When do you get caught up in fear?

Because he is timid and cowardly, he does not dare to make a choice. I am afraid to face the consequences of my choice, and I feel that I can't bear the consequences of my choice! I think it has a lot to do with a person's growth environment!

When I was young, I made all kinds of choices, which had bad consequences, and I was repeatedly blamed by my family. In adulthood, I dare not face the things I face in life that I need to choose based on this shadow of growth, and I am afraid that I will be complained and blamed for choosing the wrong one! For such a person, if the people around him want him or her to make a change.

You should give more encouragement, and don't blame even if it produces bad results. Try a few more times and you're good to go!

What scares me the most is the loss of a loved one due to illness, and this year's Dragon Boat Festival is the last time I will see my grandmother; I remember that at that time, she was paralyzed in a wheelchair, her face was yellow, her speech was blurred, in the face of the visit of her relatives, she always shed happy and sad tears, I leaned on the side of the wheelchair, holding her knuckled hand to comfort, her family said to her: "As long as you are still there, there is hope for the future", my grandmother she did not speak, but sobbed more violently, at this moment I felt that she pinched my hand tighter. In July, my grandmother is gone forever, and how I wish she would squeeze my hand again......Disease is not divided between high and low, rich and poor, no one knows which will come first tomorrow or the accident, so we must cherish every loved one around us, can not be defeated by fear, no matter when, we must first strengthen ourselves in order to warm others, because we are not alone from beginning to end.

I used to be very scared about the future, and I didn't know what the future would hold. I don't know if I can live a good life in Beijing, if I can find a reliable girlfriend, and I don't know if I will return to Shaanxi in the future; I don't know how I will mix in the future, and whether I will achieve anything. In short, it is all kinds of panic and worry about the future, I feel completely uncontrollable, I don't know what the future will be, since I have experienced some things, I feel that there is no need to worry too much about the future, just live the present, whether you are worried about the future, the future will always come slowly.

I used to care about a person very much, I didn't care about the age difference, I didn't give up because I wasn't the same religion, I didn't give up because of a long-distance relationship, I always thought I could understand him, I didn't want him to care all the time, and I could be very strong In the end, because I didn't understand enough, I stopped contacting him, although I didn't block it, I didn't delete it. But it will not be possible to get back together, the heart that has been broken, and then I will not be happy, the rest of my life is focused on my career, I love life more than men, many places have not been to be, many worthy friends have not yet met, many luxuries have not been used, in the best years, have not lived a wonderful life. I was really afraid of losing him before, maybe it confirms that sentence:

The more you care, the more God will make you lose. Don't be afraid of the future, don't think about the past!

When I go to work, I do the same work every day, I go home and do the same thing, I want to change, but I don't know what to do, I don't know what to do at the age when I should be struggling.

Just graduated, working in Xiamen, housing prices are very high. Broke up with my girlfriend during the summer vacation. The work circle is small, and there is little other social interaction after graduation. Fear of the future and regret of the past.

One day when I was shopping with my friends, a boy who sang on the side of the road was very shy and wanted to sing. I said, "This man is too timid to come out and sell it," and then they coaxed me over and asked me to sing! I mustered up the courage to sing it on the street for the first time, and to my surprise, there were so many people who gave money.

Yes, time, because I am a junior high school student, I have been with my classmates for 3 years, and we graduated in the third year of junior high school, I am very reluctant, I want to slow down time, I don't want to leave only memories!