What should parents do to nurture their children?

Parents should be their children's friends forever. My children are not children, but the best companions we have in life. (George Bernard Shaw, family) then equality is the beginning of this friendship, the beginning of making friends with children. ”

As long as parents do these three things, they will definitely raise excellent children.

The premise of communication between parents and children is to learn to be friends with their children forever with an equal attitude. John kennedy.

According to his recollection, his daughter often referred to herself as a "pig". Faced with such a title, Kong Shangdong not only did not criticize his daughter, but also liked her very much, and even loved her. So in this way, I have been dating the child for 26 years in the name of "pig".

In order to demonstrate their authority, many Chinese parents keep their distance from their children and look at their children from high to low. Some parents are not involved in their children's activities, and some parents put a lot of demands on their children from their own point of view.

As we all know, this mode of communication will only deepen the estrangement between each other and is the biggest culprit of parent-child communication. (a family).

I went shopping with my cousin last weekend. My cousin's daughter is six and a half years old and has just graduated from kindergarten, and we passed by the doll shop, and my niece saw it and asked her mother to buy it.

My cousin complained about this issue several times in front of me. What the child wants, her father bought it without even blinking an eye, what can I do if I am spoiled like this. (a family).

The cousin's counsel had no effect, and the nephew's coquettishness, pleading, and tears did not shake the cousin's decision. The two of them were locked up there, and it was awkward.

When I saw my cousin's bad feelings ready to explode, I quickly grabbed her, squatted in front of my niece, and stroked her hair to comfort her. "Princess, hey, look at you so pretty. As long as you cry, it's not so pretty. ”

I said as I wiped her tears.

In fact, there are many such dolls at home. Mom didn't want to buy it for me. I just think it's over.

It's a bit of a waste to buy it again (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, family) Our princess is no longer a kindergarten student, she should be more sensible than before, right? Mom believes you can do it, and Uncle believes in you. Click.

After saying that, the nephew stopped crying, and the relationship gradually stabilized. My cousin said with wide eyes and surprise.

I didn't expect you to be so good, how did you do it? "I said to my cousin that the point was that I wanted to squat down and talk to the child. "Squatting" in front of your child is not just a physical gesture, it also means respecting your child and treating them as equals as friends.

How to train boys to become talents, parents must do these six points, the first point, spend more time with men, the second point, let boys work, the third point, cultivate boys' sense of competition, the fourth point, let boys not be satisfied, have desires, and fifth, let boys habitually take the lead......

Respect the child's inner thoughts, as long as he gets a certain score in the cultural class, it is enough for them to develop their personality, pay attention to the child's physical and mental pleasure, and cultivate his hobbies.

First of all, as parents, we must love our children from the bottom of our hearts and give them more warmth and love. Some parents are always envious of other people's children, thinking that their children are full of problems, and some parents even draw conclusions about their children too early. This kind of behavior and thinking is extremely stupid, because no matter how good other people's children are, it has nothing to do with us, the important thing is to love and pay attention to our own children.

Parents should lead by example. Educate children from their own behavior. Also, you should communicate more with your children. Discover your child's strengths.

Be a good example for your children, pay attention to politeness, and cultivate the habit of reading. Respect your child and let him solve problems in his own way.

The first point should teach the child how to behave and deal with things, the second point should let the child understand politeness, which is very helpful for the child's future growth, and the third point should make the child become very cultivated and qualified.

Read with your child, cultivate some reading habits for your child, communicate with your child on an equal footing, and be your child's friend as a teacher and friend. Be willing to listen to your child's voice and encourage him to take on challenges.

Nurture your child's independence. For children, not being able to be independent is a headache. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independence from an early age.

Cultivate a sense of responsibility in your child. Give your child more freedom. Parents should give their children enough freedom to help them thrive.

Let him do what he can in life and cultivate his independence. Give him simple tasks, urge him to complete, and develop his sense of responsibility. Give him more freedom.

First, the school cultivates children's knowledge, and parents should pay more attention to their children's moral character, second, pay more attention to their children's psychological conditions, listen to their children's confessions, and third, encourage children to explore unknown knowledge bravely.

It is found that although most parents care about their children very much, they do not know how to educate their children at all, and may use some correct methods in the process of educating their children. First of all, parents must do more, affirm their children and encourage their children, so that children can have a self-confidence. In addition, the affirmation and encouragement of parents will also make the child develop in a better direction, and parents should not forget that it is very important to lead by example.

When the child's grades are relatively good, we must pay attention to praise the child, in this way, it can also make the child feel more happy, and after the child makes some mistakes, parents should not be too angry to blame the child, this is very incorrect. As parents, we must also pay attention to leading by example, leading by example, the way of education is also able to make children become more excellent, so that the overall grades of children can become better, so we must pay attention to this aspect, usually in the process of educating children, can not be too anxious, when you want to lose your temper, you can choose to calm down, so that your overall performance can be improved.

Most parents can't control their temper when educating their children or helping them with their homework. At this time, it is also recommended that if you feel very irritable, then we can choose to go back to the room by ourselves to be able to enter and enter and enter, and then we will talk to the child, so that the child feels happier, and the relationship with the parents is also eased.

I hope that all parents can educate their children in a correct way, so that their children can be less harmed, and can make their children happier with their current life. Home is a child's harbor, and we should not let the child feel that home is a very scary place because of our own overmanagement.

As a parent for the cultivation of children, we must respect children, can explore children's potential and hobbies, Qixiangtong in the process of children's learning banquet, parents can be tutored and guided.

We must choose different training methods according to the child's personal friendliness, different hobbies, respect the child's personality, and create a good family environment for the child.

Be sure to respect your child's ideas and choices, cultivate your child's interests and hobbies, don't interfere with your child's behavior, and let your child grow up freely.

We should understand the child and make reasonable arrangements according to the actual situation of the child, so that we can better cultivate.

Tell your child to pay for your future.

The main contents include: let children be their own masters - guide children to form independent personalities; No longer be a companion to the child - cultivate the child's ability to learn independently, etc.

On the road of life, no one will always rely on others to live, even beggars need to win the sympathy and charity of others through their own actions. Therefore, if a person wants to truly gain a foothold on the big stage of society, he must be an independent person, a person who is independent in spirit and action.

All parents want their children to succeed, so they will try their best to provide the best conditions for their children, hoping that their children can grow up smoothly, in order to achieve this goal, parents support all the way, but in the end they find that their children are either not mentally "weaned", or have high scores and low ability, or there is no way to face this complex society independently.

Many parents expect their children to be both lively and sensible, as well as smart and smart. Due to the pressure of life, many mothers have higher and higher requirements for their children, not only to study well, but also to respect the old and love the young. But I don't know if I have the right way to raise my children.

So how do parents nurture their children?

1. Parents must teach their children according to their aptitude. Because each child's own situation and growth environment are different, each child has a different personality and psychology. Therefore, when parents educate and nurture their children, they must fully understand what kind of character the child is.

2. Parents should be patient and empathetic when cultivating and educating their children. As children grow older, their intelligence is changing, so it is necessary to receive the corresponding knowledge at each age. Parents cannot educate their children with their own requirements and knowledge and gaze patterns.

When educating children, you must be patient, and it is best to consider the corresponding problems from the child's point of view.

3. If parents want to cultivate their children well, they should not have too much negative energy in front of their children, such as not verbally abusing or physically punishing children. Because the child's psychology is more sensitive, the good and the bad can already be felt, and parents should set an example, not to compare and not to be pretentious. In addition, children need encouragement to get better, and you must not be stingy when it is time to praise your child.

As parents, we nurture our children with the ultimate goal.

The first is to train children to be good people and good citizens. Children become good people and good citizens, so that parents do not have to worry about their children. For society, it is a good thing.

If the child does not become a good person and a good citizen, it will cause harm to others and society, and it will also harm himself. That is not only a matter of worrying about parents again, but this kind of worry and worry is more worrying than worrying about raising children, and it will make parents lose face;

The second is to raise children to be non-self-centered people. Children are not self-centered people, but will make their own families happy and harmonious. Whenever a family has a lot of problems, quarrels, and fights, they are all related to the fact that one or both parties in the family are self-centered.

If one of the members of the family is self-centered, it is often the other who is angry and unreasonable. If both parties are self-centered, then the contradictions in the family are irreconcilable, and the end is the disintegration of the family. The disintegration of the child's family is also a painful cry for parents.

The third is to let their children have a connotative childhood. People who have had a connotative childhood will also let their children have a connotative childhood, and will not use incorrect family education to force children. Otherwise, people who have not had a connotative childhood will either deprive their children of their childhood, or they will be angry with themselves because of the anger of having children.

Look at the reality, because several generations have not had a connotative childhood, and they do not let their children have a real childhood, which is not only hurting children, but also making themselves angry enough because they will not educate their children correctly.

As a parent, we all want our children to do everything that is the best. For the child, she has been trained to complete her own things independently since she was a child, for example, she has played with her toys and put them back in her place, and she has to complete her homework independently in kindergarten. The children cultivated in this way don't have to worry about where they go when they grow up.

I know how to cook and do my own laundry.

You can be your child's friend, praise your child more, he can always have his own advantages, and parents are a mirror of their children.

Parents are the most important educators and guides for their children, and they play a vital role in their children's growth. Here are some ways parents can take to bring dregs and dates to help their children grow up healthily:

1.Establish good communication and interaction with your child. Parents should communicate and interact well with their children, understand their children's needs and ideas, help them solve problems, and cultivate their children's self-confidence and independence.

2.Establish a stable, warm and harmonious family environment. Parents should provide their children with a stable, warm and harmonious family environment, so that children can feel the warmth and security of the family.

3.Nurture your child's hobbies. Parents should encourage their children to develop their own interests and provide opportunities and resources to help them discover their potential and talents.

4.Nurture your child's ability to learn. Parents should pay attention to their children's learning situation, help them make learning plans, provide learning resources and support, and cultivate children's learning ability and independent learning ability.

5.Develop your child's social skills. Parents should help their children learn to socialize with others, develop their social skills and communication skills, and let children learn to respect others, cooperate, share and care for others.

6.Cultivate children's character and values. Parents should establish correct moral character and values for their children, and educate their children to respect others, be honest and trustworthy, have the courage to take responsibility, and care for society.

7.Give your child proper freedom and responsibility. Parents should give their children appropriate freedom and responsibility, let them learn self-management and self-restraint, and cultivate their children's independence and sense of responsibility.

In short, parents should pay attention to their children's growth and development, provide children with a good growth environment and educational resources, help children grow up healthily, and become moral, responsible, and responsible people.