Should I still collect New Year s money during the Chinese New Year?

I think it should be.

We have two traditions in China since ancient times, one is to give children New Year's money, and the other is to walk around between relatives to make the relationship more intimate with each other, so we find that there is no problem, in fact, the New Year's money for children is a kind of adult courtesy, so ah, the New Year's money should be collected, anyway, in the end, the adults have to pay it back.

Under normal circumstances, no matter who gives you New Year's money, your parents need to give their children New Year's money, if your family has one child of your own, and the other party's family has two children, then under normal circumstances, your parents will give each other 100, and the other party will give you 200, that's what it means, according to the different areas of the family, the amount of New Year's money given will be different, so, the New Year's money should be collected or collected, under normal circumstances, no one will suffer, because everyone is in a state of giving each other, of course, If there are people who just don't give and only collect money from their families, then there is no way to do it.

If someone else gives you the New Year's money, you don't accept it, but the other party collects your family's New Year's money, isn't this a loss, and there is the New Year's money that should be collected, and you must not collect it when you shouldn't collect it, otherwise accepting it is equivalent to owing everyone a favor, and you will always have to pay it back in the future, I once suffered this kind of loss.

At that time, my mother's classmates came to my grandmother's house to visit the New Year, and it happened that my mother and I were there, and she gave me 200 yuan at that time, at that time I first refused, and then I thought that my mother knew about it, but after she left, I found that my mother didn't notice it at all, and then I did pay the price for the 200 yuan, at that time, because my family was in the city and they were townships, I needed to help her go to the bank and the railway bureau to deposit money, and I ran several times, but there was no way, who made it wrong at that time.

Therefore, the New Year's money that should be collected is still collected, and the one that should not be collected is forgotten.

Let's talk about me, and my husband is not the same place, every year for the New Year to give my mother-in-law 1000 is the New Year's fee, she to the first day of the new year and then send us a 600 red envelope, is considered to be the New Year's money, although it is not good for me, out of etiquette I should still express it, especially this year, the economy is tight, the New Year's money is a set of credit cards, tangled for a while, thinking about not giving, but think about the New Year, because don't make the old man unhappy, or give, at the same time my mother also gave, However, my mother will return with the child's New Year's money for his birthday, etc., and usually give it. My mother-in-law is rightly going on. The child's birthday is one hundred and two hundred.

Because she said that it is not easy for her to make money, and she is reluctant to spend money on anyone, not even her granddaughter. In fact, she has more money than my parents, which may be the difference between my mother-in-law and my mother.

You can collect it, what the elders give is the heart, you can receive the warmth, you can give the New Year's money given by the elders in another way, plus your own filial piety, and return it!

There is a saying that the elders dare not resign. In the eyes of the elderly, you are a child, even if you are married and have your own children.

If you really don't want to go, you can buy some gifts for the elderly, which is definitely much better than rejecting the red envelope from the elderly outright. Huai manuscript is positive.

First, should the elders have red envelopes, because the traditional virtues of our country are very good, and it is natural for the juniors to respect their elders