Should you choose a warm family or a free soul?

If it were me, I would choose free souls. I like a saying very much, life is precious, love is more valuable, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown away.

Living alone, perhaps there is some loneliness, living alone in an empty room, eating alone, sleeping alone, being wronged outside, coming home without a shoulder to rely on, no noise from children, no nagging from mother-in-law, only infinite great silence.

Thinking of this loneliness, I have also been a little shaken, and I have also had a trace of yearning when I think of those warm families. However, the seemingly warm family hides one huge contradiction after another, such as the indifference of the husband, such as the pickiness of the mother-in-law, such as the incessant nagging of the seven aunts and eight aunts, such as endless family trivialities, husband and wife quarrels, children quarreling, and their other half, from the initial sweetness, to the end they look at each other and get rid of each other, and they can't get rid of it.

I think that kind of family life, although I live in a collective, although I don't feel lonely, but I have completely lost myself, we are busy, living more and more like a standard Chinese-style aunt, from the original hate of mother's nagging, gradually become the same as mother's nagging, in the Chinese-style relationship, a lifetime of imprisonment.

Every time I think of this, I will be more determined, unswervingly choose to be single for a lifetime, I can age gracefully, although it is an incomplete woman who has not given birth to children, but for me, I will not have any regrets, because my life is not pinned on the next generation, I really live my life, my life because I did not waste too much time on the family, I can double the wonderful myself.

I love freedom, even if it's lonely. I don't need the warmth of my home because I am the sun myself.

This should depend on whether there is such a person who makes you willing to give up your free soul and choose a warm family. If you only meet people who make you feel that you can make do with your life, then it is better to be free like the wind alone, if you can meet the destined person, then even if you repeat firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, you are willing.

Looking at a single dog like me now, it is more important to have a free soul, probably because I haven't met the right person, and I will feel that my life is too comfortable. When two people are two people, they have to consider each other's emotions, and when they get along every day, they have to think about what they want to say, for fear that they will do something wrong and make each other unhappy. When you want to be alone, you always have to follow a person, and if you want to do something, you have to consider that you have a boyfriend (or girl) friend, and you are far from being alone, you can just go, you don't have to think about what you do and what you say will affect the other party, in my opinion now, the free soul is more comfortable.

As for the warmth of the family, I haven't realized that after all, I am a single dog, maybe for people who are in love, in this process, I look forward to the future life of two people, get married and have children, slowly grow old, and live with children and grandchildren, so people in different positions think differently, I have a friend, she and her boyfriend have been together for more than half a year, and the two of them have started to rent a house outside, sometimes occasionally talk to them, and can hear that they are full of confidence in the future, and in their future ideas there are each other, The sour smell of this kind of love will be envied if you smell it occasionally.

So it's entirely up to you how you choose, and I hope you can meet the person who makes you willing to give up your freedom.

Personally, I think everyone needs to have a warm home, a harbor to dock into, and if they want to be free, they can choose what they want to do, and they can fight hard, and the two are not in conflict.

It is my choice that the free soul should be chosen, and I think freedom is the most important thing.

Some people in marriage may encounter all kinds of misfortunes, some suffer from the cold violence of the family, and some encounter their own nightmares, and the husband does not hesitate to hurt himself! At this time, the inner depression cannot be relieved, and you may go online to find another way. Some people may meet a more intimate person on the Internet, who shush you and ask for warmth, so that your vicissitudes of life have been comforted, and a ray of sunshine has been thrown into your hazy soul!

My frozen heart met the warmth and slowly melted!

At this time, I am very hesitant, my family brings me harm, how to choose my feelings when I meet a heartbeat?

I want to first see if there is any possibility of saving my marriage, if there is a communication problem between the two of you in your family, you can communicate more with your husband! Be honest with your thoughts, make him aware of the problems between you, and try to ease the relationship between the couple and the couple. If this contradiction is resolved, happiness can come back to you.

If it can save us, none of us will want to take risks and start a new life!

If your family is on the verge of collapse and you can't afford it, you can look for legal protection and end your marriage first.

Only when you regain your freedom can you be qualified to find your own happiness again, so that you will be recognized by the public! When you meet a confidant online, you may be able to get temporary comfort! But after all, the Internet is a virtual world, and the person on the other side just makes you feel warm because of the language, but you have to be clear about what you really need, and you must have a thorough and clear understanding of this person, and you can't just rely on a few words to trap your feelings in his world.

If you want to have this love, you must go into reality and figure out the other person's character and three views! If you meet someone who truly understands you and empathizes with you, then you can boldly pursue your own happiness.

In short, you must grasp your own happiness, but you must protect yourself and not be hurt in any way, which is the most correct way to pursue happiness.

You have to think about this problem clearly, you must be married, you have to calm down and reflect on yourself, why there is domestic violence, whether you have done something wrong, let me remind you, there are many ** on the Internet, you don't know if you buy you, you don't know if they talk about it, do you know him, do you really know him, don't be in a hurry to do things, I hope you think clearly and understand clearly before making a decision.

Marriage with domestic violence can be divorced, you meet someone you like on the Internet, you can get along with him, but the premise must be that you really understand all of his people and prevent being deceived, after all, it is indispensable to protect yourself.

Hello, now and in the past ten years, many divorce cases are what you said, the first love is still very beautiful, but in the end, it is dull to go to the firewood, rice, oil and salt, and it is your freedom to raise it as you want.

Nowadays, there are many hooligan routines, many hooligans divorce is fake, the routine is true, male hooligans pretend to be female, and female hooligans pretend to cheat money. Be careful. Nonsense: A good woman doesn't marry twice. You have to think twice.

If you have an unhappy marriage, you need to spend energy to create happiness, you should spend energy to put it into it, and you should spend energy to find the root cause. First of all, this kind of thinking is not advisable, instead of chatting with strangers on the Internet, you think you and your netizens will have happiness? Big mistake, it may not be as good as it is now.

Families with domestic violence.

You might as well give up as soon as possible.

Otherwise, life would be in danger.

Now that I've met someone who understands you.

I think you should be brave enough to pursue your own happiness.

We can no longer sink into the pit of danger and be drowsy.

Your destiny is in your own hands.

Be brave enough to stand up and change!

If you encounter domestic violence, you can choose to call the police, and if you still do not repent after calling the police, you can choose to divorce. But the people you meet on the Internet must have a good understanding in reality, you can try to communicate first, there is still a difference between the Internet and reality.

You feel like everything about you is familial, including the soul. It means that you are mature. There is a sense of responsibility.

Understand that family is everything. As a man. It is the responsibility of one's family to live a happy life.

Home is a warm harbor and the starting point of our struggle.

I think you are right in thinking this way, we work hard for our families, for a better future, for our loved ones to have a better life.

In the future, the burden of acceptance will be shouldered, and what will the family do to take back responsibility? You will feel like you belong to the family. And of course, the soul.

Many times, if you feel that you are everything in your family, you have to take good care of your body, because you are the most important person.

It shows that you pay too much attention to the importance of family, and everything is in the family.

I think it's okay, so you have a sense of responsibility.

I also think that everything is family-oriented, including the soul home, which is the most important thing, and if there is no family, it is very lonely.

Is it that your family has put a lot of pressure on you to express your thoughts freely, so let's communicate well.

I don't think it's right, people are independent individuals, everything you have is your own.

This proves that you are a person with a great sense of family responsibility and a person who abides by the morality of marriage.

It may be related to what you have experienced, and when you were a child, your parents or others may have raised you to be family-oriented.

It turns out that you choose to be free to do what you like, and to pursue the person you like, then you naturally have to maintain family harmony and take on the responsibility of the family. Then I don't know what kind of person you are.

You are touched by TV, which shows that you are also a temperamental person. Is there a choice between freedom and responsibility? Maybe there are other options in real life?

When there is a conflict between freedom and responsibility, such as the first item of responsibility, I think we should have responsibility and choose responsibility.

It depends on whether you want to find someone who loves you, or someone you love. If it's someone you love. Then you are destined to pay in this life.

Give for the people you love. If it's someone who loves you and not the one you love. Then you will be blessed in this life.

He will listen to you in everything. It depends on what kind of outcome you choose.

For those who love, they will naturally take responsibility.

Follow your heart, or you won't be happy.

Freedom of choice is a person's good wish, which is beyond reproach, but there is no absolute freedom in the world, some are relatively free, the freedom to be bound within a certain range, and the absolute and arbitrary freedom of the individual does not exist, so doing what you like, pursuing the person you like, this desire is comfortable and happy for yourself, but because you are in the world, you must consider the feelings of others, that is, your likes cannot violate discipline and law or seriously infringe on the legitimate rights of others. At the same time, you must also bear your legal obligations in the world, if your likes do not violate the law and discipline, do not affect the rights of others, and even make others happy, then you will be praised by everyone. Therefore, you must not only choose freedom, but also fulfill your own responsibilities, the two are the dialectical unity of contradictions, if you have dealt with the family responsibilities, such as arranging the children, mediating the relationship between the husband and wife, and also allowing you to re-establish the family, to pursue legal freedom, to do what you like, this is the reality.

It depends on which one you think is more important.

So are you in front or in the back now?

This may be caused by society, conditions, or irresponsibility of your family, I hope you must be strong, overcome the difficulties in front of you, put your mentality well, and one day you will be on the rise, and the warmth will come straight to you!

What to do if you haven't enjoyed the warmth of home.

Analyzing that a family is not warm is actually much better than not having a family.

Many children do not have families when they are young.

When I grew up, I was still very loving.

It doesn't matter what happened in the past to suggest it.

The key is that you should form a warm family on your own in the future.

There are still many joys to be tapped in life, not just family affection. Find someone who loves you, and you can rely on if you can't hold on.

Tolstoy said that happy families have the same happiness, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes.

I like this translation very much.

Happy families are much the same, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes.

The first sentence of Tolstoy's "Anna Karenina" ......Seemingly.