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I think the crux of the matter is not how much he loves you, but what kind of person he is, if he can be a model husband and a model father after marriage, there is no personality and other problems. The person who loves you like this must be cherished. A woman must find someone who is truly in love with her in order to be happy.
And you don't have a crush on you right now. Who and what kind of person are you? Have you ever been very obsessed with someone, or are you very obsessed with some love story, and you are bent on finding such a husband.
If you like a certain celebrity idol doesn't count) If not, it proves that you are not the kind of person who will lose yourself in love, and you should be happy if you marry your current boyfriend. I'm afraid that you are full of all kinds of fantasies about love, and after getting married, you still don't feel for your husband, and you may love someone else. Such a marriage is not desirable.
In fact, as long as a man is good to himself and is a good person himself, it is good to be a husband.
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A marriage without feelings is not related to happiness. Couples in love should be happy with each other, two hearts holding each other, flowers before the moon, and telling each other their heartfelt feelings... After entering the marriage hall, the husband and wife should love each other, help each other, respect each other, and be intimate...
In the past, arranged marriages made the man and woman never see each other even before marriage, so they could only gradually develop their relationship after marriage... It is now a society of free love, and both men and women have full choice. Many young couples break up because they understand...
Although he is very good to you, if you have no feelings for him, then please don't rush into marriage, love is not a little hypocritical and reluctant. As for the man who proposes to break up, he may be looking for death and life, you should beg his elders to persuade him in advance and explain to him the truth that "a twisted melon is not sweet". As a knowledgeable young man in the new era, I believe he will figure it out.
Friend: I wish you happiness!
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If you really don't like it, just give up! Because an unhappy marriage will affect you, and at the same time affect your next generation, so everything must be thought about and many times you have to make your own decisions. Even if you are reluctant to be with him because of everyone's affection, if you meet a man you love very much in the future, you will be miserable, and it will hurt both families at that time!
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I don't think so. My mom didn't have any feelings for my dad. In the end, it was a divorce. It's just the children who are hurt.
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If one party has feelings, they will slowly cultivate the feelings of the other party. Take your time, it will feel like it will be. Being loved is a kind of happiness and the foundation of family stability in the future.
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Not happy! How can a marriage without feeling be happy It is impossible to be happy...
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Such people don't really love you and don't think about things from your point of view at all. You have to think about it carefully, otherwise you will regret it for the rest of your life.
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There is no need to maintain, and if two people do not feel a little happy after being together, it proves that it is not appropriate for two people to be together, so they must choose to separate.
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There is no need to maintain a marriage like this, because without a happy marriage, we have no incentive to maintain another marriage, and if we want to maintain it, it can only be maintained if the marriage can bring us a lot of happiness. But if you can't even do this, and you can maintain it, your life will be too painful.
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No. Because a marriage without a little happiness is painful, I don't feel the need to maintain it.
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Of course, there is no need to maintain this, because the purpose of marriage is to make your other person, your other half, feel happy, and you are also happy, so there is no need to maintain a marriage that is not happy at all after marriage, and it is really irresponsible to yourself.
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There is no need to maintain a marriage without a little happiness, because it is not particularly healthy for you, the other person, or even your children, to live in such an environment.
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Is it necessary to maintain a marriage without a little happiness? I feel that since there is no sense of happiness, it means that the relationship between the two of you has reached a very dangerous patient, so I don't think there is any need to maintain it. The feelings have been completely dispersed. So there is no need to maintain.
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There is no need for such a marriage to continue, it is necessary to divorce in time, and people must be happy for a lifetime.
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There is no need to maintain it. Because such a marriage has no meaning, it is a torment for both people.
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If you don't have a little happiness in your marriage, don't you feel like you can't go on? Then find out if there is a need to persevere?
If there is no need to persevere, and there is no reason for you to persevere, then I suggest you let go and give yourself a chance!
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If there is no happiness in the marriage and the relationship with the husband is very estranged, I think I can try to redeem it, I can go shopping and dating together like falling in love, and if I still have no feelings, I will give up the marriage.
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There is no sense of happiness at all, divorce needs to be chosen, there is no need for the marriage to go on and hurt two people, so in this case it is necessary.
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In marriage, I think happiness is managed by two people together, bring some freshness and some fun to each other, then the happiness of the two of you will be full.
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Why don't we have happiness when we get married?
Happiness is the joyful emotion that arises from the fulfillment of desires and the realization of self-worth. So whether you are married or not, there are people who feel happy or unhappy, after all, it is not easy to realize self-worth, single has the trouble of being single, getting married has the trouble of getting married, and there is a reason for being unhappy.
First, the gathering of less and more separation, farming period, one side of the water and soil to raise one side of the people, spring planting and autumn harvest, we work in a single way, the income is almost the same, although not very rich, simple can get by, now the rapid development of society, three hundred and sixty lines, the social division of labor is more and more refined, it causes a large number of frequent population movements, job transfers, business trips, many couples get together less and leave more. It is said that if the two love wants to last for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight? If husband and wife can't get along day and night, get together less and leave more, then it will be really difficult for a long time.
Most of the couples who get together less and leave more are unhappy, the distance is far away, the love is also estranged, the relationship between husband and wife is not tight, and the relationship with children is also weak.
Second, poor couples mourn, the unhappiness of ordinary people largely comes from the gap between the rich and the poor, this kind of unhappiness from the sense of disparity is difficult to change, now the living standard of ordinary families far exceeds the living standards of large families in ancient times, but now the happiness of ordinary families is not as strong as that of large families before, the reference object has changed, and the happiness index has also changed. You have been earning 3,000 a month, and this marriage can't go on.
Now many peasants have given up the two-story small building in their hometown, and went to the small county town to buy a house, those who stayed in their hometown, living in a large villa in the countryside, watching the countryside wither day by day, watching people go away wave by wave, the scenery of the countryside is not beautiful, the mountains are not the mountains of the year, and the water is not the water of the year. If you don't go to a small county to buy a house, your wife doesn't want to accompany you.
Three, the three views are becoming more and more out of tune, getting married and having children, it's okay to be busy every day, if one party because of some kind of opportunity, the income doubles, the relationship is not so harmonious, and the party with low income drags its feet, and then the consumption habits have changed, and the difference in thinking is also big, the man's income is high, if the woman's income is three times that of the man, the probability of a happy marriage will be greatly reduced. Generally, low-income people like to talk about moral sentiments the most, which cannot be changed, because without money and no sense of existence, they can only stand on the moral high ground and criticize others. In any environment, judging a person's ability, you only need to listen to him, full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and there is a high probability that he is a person who can't do anything.
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It's because when the two of you first got married, it was because of reluctance, so you came together, maybe because of the age, or because the conditions were suitable, so you got married, not because of love, plus there are many contradictions in marriage, there will be no happiness.
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Because after getting married, all life returns to ordinary. will focus more on work and life, so it will not create some small surprises and romances. Slowly, the sense of happiness will disappear.
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Because you can't get the love and understanding of the other party, and the pressure of life is too heavy to breathe, you will not have a sense of happiness.
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There are many factors to consider when getting married. You have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.
With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily. Ask the opinions of both parents to ensure that the family is harmoniousMarriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony.
Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them.
Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage. When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together.
Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot. The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.
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Definitely not.,How can people who don't feel happy ?,Two people who live together for a long time will always hope that the other party can care about themselves.,Even roommates will look forward to it.。
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Marriage to someone who feels is not necessarily happy.
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A marriage without feelings is like a dish without salt, it has no taste, and it is even a little bitter.
Chen Mei and her husband have been married for three years, three years is not a long time, but she has long been bored with this marriage. Chen Mei and her husband met on a blind date, and the two parties decided on this family affair because they met the marriage standards in all aspects.
I thought that feelings could be cultivated slowly, but in the face of this somewhat wooden husband, Chen Mei really didn't have a trace of feeling, sometimes she even felt that her original decision was wrong, every day two people face each other, and there were not a few words to talk about under the same roof, sometimes Chen Mei felt that she could find a topic to talk about appropriately, but found that no matter how she talked, she still couldn't raise her interest, and slowly Chen Mei felt that it might be that the person in front of her was not what she really liked. Otherwise, how do you feel that everything is boring, and there is so little communication between husband and wife, Chen Mei said that maybe this marriage will not last long.
It is possible to live without a large amount of money base, however, the absence of feelings is more terrible than the absence of material things.
Zhang Ling is a post-95 Fenqing, and her husband are business partners, no one expected that the two would be together, just simple partners, the hands of the two people in the business are caught, and slowly it is like the left and right hands, but the two people don't feel excited when they see each other.
It may be for business reasons, two people feel that they can bring this kind of pass into life, maybe two people will live as prosperous as business, but this is not the case, after two people get married, it is like living together, and they are busy with work every day, but it is more of a suspicion between the two, so the quarrel is often because of work, and the two people seem to have become accustomed to integrating work into life, making life completely lose the meaning of life, Zhang Ling feels, Work and life are completely two fields, and now the days are really tired and boring, looking at my husband, I am full of intrigue work, maybe, people who are thriving at work want to live together with a person who knows cold and hot.
A marriage contract is not as simple as imagined, what you have to pay is about to be your lifelong happiness, you have taken out your bet, and the winner can not be up to you.
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No, it's unhappy. Because there is no emotion, your marriage is like living together, without any feelings, if something goes wrong, if there is no nostalgia, you will go your separate ways. Therefore, it is recommended to choose your marriage carefully before marriage.
1.To get married, you need to find someone who has feelings to marry. Because I have feelings, I will love this home more and I will love her more.
Because I have feelings, I will be willing to pay for this marriage. What is Marriage? It is a family composed of two people who love each other, with children and parents at home, as well as a small couple.
The young couple love each other, and the days after marriage will be harmonious and beautiful. If the young couple doesn't feel it and takes care of themselves, then what's the meaning of this home. So marrying someone who doesn't feel good is not going to be happy.
2.Marriage is a long-term relationship, not a short-term relationship. So you need to choose carefully, because the object you choose will accompany you for a lifetime, so if you want to choose, you will choose what you like each other, so that you will have feelings and pay for each other for this family.
If you find someone who has no feelings to marry, it is conceivable that not only will you not get along with each other for a long time, but both parties will be unhappy. Therefore, if you want to choose marriage, you should choose what you like each other, and you can't choose one that has no feelings.
In short, marrying someone who doesn't feel it is not happiness, but unhappiness. Because being together for a long time will make you less and less aware of what you want? And you don't feel and don't want to like each other.
Therefore, without an emotional foundation, the marriage will not last long, so it is not recommended that you choose to marry someone who does not feel it, because it is not necessarily a happy life. On the contrary, it will delay each other and find no suitable person.
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