prefer to be with people, but you're a little bit shy

After understanding the problem

You can get a job or make some friends, and this job may require a good team. Only by doing this, you may have a chance of promotion. Then you will start to get used to being passive.

You can try to say something amazing. Everyone will remember you. And take the initiative to communicate with you. If there is more, it will be OK

You say that you always want to please others when you get along with them, but have you ever thought about whether such deliberate pleasing? The way to get along is to be honest, sometimes an unintentional action, or a greeting can make the people around you notice you!

"I like to live in groups, and I like to be alone", the first time I saw this sentence was in the moonlight on the lotus pond written by Mr. Zhu Ziqing, the excitement is theirs, and it has nothing to do with me. Maybe it has something to do with being a little introverted, but gradually this sentence has become a true portrayal of my life.

Alone? ”

Yes, one person. ”

It's my standard opening phrase when I meet someone I know. Maybe you will say that people who are used to being alone must be unsociable, and there are not many friends around, maybe right, but this is not a true portrayal of me, I like to socialize with people, but, I prefer to be alone, because when you are alone, you can think when you walk, and you don't have to worry about others arguing with you, when you are alone, you can check out and leave after eating, you don't have to wait for the person with you to eat and leave at the checkout, sometimes because you don't know who will pay, it's AA, Or who invites to eat and thinks. It's not because I'm unsociable, it's just because I like someone.

It has been said that being alone is character. Maybe this sentence is true, but after reading the debate topic of "Wonderful Sayings" "I'm not social, do I need to change", I suddenly found that it seems that sometimes walking alone, not just personality, but also the same as whether you are willing to join a certain group, even if you are an introvert, there are always friends who are willing to talk all night, so it seems wrong to attribute a person to introversion and not want to speak, it can only be said that he is not willing to join this group for the time being. Human beings are changeable creatures, and the mood of a certain moment seems to affect your decision at the moment.

Excellent people like to be alone, because they have a character, and they are always surrounded by some sycophants who will affect the hearing and hearing, and they prefer to think about the future and review the past when they are alone, and they don't have the time and effort to listen to the gossip around them. People at the bottom also like to be alone, not because they don't want to contact others, but because their value to others is very low, and they can't attract others to associate with them.

Suddenly, I found that this does not seem to be the best state of life, so I prefer to live in groups and alone, so that the excitement is not only theirs, but also mine, and loneliness can be mine or not.