Is marriage a grave? As the title suggests, thank you

Chinese often use siege to describe marriage, and there has long been a saying that "people in the city want to go out, people outside the city want to come in", and even simply shout: marriage is the grave of love! Still, what we see in reality is:

Almost everyone, without exception, wants to enter this tomb, even if he is knocked on the head and bleeding, defeated and returned from defeat, and quits halfway, he still dies, dies, moves forward bravely, and even walks to the grave without hesitation. This is what we laugh at as "willing to be wrong again and again". Leaving aside the exception of a happy marriage, the mere fact that those who have suffered from the pain of marriage while scolding the grave in their mouths and still have a tendency to marry is enough to show that marriage is more important than ever.

Therefore, even though marriage is the grave of love, if there is no marriage, there is no place to die. The lesser of the two powers, whether to choose the former or the last, buddy, weigh it!

Whether marriage is the grave of love, this question is really difficult to say, but two people live together, there are too many contradictions in life, and with the change of time, the feelings will be slowly worn out. Originally, everything is changing, not to mention people's feelings, but in family marriage, it is more about its responsibility, so there are so many people who are destined to be old. That's why after a long time, love turns into family affection.

And not the grave.

I think you should look at this problem with a normal heart, the benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wise, since you love each other, each other's sincerity is the most important, sincerity for sincerity, love is home, there is a family is happy, a happy and perfect family is the best destination for women, is a safe harbor, men should take on the responsibility of the family, this is not only "responsibility is also an obligation", to give their own women a sense of security, for men, the most important thing is responsibility, more important is responsibility, emotional marriage life is happy or not, Rather, it is that the married life of the two should be based on mutual trust and understanding. As the saying goes, "a hundred years of repair in the same boat, a thousand years of cultivation to sleep together", feelings need two people to tolerate and understand each other, marriage needs two people to take care of each other, this may be your "past life, this life continues"! Love what you love, no regrets, friends cherish the people around you who love you or you love!

I wish you happiness; Sweet feelings, harmonious families, happy marriages, harmony and beauty, happiness and harmony, a hundred years of good harmony, white-headed to old, spend this life together. Hope you can, thanks!

Love is fate, marriage is a coincidence and improvisation, fate plus coincidence becomes living together, don't you say? I hope I can accept thank you!

First of all, marriage is an inevitable result of both parties after they have reached a certain stage of love, a necessary process in life, and a common cognition of society. In the traditional concept of China, filial piety is the first, and no one is greater, so marriage is the fruit of love, and it is the mission of everyone to have children and continue the offspring!

Secondly, marriage is a combination of two genders, and people as higher animals have seven emotions and six desires, same-sex rejection, opposite-sex attraction is a natural law, men and women come together for their own physiological needs, ancient men can be wives and concubines in groups, today's society advocates monogamy, but also a period of freedom of love, so most couples are free to love and get married, is you and I will.

Moreover, human beings have lived in groups since ancient times, and in ancient times it may have been just for survival, but since the development of society, human beings can completely survive independently, but the spiritual world of people is still lonely after all, so men and women choose to get married, but also to find a long-term spiritual partner for each other, rely on each other to help each other, and live a lifetime.

So, in my personal opinion, marriage can be a good destination for love, and marriage is the grave of love is too absolute! Now is the era of freedom of love, freedom of marriage, marriage is just a manifestation of love, just a process and form, if the marriage is unhappy, then you can choose to give up, start over, each other will not become a stumbling block to give up, free and easy, optimistic, positive response, rather than barely maintaining, compromise! The success or failure of a marriage depends entirely on the conduct and attitude of both parties, not on the marriage itself!

Marriage is the cause of the intersection of two people, but it is neither the result of the grave of love, nor the result of the fate of love, it depends on how we operate, we can't completely deny marriage because we can't operate, it can be said that marriage needs to be learned, we need to understand human nature, we need to find the essence of the problem, try how to get along with people better, try to tolerate and understand, and try to put ourselves in each other's shoes to consider the problem.

Of course, we are not gods, we can't be perfect, but we must try our best to solve the problem, cold violence and senseless quarrels can only make the problem serious, so it is very important to communicate, understand the needs of the other party, explain and understand their own needs, and find a relatively fair and reasonable way to solve the problem, is the key, isn't our life the same, we have to solve all kinds of problems every day, marriage is the same, if there is a problem, it must be solved, don't wait for it to become an irreconcilable contradiction, irreparable, that may really become the grave of love.

I think so, because there are a lot of people who are unhappy in their marriages and they are miserable, so there is this statement.

Not at all. Mainly because there are some people who find themselves not as happy as when they were in love, and after entering the marriage, the two people will no longer cherish each other, so it feels like a grave.

It's definitely not a grave, some people will become very happy after getting married, and the other party will also care about their own thoughts and will spoil themselves as a child.