What is it like to have a boyfriend?

My boyfriend asks me all the time: What are you doing? I was just talking to my boss, and it took 2 minutes to talk and 20 minutes to debrief him.

I read a Zhihu answer, read it for 5 minutes, and it took him 30 minutes to explain. I was on my way to the bathroom and came back to explain why I had just replied to him late. This kind of thing happens 24 times 7 every day.

I can't stand it anymore.

I felt very tired, I felt like a supermaster, and I talked about a sensitive and suspicious girlfriend. It's not romantic at all.

You are careful in every word and every step of my boyfriend, you are afraid that he will be angry, and you are afraid that he will think too much. He hung up on you, you put down what you were doing and ran away, you pulled him to tears, crying breathlessly, finally reconciled, you were full of joy and began to be cautious. After many years, you think about it, ah, it turns out that he doesn't love me.

I feel like I live like a boy, and the other person needs my care and protection, and I am tired every day.

I have a boyfriend who is very good and rolls his eyes from time to time, and there is always a feeling of doubt on his face. The reasons for quarrels and breakups are incomprehensible, in short, it doesn't feel like a normal person is in love. You've seen breakups on the following grounds:

Isn't the salted egg you bought the brand I usually eat"? Right! That's what it's like to have a boyfriend who is very good, and I'm always confused.

If you have a boyfriend who is very good, then you can't have contact with men, you can't eat, you can't walk on the road, and so are strangers on the street. Every day is like playing minesweeper, for fear that if you are not careful in any detail, you will touch his lightning point. And it's like raising a son, you have to take care of all aspects of him, you can make a bad face when you make a joke, and you have to follow his wishes all the time, otherwise you will feel better.

And he is very egoistic, has a big temper, feels that he is doing everything right, does not listen to other people's opinions, and lives in his own world. When we first got together, I thought he was cute, but after a long time, I couldn't stand it anymore and felt that he might have a brain disease. And after a breakup, I will feel that I am finally free, and the biggest experience is that I would rather not have this boyfriend.

I have a boyfriend who is very good and I feel like I have a girlfriend. Breaking up and breaking up on a trivial matter, and then running to apologize, once knelt down to me to beg to get back together, and after soft-hearted consent, he still didn't escape the fate of being broken up as a man. I was broken up this time because I didn't hear him call me when I was having dinner with my friend.

Comparing me to others all day long, not beautiful enough, not big enough or something. After suppressing my self-esteem, I emphasized how rare it was for him to take a fancy to me. Straight male cancer, anyway, what he said must be listened to, it must be right. I always emphasize that I am very handsome and handsome, but in fact, it is just like that.

If your boyfriend is too much, she will have nothing to do every day, and she can break up with very small things. And just like a girl, he always likes to make a little noise to make you notice him, and he also needs to be coaxed, and machismo is extremely serious. So it's very tiring to be with such a boy.

The dull life seems to make him very uncomfortable, and he always likes to do something, so I am always solving problems.

My ex-boyfriend couldn't do it enough. Typing a mistake he typed into her and quarreled for three days. **Didn't receive it, quarreled for three days.

Hit lol and don't lay the road with him, just draw the network cable, and start scolding when he misses the soldier. It's basically a kind of feeling that you love him very much, but the love you give him is being lost all the time. From candid explanations to not wanting to talk.

Find friends, don't look for them.

My boyfriend in college, I've been doing it for almost three years, and I've never seen this kind of man. Originally, I watched what it was like to have a very good girlfriend, and when I saw some replies, oh my God, it was exactly the same as my ex-boyfriend back then. At that time, it was still a long-distance relationship, all kinds of trivial things quarreled was nothing, for more than two and a half years, I broke up with me once every three days on average, and I was forced to apologize when I quarreled with me when I had nothing to do, and I was still cowardly at first, and then I didn't apologize, because it wasn't my fault at all, and then he came to me again, and I was also soft-hearted and always forgave him.

Boyfriend 180, cool appearance, no bad habits. When I met him, I thought he was really a positive, healthy and good young man. And then together.

I'm the kind of person who is very slow to heat, and even when I'm together, I don't feel like love is my focus. He began to think that I didn't love him, and began to question me, and I patiently explained at first, and I usually didn't care if it was more than three times...In the meantime, he will drop a sentence like, I love you, goodbye! Or, I don't think you're one to cherish, goodbye!

Or, you go to someone more suitable! Bye! Loved!

I've never felt like a guy can do this, my boyfriend is Cantonese, but I feel like I'm in love with a Shanghai mushroom cooler!! He's better than all the little girls I've seen in Shanghai for a long time!! Don't do it, don't want it, I don't want it every day.

He's not bad to me, it's not that he doesn't love me, I'm willing, because just after we separated, I didn't ask him, and he was unhappy when he got home, he said, "If you have a heart, you should ask", "Blame me for not getting home, I took the initiative to find you", "I'm not unhappy, I just think my girlfriend doesn't care about me", anyway, the tone is like a little girl who is making trouble unreasonably.

If your boyfriend is good at doing something, it can be a very nice experience. Here are some possible scenarios:

1.Feeling valued and followed: If your boyfriend is good at doing something, he may often show concern and importance for you in this regard, which may make you feel welcome and loved.

2.Enjoy a high-quality experience: If your boyfriend is very good at doing something, he may give you a very pleasant experience in this regard, such as cooking, **, sports, etc., which may make you feel very satisfied and enjoyed.

3.Enhance trust and dependence on each other: If your boyfriend is very good at something, you may gradually rely on his skills and experience, which may strengthen the trust and dependence between you and make your relationship closer.

4.Increase interaction and communication with each other: If your boyfriend is very good at doing something, he may interact and communicate with you in this area frequently, which may add more fun and interaction to your relationship.

Of course, if your boyfriend puts too much emphasis on his abilities and performance, or is too controlling and dominating in this regard, it can also bring some negative effects, such as causing you stress, control, and dependence. So, while enjoying this experience, pay attention to balance and control.

It's like picking up a baby! Because there are too many girls who want their boyfriends to be all-rounders.

Won't empathize, such a man's selfishness has never been a plain quarrel and demand, he doesn't know how to find reasons from himself, blindly accusing girls, such a man, no responsibility, don't know how to face and solve problems, will blame It's not worth entrusting Anyway, if my boyfriend says this about me, I should be very uncomfortable, I hate people saying that I do, and my boyfriend also says this, then I'm even more disgusted, since he said this about me, it should be a kind of impatience with me, So I should be annoying. Dear, if you are said to be contrived by your boyfriend, you must be very sad in your heart, your boyfriend will say that your girlfriend is not particularly emotional, and he doesn't take into account his girlfriend's feelings, which is very undeserved. It depends on the occasion, oh, at home or on a date, to say that you are a little tricky, of course, you can't do anything, cute elf and weird.

If it's a public place, you should pay attention, especially if there are many people, and your boyfriend needs you to support him on the scene, he said that you are pretentious, you have to put away your little personality, cooperate with the communication between couples, make a fuss to master the degree, but also depend on the mood of the other party, mutual understanding and understanding of the relationship can last. So when the two of you get along, you don't have to be angry, worry that he doesn't like you, you have to pay attention to yourself when you are told in public, and you have to be good. Sit down and talk about how to coordinate the two sides in this situation in the future.

Anyway, if my boyfriend says this about me, I should be very uncomfortable, I hate people saying that I do, and my boyfriend says the same, then I am even more disgusted, since he said this about me, it should be a kind of impatience with me, so I should be very annoying.

Dear, if you are said to be contrived by your boyfriend, you must be very sad in your heart, your boyfriend will say this about his girlfriend, and his emotional intelligence must not be particularly high, and he doesn't take into account his girlfriend's feelings, which is very undeserved.

It's sad, being coquettish and cute in front of my boyfriend, and being said by my boyfriend to be pretentious, I must be sad in my heart, and then I feel that he doesn't love himself anymore, and I want to stay away from him, and I don't like the other side.

Hello, it is to let you restrain your own personality, or style of doing things, you can combine the meaning of contrived is about the same. Personal understanding.

Pretentiousness is "feign", that is, "Joe", that is, "pretending". There is a saying in northern Jiangsu that there is "pretending", and "disguise" is even more well-known. The old**woman dressed** was disguised, and that required a lot of pretentiousness.

The difficulty is to pretend to be like. Just look at Kun Jiao'er pretending to be raw, how many are there? What's more, when you do a play, you only pretend to be on the stage, and you can look like yourself when you get backstage, but the female pretending to be ** has to look like that everywhere all day long!

The detectives in Detective** are also often disguised, and it is not easy to pretend to be, but they are much more comfortable. But--no matter how difficult it is, no matter how easy it is, people sometimes pretend to be burdensome and save some old ones anyway. In fact, if you look closely, not only "sometimes", but people simply love to pretend.

"Three-point appearance and seven-point outfit" means that women and men can't pretend shortly, but it's not much in appearance. It's hard to pretend to be like, and it's even harder to pretend to be cute; A lot of hard work often ends up in a "pretentious!" So "pretending" is often not a good name.

Pretentiousness is called pretending in another word, and it can also be understood as unnatural and shy, but no matter what the case is, it makes people feel that you are not generous enough, atmospheric, and you must exercise yourself in this regard, and the reason for this phenomenon is that you lack confidence and have an inferiority complex, so you must be strong and make yourself strong in the public.