Judging from your eyes after marriage, am I right to say it?

That is, if you don't say it today, one day he will find out that you will not be more painful at that time, or the long pain is better than the short pain, and let you know as soon as possible whether he really loves you.

When you get married, you will have a feeling that the dust has settled, once you felt that you had infinite possibilities, but when you got married, you will feel that this is the possibility in this life, there is no infinite possibility, you used to feel that you were a cloud held in the hands of many people, and now when you get married, you feel that you are stepping on the ground, at least I feel this way.

When you are not married, it may be because of your good temper, good personality, and good looks, so many people pursue at that time, of course, it may also be because there are many women and men, so at that time, there will always be a few boys pursuing at the same time, so I have always felt that I am being held in the palm of my hand, and at that time I felt that there were many possibilities for my future, because what kind of person I marryed, what you may be like in the future, and you are not married, so you can still imagine, Therefore, I always feel that there are many possibilities in my life.

But then I met my husband, he was very good to me, and he doted on me, the two of us were very compatible no matter which point, so we got married, when I got the marriage certificate, I suddenly had a feeling, and a sentence immediately jumped out of my heart was, this is married, okay, everything is settled, there are no infinite possibilities, this life is just this possibility, I used to fantasize that I could meet Prince Charming, but now I am really married, he is not a prince, So you feel like that's all you have for the rest of your life.

And because you are married, there is no one around you to coax you anymore, and your husband has no competitors, so he may no longer spoil you as much as before, so your life has become particularly tasteless, especially down-to-earth, but in fact, you were once held in the clouds, you have a lot of discomfort, but you have to ask yourself to adapt.

So if you can, get married later, enjoy the infinite possibilities of being single for a few more years, and getting married means that your life is like this.

Getting married actually means entering a cage, no matter what, it is difficult to get out, and even if you get divorced, it will leave a mark.

In my eyes, getting married means that he is already an independent individual, no longer the baby of his parents, but should take on the responsibilities of his own family, and should be more mature and stable.

In my eyes, getting married means that you have a heavier responsibility, you have to take care of your partner, and you also have to take some responsibility for your partner's family.

It means that the free life is over, and after getting married, two people will live together, and they will have children in the future, so they can't be so free.

Getting married actually means that you have a new family, and your sense of responsibility and obligations is getting heavier and heavier.

It means that you have your own family, and you also have the goal and motivation to struggle.