Approaching the age of 30 and achieving nothing, do I still have any hope of turning my ordinary lif

Updated on society 2024-04-30
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, as long as you have the heart to change, let alone thirty years old, fifty years old is not too late.

    Isn't Luo Zijun in the recently popular TV series "The First Half of My Life" an example, although it is a TV series and not real life, but the TV series is derived from life and is higher than life. There are plenty of examples of that kind of inspirational in real life, aren't they? I have been working as a security guard at Peking University, and I have been admitted to Peking University as a graduate student.

    Let's talk about an example around me, my friend, who should have been in his thirties at the time, left his job at home, and later became pregnant and gave birth to a child, only his husband earned money at home, and he had a mortgage and a car loan. But then she felt that she couldn't live like this, and that I had to change my life. So when the baby was still relatively young, he borrowed money to open a small store, and then flew to South Korea every month to buy clothes and cosmetics for everyone.

    Busy until late every day, it is said that the day of going to purchase, that is only three or four hours a day to sleep, she is from one hundred and sixty pounds to less than one hundred pounds now, and then the business in the store is getting better and better, and now there are several branches, and the days are also chic and chic.

    Sometimes, people either can't change their lives, or they don't make up their minds and don't act on them. If you want to turn around your life, then you have to tell yourself how I can do it, and act. Don't fantasize day by day, then it will never be reversed.

    Work hard, you never know how good you are, and when the days are good in the future, you will be grateful to yourself for working so hard and fighting so hard at that time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are many people who have achieved nothing, and you are not the only one.

    If you want to stand out, you have to find the direction of your life.

    Thirty years old is actually an age to have your own life plan. This age can't be said to be young, so have you thought about what kind of life you want to live in the future?

    Some people say that it's a bit too early to think about life in the future or even old age, but I don't think it's too early. You will work in whatever direction you want to live in life.

    The state has a five-year plan, so can we make a five-year plan for ourselves? Life must be spent in an orderly manner, of course, you can also spend it in a mess, but in the end you will not achieve your goal. Or even can't find your goal.

    We have a plan, but the plan still has to be done in a down-to-earth way. What should we do now, should we change or continue to go the way we are now. Everything has to be thought through.

    When you change your mind, your life changes. It's not chicken soup for the soul, it's a very realistic thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're not the only one who can't achieve anything at the age of 30, so adjusting your mindset and taking your time is the king.

    When many people reach the age of 30, they still don't know their employment tendencies, and they are very casual in a store as a clerk to live a life, and they don't know which industry they are really suitable for. Or because he wanted to pursue the pure land of psychology and went to another country, not for fame and fortune, he embarked on an expedition.

    These behaviors are examples of the thousands of people we can see in this life. You should be glad that you are now reflecting on this issue. If you're already working in an industry, then you concentrate on it, and the famous oil magnate Henry, who was originally just an oil worker, only invented machines because he suddenly realized that if the oil drips down less, then it would save a lot of money.

    In the end, it was successful in this industry.

    So if you want to be successful, you must be calm and be able to concentrate on learning to do things in your own industry. Use your momentary inspiration to accomplish what you want to do. There are people from all walks of life, so don't treat it well because you think this industry is bad.

    Just envy people who work in other industries, and think that they are easy or do a decent job with a high salary.

    At the age of 30, you are in your best years, and it is never too late to start, as long as it is good for you, you can do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Confusion comes from within, and once you don't have any confusion in your heart, everything is so clear.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Thirty is not false at all, but it specifically refers to successful people. The average person can spell out a world at the age of 30, which is a very small part. Don't be discouraged and seize the opportunity, it's a very young time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Well, although it is thirty and standing, in fact, most of them are 30 and do not stand up, or grasp their own Zhihu opportunity, well, plan the route of life, and find a girl you love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be confused, let yourself be professional, not professional enough so not excellent! Learning is important! Learn more and make yourself stronger! Then the opportunity will come to you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You still have to grasp your own Zhihu opportunity, well, plan well.

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